Ok fair enough then.
But Ill ask you, you've seen how upset its made her, she wasnt abusing the forum, why cant it be undone? Its not like shes a new poster whos broken a rule and you dont know them and know what they are like?
The 3rd account is fine btw i dont think she cares about that.
Heres how she explained it to me..
i felt safe as rowanne and could be brave as roewanne.
I didnt understand her reasons when she first switched names she said "Roewanne is not my truth". But I presumed at the time what it meant was, on Roewanne she would post supportive messages on peoples threads and help them out, just like I do, but in actual fact she is desperate for help herself, so it is not her 'truth'.
Its the same for me, I love to talk to people and help them out, and console them and cheer people up, but I am fucking dying here and I cant say anything about it, its too much pressure knowing how the people who rely on me might fall apart.
I am very careful with my replies to be supportive, encouraging but not false. If I dont think things will get better for someone I wont say anything, and maybe a few days later Ill think differently and have a reply for them,
But Roe is always on hand the minute you need her and she might say things like 'itll get better' and now regret that.
Because now she is desperate she is haunted by the lies she has told in the past to help others.
At least thats what I think she meant.
But back to my question. you've seen how upset its made her, she wasnt abusing the forum, why cant it be undone? Its not like shes a new poster whos broken a rule and you dont know them and know what they are like?
edit: how dare you tell people how they can and cant think and what is and isnt healthy, there are so many people on this site that have skewed visions of themselves and things that are right and wrong no one has the right to judge, fair enough if you decide your site wont allow 2 account names but do you think its helpful to say to people who are distressed that the way they think is unhealthy? I guess you must be upset at us arguing with you but maybe you need to take longer with your responses or take a break from the discussion if your going to type before you think.
And yes i do realise you think I am a very rude person, I try not to put my points across in a rude manner even if i am angry but its the internet and you cant emphasize things properly here, but I am not a rude person, I dont want to be banned frmo this site because its all i have at the moment, but I wont stay quiet about what i believe to be good and bad just to save my own ass
