I've been going to group therapy for 9 months now. It's a fairly small group, only 8 of us plus the 3 professionals who run it. We've all become pretty close, we have a little WhatsApp group to chat in throughout the week and meet up for coffee etc.
It took me a long time to be able to speak but after 2 or 3 months I was able to join in with the check in at the beginning and say whether I'd had a good or bad week. But that's where I've stopped. I can ask questions and give suggestions to other members but I can't talk about how bad I am feeling. Yesterday the psychologist asked me directly what the inner monologue was in my head and I just couldn't answer. All I could say was "it's horrible" but I'm too embarrassed/scared/whatever to elaborate even when pushed. I eventually left the room in tears as she just kept pushing me for more.
I don't know what to do. I feel like I'm wasting their time if I can't do or say what they want me to. It's not that I don't want to. I'd love to be able to fully open up like the others seem to be able to do but somehow I don't feel worthy of it. Which I also know is stupid but I can't get past it. I don't want to give up on it and feel like I've failed at that too but I don't want to take up a place for someone who might get more out of it than I seem to be. Does that make sense?
It took me a long time to be able to speak but after 2 or 3 months I was able to join in with the check in at the beginning and say whether I'd had a good or bad week. But that's where I've stopped. I can ask questions and give suggestions to other members but I can't talk about how bad I am feeling. Yesterday the psychologist asked me directly what the inner monologue was in my head and I just couldn't answer. All I could say was "it's horrible" but I'm too embarrassed/scared/whatever to elaborate even when pushed. I eventually left the room in tears as she just kept pushing me for more.
I don't know what to do. I feel like I'm wasting their time if I can't do or say what they want me to. It's not that I don't want to. I'd love to be able to fully open up like the others seem to be able to do but somehow I don't feel worthy of it. Which I also know is stupid but I can't get past it. I don't want to give up on it and feel like I've failed at that too but I don't want to take up a place for someone who might get more out of it than I seem to be. Does that make sense?