Jim's Cafe - April 2016

[Mr Stewart]

Hello coffee forums,

Day off today for me and just taking it easy. Doing laundry now. Expecting a parcel delivery. Hope they don't come when i'm in the bathroom of something. I think this one needs a signature so if i don't answer door they probably leave me a note saying to go pick it up at the depo. o_O

 

[Brian777]

Hello coffee forums,

Day off today for me and just taking it easy. Doing laundry now. Expecting a parcel delivery. Hope they don't come when i'm in the bathroom of something. I think this one needs a signature so if i don't answer door they probably leave me a note saying to go pick it up at the depo. o_O

Lol you know they'll come now when you're in the bathroom

 

[Mr Stewart]

I guess this one did not need signature as they just left it on the doorstep like they usually do. Sorted!

 

[cymbele]

Tomorrow I am traveling 300 miles to visit a dear friend that I miss very much. I'm excited to be going but am wondering if my current state of panic attacks is going overshadow everything. She doesn't know I have problems with depression. Last time she took me to a lot of parties where I didn't have much chance to talk to her and I left rather abruptly. I hope we have time together and if not hiking at least play tourist and see the area. Just a weekend trip.

 

[Petal]

I hope you have a wonderful weekend. When you go into a state of panic and anxiety keep in mind that your thoughts are not facts even when they say they are. Just enjoy yourself and have a nice break, nice food and chill

 

[DrownedFishOnFire]

don't know anymore about having friends or family if its worth it....this months theme was drama with them. Its just not worth it

 

[DrownedFishOnFire]

Nice to know private diary entries on SF are not private.

So embarassed now.

 

[CandleLight]

I'm here if you want to talk, DrownedFishOnFire, you can PM me too. I'm sorry you had an unpleasant surprise about the diaries.

 

[DrownedFishOnFire]

Yea thanks for the offer Candle just not want to talk about it anymore lol its over and done with much appericated. Just gonna put it past me and move on and not use those dairies anymore that's how it is

 

[CandleLight]

I don't know if this is really the same kind of thing, but I went back in my (paper) diary and saw that I had written a whole lot of upset stuff about a guy who was in a mental health program with me. I was really frustrated, angry and scared at the time, and I seriously devoted pages to how this guy made me feel. What's interesting is that, now, I don't think of him at all. I am glad I processed those feelings, but it's almost like they never happened. So, certainly not to downplay what you experienced here, but I think it's interesting how bad experiences can be worked through, sometimes quickly! I do hope you continue to post here, though. I feel we've got a good group of folks. And I haven't stumbled across even one troll yet! Super awesome, since we don't need any of those. :confused:

 

[Petal]

Did someone say troll? lol You won't find any trolls on here as we hit the big ban button on them :p I am glad that you found and like this website @CandleLight you seem like a really nice genuine person and I hope SF continues to help you on your road to recovery. Good luck my friend

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

Yeah, trolls don't get on here too often. I'm usually one of the first to report them :P I want the site to stay a safe haven for people so I do my best to keep it that way.

 

[DrownedFishOnFire]

Thinking the accident is changing me

 

[CandleLight]

Thinking the accident is changing me

What accident, DrownedFishOnFire? I'm sorry things are rough.

I'm trying to stay positive but it can be really hard. This place helps me, I hope it helps you too.

 

[DrownedFishOnFire]

Was hit by a drunk driver high speed collision recent winter.

 

[Petal]

Good evening cafe. I have done exercise, cooked dinner, done laundry, done exercise, had a bath. Feeling super motivated today I hope you all have a great week ahead of you

 

[cymbele]

Home from my weekend away. Had a great time with my friend whom I don't see that much (due to distance). Trying to get motivated to do work at home for work on my day off. Promised myself exercise if I do it. We'll see if that motivates me.

 

[DrownedFishOnFire]

don't know how to feel today. Nephew was born. Felt nothing. No happiness. Not like when my neice was born. Why?

 

[Mr Stewart]

good morning everyone. day off work today. have been training new employee and quite tired from that, so very glad to get some extra sleep.

no particular plans for the day. it's very hot outside for this time of year (25 C, 76 F). maybe i will go for a walk or something. have windows wide open to get fresh air running through the apartment. i have not been able to do that since last fall.

 

[DrownedFishOnFire]

Bleary day today. Nice laying in bed waiting for hours to whittle down dealing with headache and knee pains before I get my arse up to go somewhere to eat before work. Its nice not having an appointment today for a change