Not all antidepressants cause weight gain. When I started taking zoloft I actually lost weight cause I felt so much better I didn't eat as much. PLease don't deny yourself the help you could get from antidepressants just because you think you may gain weight. Ask your doctor about the weight gain side effect of any meds and ask that they not give you those that could cause weight gain. Tell your doctor of your worries. THere IS a way for your depression to be relieved.
One thing more... Can depression get on worse if you dont take anti depressants?
But you know what... i kinda like it... I dont want to be happy with life i live... First i have to change so many things... I have to completly change my lifestyle, getting drunk at the weekends and sitting infront of computers all days isnt real life for me...