First, I want to say people I love, it's not for their weight. And I know other people like me. OKay, so if it's just because of others, drop them, they suck s**t.
If it's because you feel unwell... it's not always because of your weight, i mean you dn't need to have a very serious disease (mental or physical) to be overweighed (or in yoyo, like I say). Bad habbits yeah... Okay, if you can manage that, it'll work... for a while, because the first problem is emotional. So it comes back.
I know because I'm used to losing weight, taking weight, etc etc... Lately I'm about 6kg above my "normal" weight.
Well, maybe I'm completely off my head, but diet, sport etc, is good, and healthy, I won't fight this because it's true, but if the emotional trigger isn't taken care of, it'll come back, and will mentally put you down more (I know that, 15 years like that...)
I know it's hard to love yourself when all you see around you are thin pretty girls. But lots of then don't eat, some are sick, some don't realize what they'll be in some years. Put off the make-up... I mean, I know it's hard when you don't love yourself physically too. But there's so much about a being to value, especially around over, there's a concentration of good people. Never known that before.
I have a friend, she's very overweight, because of emotional probelms and stress. Once a girly mocked her with a friend, but low. I walked to them, and I told them if Dada would pay for they teeth like for their mobile phone, pants and studies. Bitch. Don't hide, they're wrong not you.
That's what I had to say. Shallow people get on my nerves big time.
Kate, the others, overweight or not, I love you like you are.