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she lives with her grandma and she wont let them stay tonight. I know i should do all that sam but i seriously dont have the strength to do it tonight.
GL i have to stay up with them cos if i dont i'll get up in the morning and he will have stolen half the house
GL i have to stay up with them cos if i dont i'll get up in the morning and he will have stolen half the house
yes he is your son but all its doing it letting his behaviour continue and stress you more.
your mental health and safety ( plus your daughtrs ) is way more important than his thuggishness. hes an adult...
lea. not even supposed to be here. . i could NOT let this pass by.
you can call the cops. listen to sam. please.
you do not have to put up with this crap.
if i was there i'd boot him out. . . he'd gladly leave. . . i am short. . but i can take care of my sis.
now. you know how to reach me privately. please do so. . . . ok??
love you, xxx
you can call the cops. listen to sam. please.
you do not have to put up with this crap.
if i was there i'd boot him out. . . he'd gladly leave. . . i am short. . but i can take care of my sis.
now. you know how to reach me privately. please do so. . . . ok??
love you, xxx
theres no need for feeling guilty for instilling bounderies in your rude violent an disrespectful son.. you ar enot letting him down or failing as a mother.. infact quite the opposite... he nees to learn some respect and consequences b4 he ends up seriously harming someone or in prison...
your house.. your rules...
you can find the strength to tell him to go and make sure you call the cops to warn them b4 hand you may need their help. no shame in that at all. i too would kick his rude ass out but unfortunately i cannot from here. its down to you.. dont be terrorised in your own home.. and also make this the last time ever. draw up the rules as soon as he is gone and stick to them no matter what he throws at you until he learns some respect.
make a contract... as he improves and starts to respect you then slaken off a bit but as soon as he takes the piss again ( which he will ) then straight back to square one... he will learn. that way this situation should never recur and you will feel better. we all have rules.. its his tough shit he has to be treated like a child... he acts like one...
kick his arse !
your house.. your rules...
you can find the strength to tell him to go and make sure you call the cops to warn them b4 hand you may need their help. no shame in that at all. i too would kick his rude ass out but unfortunately i cannot from here. its down to you.. dont be terrorised in your own home.. and also make this the last time ever. draw up the rules as soon as he is gone and stick to them no matter what he throws at you until he learns some respect.
make a contract... as he improves and starts to respect you then slaken off a bit but as soon as he takes the piss again ( which he will ) then straight back to square one... he will learn. that way this situation should never recur and you will feel better. we all have rules.. its his tough shit he has to be treated like a child... he acts like one...
kick his arse !
Lea call the police back and tell them he is getting violent and refusing to leave.. You don't need this..Make the police understand just how violent he gets..You are in fear of bodily harm.. Please don't turn this on yourself.. It;s not your fault, There are alot of kids now adays who are into being punks..
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