when my kids lived at home almost all the Christmas money was spent on them, as it should be. for the last 15 years or so most of the money goes to gifts to each other. we do all our shopping for the kids, grand kids, and friends and the rest we spend on each other. well about 5 or 6 years ago my wife started bugging me in october that i spent more on her and she couldn't spend as much on me (we share the money and i pay bills etc.) well that year i let her buy me a lot more than i bought her. since then same argument every year so i kind of even it out. but really as the husband shouldn't i give more to my wife than she gives to me, or am i old fashioned lol...mike






