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Jim's cafe Saturday 10th October 👼

Champagne

✯✯ Heart of an angel ✯✯
Staff Alumni
SF Supporter
#1
A warm welcome to Jim's cafe, lovely people. It is officially the weekend, legs up, turn on NetFlix, get some choccies and relax and chill 👍💞

This is all we need to start the weekend, how are YOU going to enjoy this weekend? Below is my idea of a good weekend :D what's yours?

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Some conversation starters to start a great weekend!!!

Have You Ever Overheard A Conversation You Weren’t Supposed To? What Was It About?

What Real-Life Situation Where You Stood Up For Someone/Something?

When And Where Do You Feel Most Like Your Real Self?

Do You Say ‘Yes’ Too Often When You Really Want To Say ‘No’?

If You Had The Attention Of The World For Just 10 Seconds, What Would You Say?

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ShyGuy

Well-Known Member
#6
Have You Ever Overheard A Conversation You Weren’t Supposed To? What Was It About? Yeah =X but I forgot what it was about cuz I was a kid.

What Real-Life Situation Where You Stood Up For Someone/Something? I wanna stand up for something now, but it's hard for me, I'm so shy and cowardly.. I don't have the guts..

When And Where Do You Feel Most Like Your Real Self? When I'm around my old friends (that don't like me anymore) and also when I'm playing retro video games.

Do You Say ‘Yes’ Too Often When You Really Want To Say ‘No’? Yeah..

If You Had The Attention Of The World For Just 10 Seconds, What Would You Say? Only manly men wear panties!!
 
#8
Have You Ever Overheard A Conversation You Weren’t Supposed To? What Was It About?

What Real-Life Situation Where You Stood Up For Someone/Something?

Can't think of just one I always have my friends and family's back.

When And Where Do You Feel Most Like Your Real Self?

When I'm having a conversation with someone and we connect about life, religion, politics ect. There is no I am right you are wrong, we see things the same way, go down the rabbit hole and talk for hours. Though rare this connection and the pursuit of knowledge, wisdom and personal growth is what I live for. SF is also a place where I always feel like my real self.

Do You Say ‘Yes’ Too Often When You Really Want To Say ‘No’?

Yes

If You Had The Attention Of The World For Just 10 Seconds, What Would You Say?

“The art of knowing is knowing what to ignore… Ignore those that make you fearful and sad, that degrade you back towards disease and death.”
 

Witty⭐️Sarcasm ⭐️

§ Eclectic nutbag ©
SF Supporter
#9
Have You Ever Overheard A Conversation You Weren’t Supposed To? What Was It About? Sure, usually involves someone shit talking me.

What Real-Life Situation Where You Stood Up For Someone/Something? I try to defend people when I can.

When And Where Do You Feel Most Like Your Real Self? On here most of the time.

Do You Say ‘Yes’ Too Often When You Really Want To Say ‘No’? Yes, but I try not to do that anymore.

If You Had The Attention Of The World For Just 10 Seconds, What Would You Say? It's time to start making the world a better place.
 

KM76710

KM stands for Kangaroo Manager
SF Supporter
#11
Have You Ever Overheard A Conversation You Weren’t Supposed To? What Was It About? Not typically. I normally am aware of situational awareness but what most others do conversation wise I typically tune out.

What Real-Life Situation Where You Stood Up For Someone/Something? Something, yes every time I vote or donate time or money to a cause. Someone there have been times, but the main time probably not appropriate for putting up here.

When And Where Do You Feel Most Like Your Real Self? Out in nature, working in my workshop on carpentry, stargazing, here is also a place where I am most honest with others in so many ways.

Do You Say ‘Yes’ Too Often When You Really Want To Say ‘No’? Not so much but self expression is not something I have trouble with...good or bad.

If You Had The Attention Of The World For Just 10 Seconds, What Would You Say? Stop fucking up the damn planet ya assholes!
 

MosesY

Functioning Alcoholic
#12
This is all we need to start the weekend, how are YOU going to enjoy this weekend? Below is my idea of a good weekend :D what's yours?

I am finishing the work on my car this morning. I have a haircut appointment at 9:40 this morning then my grocery shopping then working on some lanterns. This afternoon my friend and I are going to Texas Roadhouse for some steak and ribs. Today will be a good day.


Some conversation starters to start a great weekend!!!

Have You Ever Overheard A Conversation You Weren’t Supposed To? What Was It About? I don't recall ever overhearing a conversation I wasn't supposed to.

What Real-Life Situation Where You Stood Up For Someone/Something? I often stand up for people that other people are making fun of.

When And Where Do You Feel Most Like Your Real Self? When I have a lantern lit sitting out with my friend chatting smoking and drinking.

Do You Say ‘Yes’ Too Often When You Really Want To Say ‘No’? Yes, definitely.

If You Had The Attention Of The World For Just 10 Seconds, What Would You Say? Be courteous to each other.
 

Inya

babaya gayolera
#13
Have You Ever Overheard A Conversation You Weren’t Supposed To? What Was It About?
I probably have when I was a child. Now people keep telling me stuff I don’t wanna know.

What Real-Life Situation Where You Stood Up For Someone/Something?
I am very protective since I can remember, standing up for total strangers if they’re treated with injustice. I’m trying very hard to give up this useless habit and stop fighting other people’s battles.

When And Where Do You Feel Most Like Your Real Self?
Every day, everywhere. Well if I accidentally find myself in a situation where I can’t be myself I remove me from it asap.

Do You Say ‘Yes’ Too Often When You Really Want To Say ‘No’?
No, I don’t have a problem saying no. No no. And if they don’t understand I’m also able to politely add gfy.

If You Had The Attention Of The World For Just 10 Seconds, What Would You Say?
@KM76710 exact words on this one.:D
 
#16
Happy weekend everyone. Thanks for the invite @Champagne.

Have You Ever Overheard A Conversation You Weren’t Supposed To? What Was It About?
Sure. I used to hear people talking about me behind my back all the time. Either that or someone would tell me.

What Real-Life Situation Where You Stood Up For Someone/Something?
I'll defend my friends from any serious (as in not-joking) abuse. I've also intervened in a few fights when I've seen people being assaulted.

When And Where Do You Feel Most Like Your Real Self?
When I'm by myself.

Do You Say ‘Yes’ Too Often When You Really Want To Say ‘No’?
No not really. Only maybe to people who are in a position of power over me (e.g. a boss).

If You Had The Attention Of The World For Just 10 Seconds, What Would You Say?
I'd probably tell a joke. Not sure what else could be accomplished.
 

Acy

Mama Bear - TLC, Common Sense
ADMIN
#17
@Champagne - thank you for opening Jim’s October 10, 2020 Café! The treats are delicious! I’m going to try to answer some of your very interesting questions!

Have You Ever Overheard A Conversation You Weren’t Supposed To?
Two VPs at work (years and years ago) were talking about a relatively new hire who then became pregnant. “Well, there you go - NEVER hire women!” Then they saw me and said, “You didn’t hear me say that!”) Geeesh!

What Real-Life Situation Where You Stood Up For Someone/Something?
In middle school (hundreds of years ago now), when there were not a lot of immigrant kids joining our school, a girl from the Middle East joined. In the gym change room, another girl told her she smelled bad and others joined in picking on her. (She smelled of her family’s traditional cooking, no better or worse than anyone else in the class.) I picked up my running shoe and threw it at the girl’s tormentor...just as the teacher walked into the change room. “Who did that? Who threw the shoe?” I was named and the teacher came over all in a huff. I explained why I’d done it and she said, “Oh. OK.” I wasn’t in trouble. :)

When And Where Do You Feel Most Like Your Real Self?
Depends - certain friends/family, certain activities, being outside in nature, seeing wild animals in the woods. Also reading, sketching, listening to music, doing goofy stuff.

Do You Say ‘Yes’ Too Often When You Really Want To Say ‘No’?
Yes. It’s something I’m working on. I have said no twice in the last few weeks and it was ok.

If You Had The Attention Of The World For Just 10 Seconds, What Would You Say?
I’d quote the words of a politician I heard of:
My friends, love is better than anger. Hope is better than fear. Optimism is better than despair. So let us be loving, hopeful and optimistic.
I’d then add in a few things about loving all people - regardless of differences (race, gender, religion, sexual orientation, etc. etc. etc.) I might ask that we love the planet better. And be kind to all. I would note my own gratefulness for all the many blessings and privileges I’ve had/have.
 

cymbele

SF Supporter
#18
Although it will be a busy day today I prefer a weekend with one busy day and another to catch up on your chores (laundry, groceries, vacuuming, etc). This weekend I get two busy days. But next weekend I so far will get one!

Have You Ever Overheard A Conversation You Weren’t Supposed To? What Was It About? When I was a kid I overheard my mother complaining about my father and upset that she was pregnant and if the doctor hadn't been wrong on his due date she would've aborted my brother. That is a conversation I wished i never heard and it sticks with me.

What Real-Life Situation Where You Stood Up For Someone/Something? Many times when my daughter's friends would cut themselves or too embarrassed because they got sexually assaulted I went to parents/guidance counselor etc and reported what my daughter said. Never was a pleasant experience but you have to do what you have to do. And my daughter in grade school was afraid.

When And Where Do You Feel Most Like Your Real Self? I am myself most times when I am making a craft.

Do You Say ‘Yes’ Too Often When You Really Want To Say ‘No’? Not any more.

If You Had The Attention Of The World For Just 10 Seconds, What Would You Say? I dunno I would probably be a deer in the headlights so to speak.
 
#20
thank you @Champagne for opening cafe :) my plans for the weekend originally involved traveling to a big city to sight see. i booked a guided tour........but nobody not even the guide showed up. so that was a bust. i did my own tour myself but it was kind of lonely and boring. i also felt very lost being in such a big city. i meant to spend 6 hours in the city but i ended up only spending three hours there and i couldnt take it i had to go home. so then i got home. bought some scrunchies for my hair and did some grocery shopping. got some hooks for my door. washed my hair and now am chilling

plans for tomorrow include cleaning the toilet (yes i have to do it), meal prepping a soy butter pasta, chatting with some old friends and thats it i think
 

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