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[Congratsbaby]

So I've been getting close to someone, and now my mom said I shouldn't get my hopes up. She said I can't expect some wedding and fairytale ending, and I'm doubting myself again. She always seems to have negative things to say about my looks, or my career choices, or my life in general. And I'm just crying and feeling heavy hearted.

Oh my god
I am so sorry . I understand that getting such negativity and toxicity just really fucks you up.
I am sending you a hug if you're okay with it
If not , just positive vibes and hope
And I want to tell you this , your mom may say things but at the end the person you're seeing and you have the power to make it work if you want to
You're deserving of love and may you receive all of it

 

[Congratsbaby]

No one cares about me

Hey.. would you like if I say something ?

 

[July_09]

Hey.. would you like if I say something ?

I don't understand

 

[JanisSPK]

Israeli attacks and the WH stance. Senators being taken to the ground and handcuffed in a news conference. I tuned into news for 10 minutes for the first time today in months.
Do we even still have a democracy? Of any kind? I'm scared.

 

[Angie]

Israeli attacks and the WH stance. Senators being taken to the ground and handcuffed in a news conference. I tuned into news for 10 minutes for the first time today in months.
Do we even still have a democracy? Of any kind? I'm scared.

Your concerns are valid. I'm scared too.

I need to suggest that this topic be moved to Support for World Events, where it can be discussed with more freedom. I'm starting a thread there now.

 

[JanisSPK]

Your concerns are valid. I'm scared too.

I need to suggest that this topic be moved to Support for World Events, where it can be discussed with more freedom. I'm starting a thread there now.

good for you

 

[JanisSPK]

Your concerns are valid. I'm scared too.

I need to suggest that this topic be moved to Support for World Events, where it can be discussed with more freedom. I'm starting a thread there now.

I don't want it moved. You could at least give me acknowledgment for initiating the content Angie

 

[Lifeisthis]

Wishing everyone well

 

[Angie]

I don't want it moved. You could at least give me acknowledgment for initiating the content Angie

I did not move it Janis. I opened a thread in an appropriate place.

We don't allow political topics anywhere but Support for World Events. In the past, political topics were forbidden everywhere. The Support for World Events subforum was created to offer support for such.

 

[Congratsbaby]

I don't understand

It's okay , it's good that you asked
I mean , would you like if I try to comfort you ? Or like say something which I think about " no one cares about me " ?

 

[maybeicanheal]

The people who I thought were my best friends have all bailed on me, but the closest of those friends blocking me yesterday has made me irate. I'm so angry. She's always been so judgemental of people with mental illness. She's one of those "pull yourself up by your bootstraps" types, but really she just masks her own mental illness by working constantly and through meaningless sex because she can't stand to be alone. Logically I know that she was not a good friend to me, and any friend that would abandon me after my break is not a friend I need. I know my actions were deplorable, I'm not excusing that- but I've been an incredible friend to her and I am so fucking angry that no one sees my good qualities because of my bad actions, and that they can't excuse them even though I was not thinking rationally and have been diagnosed by professionals as having a psychotic break. It's not like I was going around having actual sex or falling in love or planning a future- I was just trying to hurt myself, thinking it would be my path out. I'm livid right now that no one can understand that.

 

[July_09]

It's okay , it's good that you asked
I mean , would you like if I try to comfort you ? Or like say something which I think about " no one cares about me " ?

Yeah,, i think that's what i'm looking for, thank you

 

[Congratsbaby]

Yeah,, i think that's what i'm looking for, thank you

You're welcome ❤️
Your feeling is valid and I will not be dismissing it
I don't know your situation or you personally so I can't say for sure but I have personally noticed we do have people who care about us yet if we are talking about real true deep care
You know we are struggling and we want someone to care about us , then finding that care is rare but also depends on person to person I guess
If you don't have anyone who genuinely cares about you , I am really sorry
It feels really bad , you feel embarassed , lonely and alone
And reaching out to strangers can be tough in general
But , despite everything I believe you will find your people and I hope for it
If that still doesn't happen , I just hope that you develop such relationship with yourself that you will be able to be there for yourself
And accept if it's true that no one truly cares about you

 

[July_09]

You're welcome ❤️
Your feeling is valid and I will not be dismissing it
I don't know your situation or you personally so I can't say for sure but I have personally noticed we do have people who care about us yet if we are talking about real true deep care
You know we are struggling and we want someone to care about us , then finding that care is rare but also depends on person to person I guess
If you don't have anyone who genuinely cares about you , I am really sorry
It feels really bad , you feel embarassed , lonely and alone
And reaching out to strangers can be tough in general
But , despite everything I believe you will find your people and I hope for it
If that still doesn't happen , I just hope that you develop such relationship with yourself that you will be able to be there for yourself
And accept if it's true that no one truly cares about you

Thank you,, u r very kind

 

[Lifeisthis]

Wishing everyone a good day

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

Oh my god
I am so sorry . I understand that getting such negativity and toxicity just really fucks you up.
I am sending you a hug if you're okay with it
If not , just positive vibes and hope
And I want to tell you this , your mom may say things but at the end the person you're seeing and you have the power to make it work if you want to
You're deserving of love and may you receive all of it

Thank you, that means a lot. She apologized but she shouldn't be saying things like that in the first place. You're right, I can make things work out and I don't need to listen to what she says.

 

[JMG]

Wishing everyone well

Wishing everyone a good day

Just wanted to say, thank you so much @Lifeisthis for posting these 2 kind posts of thoughtful encouragement and support, it definitely means a lot to me and I’m sure many others in here as well.

I wish you and everyone else well too, and hope you have a good day as well

Thank you, that means a lot. She apologized but she shouldn't be saying things like that in the first place. You're right, I can make things work out and I don't need to listen to what she says.

Hey Witty, I don’t come in here much for personal reasons, but just wanted to say I just read your other post, and wow, I had no idea that’s what your mom said that for. I thought she was just being mean, didn’t realize you’d gotten close to someone like that, but wow, that’s awesome, congrats on that! You must be happy about that at least.

I would love to hear more about how that’s going if you wanted to talk about it, no pressure if you’d rather not though. I hope your mom will be nicer soon, and I’m glad to hear she apologized as well.

 

[Congratsbaby]

Thank you, that means a lot. She apologized but she shouldn't be saying things like that in the first place. You're right, I can make things work out and I don't need to listen to what she says.

You're welcome , I am glad
It's nice that she apologized but I agree with you that she shouldn't be saying such things in the first place. Yes you can ! And yes you don't have to ~

 

[Congratsbaby]

Thank you,, u r very kind

You're welcome ❤️
Well I won't say I am but I try to be

 

[ClassicsFan]

I haven't heard back from my friend in almost in a month, and she still hasn’t replied back to my text that I sent her earlier in the week.