/stop thinking about your self and think about the people around you how there going to feel if one day one of your attempts work. You've no idea the pain it can cause. I know life is tough im struggling but suicide is selfish and not the way to end your pain. Start talking to people be honest with them start with your sister she must be so confused and worrid about you she needs you. You are fearfully and wonderfully made you are special and have a purpous on this earth. It may sound corny but its true. Dont waste your life and flush it down the toilet be sombody and make somthing of your self.
Naomi xxx
Naomi, i can hear anger and pain in your words. You admit your struggling with life. I agree with you that she is special, has a lot to offer and live yet when depressive and suicidal, the reasoning fails. None wishes to hurt or harm anyone, specially those around us in suicide. It is an overwhelming feeling that at a particular point in time seems impossible to overcome but
do not see it as a selfish action.
It is not life that one refuses, it is the pain one refuses or can't cope, bare or else...... selfish? absolutely not hunny.
I agree she now must face and deal with her sister first but lets not forget the ohter members of the family that are now hurting as well not to mention Melinda herself that needs HELP and comprension and support. It will be very hard for her after having failed in her attempt and having to face not only the pain that lead her to this but the accumulated pain inflicted upon ohters and herself.
Lets try to be there for and with her ..... she came here for help and still does so........ open your hearts and let her in.
granny