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I dropped the noodles I bought today. I lost $1.25 for nothing. I never want to cook again. I never want to carry food at lengths like that again. Now I have to budget for delivery apps or just deal with not eating anymore.
It happened again. I thought I had the bravery to get back to cooking and it happened again. With the last cup of ramen too. I never want to cook again. Never ever. Now I have to figure out how to tell my girlfriend that I'm never cooking again.
 

Shelly

SF Supporter
I will never understand the hate towards LGBTQIA+ community. They are just living their own lives which all of us should do too. To go as far to use time and energy just to impose your lifestyle, your beliefs to the community is just too much, sounds like nothing else is going on with their lives so they have so much time to hate.

The existence of LGBTQIA+ community does not diminish or take anything away from you, you are still you, you still have your life. Just let us live and mind our own lives, you don’t get to control what happens to someone like you own them because people are not properties.
 
Some people seem to be addicted to causing chaos and stress for everyone.. but the worst part is, most other people seem to want to enable that stupid behaviour.
I don't mean people who are suffering, I mean a couple of specific types I guess.

One type is the stress addict who seemingly deliberately makes things stressful for themselves, and inevitably, everyone around them. Then they act like a martyr when the stress gets too much.

Another type is basically a toxic idiot lol.

I'll stop now.
 

JanisSPK

Well-Known Member
At the moment it’s this stupid infection I have that is slowing me way down to bed and house rest cuz energy is not happening in my body lol
So other than the hours it took me the last days to just go through the recertification process via the state board online for my medical license (what a ridiculous pain)……I HAD TO GO TO THE LIBRARY to use the computer CUZ WHEN I CALLED THE BOARD LAst WEEK THEY SAID THEY DONT USE APPLE PRODUCTS OF any KInd for anything…..I couldn’t believe what I was hearing ….ok that’s enough🙃
 
The sun came out today, so I brought my cat to the vet, they gave him enema, and 2 days confinement… they didn’t have this one particular medicine for him so I have to go and buy it myself, then it rained hard and I got drenched… I have to prepare myself for my class after.

My entire body has been hurting for 2 days now and I already took 3 pain relievers so I wont be surprised my kidneys are destroyed… my body still hurts.
 

JanisSPK

Well-Known Member
The wild fires have now moved into the second largest city in Washington State. Parts of Spokane are ablaze. About 600 structures destroyed so far. My heart is breaking for those people. Please, if you pray, pray for them.
I am just seeing this. They were happening in July when we were there in Spokane. And now we just got told a few days ago by those we were visiting have now suffered in that city from an arsonist last week or so and it destroyed many properties. And that the insurance companies are not covering the losses to these people who have lost their homes and businesses because it was not caused via an act of G-d. I am so sad for everyone suffering from unavoidable severe smoke exposure and from severe property losses.
 
That it's such a gamble, telling anyone about deep-kept secrets and problems. Sometimes they understand, but othertimes they blame ... well, me, but maybe someone else encounters this too? ... without seeming to understand that the reason I tell is BECAUSE I want help getting it out of my head and that, in most cases, I know it's something I shouldn't have be part of me and I'd like to get rid of it, as I indicate I know I should.

And it's not just bad-faith people or apaths, either. Even people I love who get it right most of the time, can misinterpret that way and be very hard, and take chronic convincing campaign, to be brought to understand that I'm telling because my impulses and my mind are are odds with each other and I'd like for the mind (in this case, a good thing) to win.
 
2nd day of my cat’s vet confinement — I am dismayed when they told me my cat is constipated again, they gave him enema when i brought him to the vet last tuesday and again today wednesday… and they showed me the xray and i compared it to the previous one, so clearly the vet lied to me when they told me they got it all out… why am i paying fees for services they aren’t doing enough… more bloodwork, more confinement, more bills, i can’t afford this.
 

Lisa the Ferrociraptor

I'm all things, and so are you
Staff Alumni
SF Supporter
The sun came out today, so I brought my cat to the vet, they gave him enema, and 2 days confinement… they didn’t have this one particular medicine for him so I have to go and buy it myself, then it rained hard and I got drenched… I have to prepare myself for my class after.

My entire body has been hurting for 2 days now and I already took 3 pain relievers so I wont be surprised my kidneys are destroyed… my body still hurts.
I seriously respect the effort you put in for these strays. So many wouldn't bother. Even i wouldn't bother. But you give them so much effort, and no doubt, so much money towards their care. Despite whatever some part fo you may say, it's a noble effort, that i respect than most of our cis counterparts might. *sadhug
 

Lisa the Ferrociraptor

I'm all things, and so are you
Staff Alumni
SF Supporter
I am just seeing this. They were happening in July when we were there in Spokane. And now we just got told a few days ago by those we were visiting have now suffered in that city from an arsonist last week or so and it destroyed many properties. And that the insurance companies are not covering the losses to these people who have lost their homes and businesses because it was not caused via an act of G-d. I am so sad for everyone suffering from unavoidable severe smoke exposure and from severe property losses.
We actually just got a wildfire warning over here today. The UK is at around 80% humidity on average. it's quite a bad sign that wildfires are also becoming a major issue over here.
 

Lisa the Ferrociraptor

I'm all things, and so are you
Staff Alumni
SF Supporter
It happened again. I thought I had the bravery to get back to cooking and it happened again. With the last cup of ramen too. I never want to cook again. Never ever. Now I have to figure out how to tell my girlfriend that I'm never cooking again.
It's never worth giving up. We can get so tired. So fucking tired. But it's always worth picking yourself up and trying again. Never give in to being a failure.
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It's never worth giving up. We can get so tired. So fucking tired. But it's always worth picking yourself up and trying again. Never give in to being a failure.
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I've encountered so much mental anguish as a teenager/child being pressured to "try again" or "never give up" that I've simply just accepted "if it keeps stressing you out, stop trying." I'm tired of being pressured to pick myself up and "try again" only to be confronted with the same thing over and over again. If you really think about it, the idea of cooking is flawed. The idea that one, JUST ONE mistake can break everything and make it so you can't go back and fix it is flawed. Never again. If anyone has any tips for saving massively on Door Dash/Uber Eats (I don't even trust myself to carry it back) please let me know.
 
I have a headache on the left side of my head reaching my left eye for a week now. It comes and goes.

My eczema is reacting really bad now.

I can focus on my studies, all the readings and submissions.

All the lights, and power outlets in the living room and kitchen went out.

The vet did not proceed with the enema with sedation.
They first wanted to see if the medication works.
Now they’re telling me they want to transfer him to a branch further away from home and looking in to acupuncture.

what the hell… It made me weak…
 

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