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Jim’s cafe 23/4/2021. Strengths and weakness.

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JMG

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#41
Weaknesses:
-boringness
Just wanted to say, don't think this is true. At all. I think you seem like a smart and interesting person. ;) *hug
Same goes for everyone else here, no one is boring imo. We all have stories, things we've witnessed, experienced, have thoughts and feelings about, and none of them are exactly the same. It's all infinitely fascinating to me. Whatever has caused you to feel you are "boring" is most likely other people's negative feedback. Well they clearly were just not able to appreciate the specialness and unique person that you are.

Definitely thought of some more to add to my weaknesses list though after reading what everyone else has said.
Boringness would absolutely be on my weakness list, bigtime. It really is true in my case, I'm pretty sure everyone who's ever had to talk to me for any amount of time has come to the same conclusion: Wow, this is by far the most boring, dull person on the planet. It's fine though, whatever.

Some other weaknesses I thought of for me are:

- Often too self-critical or otherwise hard on myself
- High level of self-doubt
- Too stubborn sometimes (with certain things, not everything)
- Overthinking
- Worrying too much
- Very low social confidence/ too fearful of social-related kinds of things
- Sometimes oversensitive or over-reactive about things
 

Autumn1973

Looking for people who will accept me for who I am
#43
I gotta share this here too. I kinda wanna post this here, I just wanna express that anyone is so easily able take advantage of your weakness to bully you. There should be someone telling them to STOP.

This is what happened. I feel pretty mad with my so called close friend Diyana for 2 decades, for what she did last two days ago but I gave her second chances like if she treats like that to me again, I'd ghost her. I updated her abt my medical trauma stuffs cause she's usually checks in on me about my health and she actually made me cry, she's been trying be like one of those insensitive bustards claiming she's more worse than anybody else, so easily influenced which is so not good for her mental health if she's continue self-diagnosing. I’d cut off anyone who do that or someone who triggers my traumatic memory. As a good friend I am to her, I don’t contest. Period. I educated her so bad when she cross the line after i got mad "... you have ADHD too.... I mean, I bet with ADHD, you can't deal with my stressful life..." i got so damn black mate. Unlike her, I'm trained to not go around blaming people/condition when its sad enough this condition (not just ADHD) has already claims my life & losing my independence. I just hate it when people take advantage of our weakness, we are not a lost cause.

Noticing your strengths and weaknesses apparently helps to create your own boundaries that needed to be respected.
*hug10
 

Autumn1973

Looking for people who will accept me for who I am
#44
Hey, HappyKitty :) Thanks for opening the cafe. Thanks for the tag, JMG :)

My biggest strength is Autumn. She is the person I want to be because she is everything that is good about me. She is what I'm referring to when I say I'm looking for people I can be myself around. My true self.

My biggest weakness is Mike. The person I was born as because he is the result of what his family and society wanted him to be. Mike is a product of a very negative environment. Mike is the dark side of the force, while Autumn is the light. I think this is the best way to sum it up. Mike was raised to be picked on, to be a whipping boy. While Autumn was protected from this because I kept her, who she was, in my mind and heart, kept her secret for most of my life. I think Mike protected her from becoming something awful. That's how I look at it now.
 

Kira

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#45
That's both a sad and beautiful story, @Autumn1973

We're truly grateful to Mike for protecting Autumn so that she was spared from some horrible experiences. That was a very kind and compassionate thing to do. So, although Mike is your weakness, he also did a very strong thing!

We're so grateful to have got to know you Autumn because you're a truly beautiful person. And thanks for sharing *hug oxox
 

Harrow

Well-Known Member
#46
Strengths

- loyal
- hardworking
- quick with new skills
- ambitious


Weakness


- unstable personality
- very shy
- I deal with a lot of fear that holds me back
- self image issues
- insane anxiety
- depressive manic, 90% of the time
- poor concentration
- easily bored
- I'm ruled by emotions
- fear of over thinking
- not exactly honest to myself
- emotionally immature
- obsessive compulsive
- hesitant too much
- easy to manipulate

I am a INFJ, Advocate.

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I kind of agree with this. I don't understand myself. There is so much all at once all the time that everyone only gets a part of that, that I don't even understand.

Which is why I appreciate all the people that always stick around 🤗
 

Autumn1973

Looking for people who will accept me for who I am
#47
That's both a sad and beautiful story, @Autumn1973

We're truly grateful to Mike for protecting Autumn so that she was spared from some horrible experiences. That was a very kind and compassionate thing to do. So, although Mike is your weakness, he also did a very strong thing!

We're so grateful to have got to know you Autumn because you're a truly beautiful person. And thanks for sharing *hug oxox
Thank you, Kira. That's really sweet of you. *hug
 

cymbele

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#50
Today I rated as an ENFJ. Normally I am a INFJ. But I am at 56% extroverted so it could go either way.

some strengths: compassionate generous creative and smart.

weaknesses: insecure , empathetic to many people, and caring ( yes I look at that as a weakness, then I get resentful)
 

Road to Nowhere

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#51
Strengths:

Honest
Open-minded
Caring
Detail oriented
Trustworthy
Loyal
Strong willed
Realistic
Authentic
Empathetic
Wisdom
Good hearted

Weaknesses:

These are the things I struggle with the most and all the negative emotions that go along with it.

Social anxiety
Depression
Suicidal thoughts
 

Autumn1973

Looking for people who will accept me for who I am
#55
Strength -
I'm a good mother


Weakness -
I'm a very naive, trusting and caring person (which makes me a perfect target to be used, walked over, taken for granted and manipulated).
Your weakness is considered to be the strength society looks for in its whipping-boys. I can definitely relate to your weakness, Kira. Being a good person is now considered to be more of a weakness than it ever has been. I'm sorry that you've had to deal with the same issues I have. *hug
 

foreverforgotten

Quiet Observer 🦋
SF Supporter
#58
Thank you @JMG for the tag ^^ *hug 🖤💪

Strengths
  • Good intuition (I'm learning how to trust it)
  • Hard working, really..
  • Open minded, philosophical
  • Caring, empathetic
  • Honest
  • Arts and creative stuff
  • Faking Stuff..like who I am lol
Weaknesses
  • Indecisive.
  • Socially awkward/fumble my words a lot.
  • Depressed
  • Don't trust people
  • Ignoring house chores/ self care
  • Scared
  • ED behaviors
  • Conflict avoidance/ isolating from ppl
 
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KM76710

Kangaroo Manager
SF Pro
SF Supporter
#59
Strength -
I'm a good mother


Weakness -
I'm a very naive, trusting and caring person (which makes me a perfect target to be used, walked over, taken for granted and manipulated).
I don't consider those to be weaknesses as such those show a decency sadly lacking in society, it is more that there are too many assholes treating others in ways that should never happen.
 
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