I am married less than a year ago. I met my husband online and we dated for 1 year and everything was beautiful until we have decided to get married. He was so kind to his mom and friends around him. Everybody likes him. However, after I moved in his true colors showed. Many name callings, there were at times he wanted to hit me, many broken items and there were two times he deliberately spilled water on me. I am always stupid and idiotic in front of him. He constantly says that my parents spoiled me or they were malnutrisious when they have me. When he is happy everything was good, but you just don’t know when he gets angry. He would pick on you on everything: my voice tone, not obedient, or the way I clean up the house etc. I have to admit I do make mistakes as I am new to the marriage. He constantly orders me to work even I have clean the house for 8 hours and if I ask for his help he will start his verbal violence. If verbal violence doesn’t help sometime he would be physical like pushing me or grabbing and he even twisted my wrist one time that I had to wear cast and I still had to do housework....I am very tired to guess his mind because everytime I don’t guess it right I become a mistake and it turns into horrible name calling or threat of divorce. I have begged him to stop but he just doesn’t know when to stop. I can’t ask questions.....if I ask why for more than 3 times he would get angry and if I ask further he would start threatening me by breaking things. I have already lost 3 phones, one tablet, and many more household items. Everytime I tried to reason with him I will get into trouble and I am always wrong. I am really depressed and having many suicidal thoughts and I shouldn’t because I am a Christian. There is nothing I can do...
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