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What’s the point?

Sleeper71

Well-Known Member
#1
I know this is my depression talking (plus my anger/hurt and possibly the vodka. But what’s the point of eating well, working out and being sober? If I’m fat no one’s attracted to me, if I’m skinny and muscular no one’s attracted to me. If I’m sober I have no relief from my mental pain. I know I’m gonna wake up in the morning and hate that I posted this but I’m pissed and I needed to get it out. Why? I don’t know because nothings gonna change. My life needs to end and that’s all there is to it.
 

Anonymous ID

Well-Known Member
#2
I'm sorry your feeling this way. Your beautiful don't let the haters bring you down. Who cares what others think about you. F/$& them! Do what makes you feel good about yourself, that's all that matters. I think I'm gunna spend the rest of my life alone but I don't let that bring me down. You don't deserve to feel like shit
 

Petal

~*Mod Extraordinaire*~
Staff Alumni
SF Supporter
#3
Sorry you feel this way, maybe this isn't how you really feel? Maybe it is the alcohol talking?

You are a good dad and your son needs you in his life, you really need to be sober for him whilst he is growing up, I agree with @Anonymous ID , who cares what others think? Just do what you feel you need to do and screw everyone and everything else. I too think i'm going to spend the rest of my life single but y'know that doesn't bother me anymore. If it bothers you, get into deeper therapy, with the right support system in place and structured well you might not not feel so low and crave alcohol so much. I hope this was just a drunken rant and that you will feel better by morning, SF will be here for you no matter what type of lifestyle you choose. I think you're awesome and you interact so well with others here :)
 

Sad Elf

Well-Known Member
#4
I know it's hard, but try not to think too much about what other people think (except us SF folk cos we think your awesome ). What we see is someone doing everything they can to look after their son, and someone who is supportive of others.
 

Lane

SF Pro
SF Supporter
#5
I know this is my depression talking (plus my anger/hurt and possibly the vodka. But what’s the point of eating well, working out and being sober? If I’m fat no one’s attracted to me, if I’m skinny and muscular no one’s attracted to me. If I’m sober I have no relief from my mental pain. I know I’m gonna wake up in the morning and hate that I posted this but I’m pissed and I needed to get it out. Why? I don’t know because nothings gonna change. My life needs to end and that’s all there is to it.
I think it's good to post and get it out @Sleeper71. You never know if things will change. Time just does it naturally.

Even if people are attracted to you, who cares if they aren't the right people. You're better off just eating right or exercising for yourself. If you feel depressed and want to eat poorly, then just do it for you too. Not for anyone. Maybe I'm just cynical.

You have a beautiful boy and he needs his dad. I'm not sure if this is the right thing to say when someone is feeling bad, but I hope you feel better.
 

Livelife

SF Supporter
#6
Along with what has been shared... All you can do is take care of yourself and do what is the next thing to do in front of you....simple actions. Simple thoughts. It's already been said here but I'll add it as well.....it really doesn't matter what others think as long as you are doing what you need to do for yourself and your child. What makes the people you are giving power to right in their thinking? Why is their thinking about how to live life better than yours? Your life is your business.
 

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