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Aurelia

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Someone said that to me on Saturday, that NASA didn't want to cause panic... I smiled at the thought. Too bad, maybe next time...
Just goes to show that if there really was an asteroid about to hit us, the government wouldn't fucking say a word. There's actually a show about this called Salvation where the government knows about an asteroid that's about to kill half the population, if not the entire population, and they're not allowed to tell anyone, even though it's not likely that they'll be able to stop it. Good show.
 

Walker

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Someone said "He's absolutely lovely, he just needs to calm down" ... about me. First, I am NOT lovely

Okay, they may have a point. I'm still not lovey. What does that mean in British speak anyway? Why am I surrounded by British people?

*This was by someone at work, who is out of our England office.
British people are always calling people"lovely". What's that about anyway?
 

BlueGreen

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It's like they call you love and darling. Brits are just nice people!
Depends on how it's said and to whom. It can be very insulting, especially towards a woman. You have to work out whether they are in the habit of using it (so it's harmless, don't take offence and/or they might be of the older generation!) Britspeak is an absolute minefield!

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Innocent Forever

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Depends on how it's said and to whom. It can be very insulting, especially towards a woman. You have to work out whether they are in the habit of using it (so it's harmless, don't take offence and/or they might be of the older generation!) Britspeak is an absolute minefield!

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This is so completely true!!!!! I use all these that kinda way.
I sometimes feel bad when I reply 'not bad' and the other person is like 'only not bad' and I'm like that's a real compliment!
 
This is so completely true!!!!! I use all these that kinda way.
I sometimes feel bad when I reply 'not bad' and the other person is like 'only not bad' and I'm like that's a real compliment!
You know, I always felt English language is "lovely" because you only need a few words to explain sthg while we use loooooooong sentences (combining multiple sentences in parantheses or separated by a comma) that you have to read more than just 3 times to understand. (check, you see what I mean?). BUT: if you think someone performed "very good" why do you have to say it with scaring the mind of the other person by mentioning the word "bad"?
 

1964dodge

Has a monkey as a friend
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Depends on how it's said and to whom. It can be very insulting, especially towards a woman. You have to work out whether they are in the habit of using it (so it's harmless, don't take offence and/or they might be of the older generation!) Britspeak is an absolute minefield!

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thanks that made me lmao
 

Freyja

Not staff. Freyja with a j.
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You know, I always felt English language is "lovely" because you only need a few words to explain sthg while we use loooooooong sentences (combining multiple sentences in parantheses or separated by a comma) that you have to read more than just 3 times to understand. (check, you see what I mean?). BUT: if you think someone performed "very good" why do you have to say it with scaring the mind of the other person by mentioning the word "bad"?
They're figures of speech, cause Brits talk with style. *bleh
 

BlueGreen

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You know, I always felt English language is "lovely" because you only need a few words to explain sthg while we use loooooooong sentences (combining multiple sentences in parantheses or separated by a comma) that you have to read more than just 3 times to understand. (check, you see what I mean?). BUT: if you think someone performed "very good" why do you have to say it with scaring the mind of the other person by mentioning the word "bad"?
I think it's from classic British understatement and a horror or creating a scene by overpraising someone. Stiff upper lip and all that. Giving praise and receiving it can be embarrassing and there's nothing worse for the upper classes! :D
 

Freyja

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we use loooooooong sentences (combining multiple sentences in parantheses or separated by a comma) that you have to read more than just 3 times to understand.
Nooo, the suspense while waiting for the verb at the end of the loooong sentence is a priceless feeling that the English language cannot provide!
 

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