my cousin- his dad is welsh/ south african. his father is also a prick. i hate him. i used to like him when i was younger- he was a lot of fun, but i can see now that he has a child, he's so much like my father- in that he puts up a front but underneath i can see his abusive and slimy. he is a journalist ( his son CANNOT wear pink CANNOT do anything girly- my aunt is like that too though). he interrogates me about my life and is very threatening and i think the way my cousin is with him, he is so scared when he's around. and he talked bad things about himself and he was only 5 years old- it was like he was self harming. he just said the most sad things like he was beating himself up, and his dad- i noticed something horrible at the dinner table the last time i went.
they used to go to south wales a lot. but his grandfather died of a tumour.
my father had great issues with my cousin having a white parent. it was really horrific to see how he talked about a little baby when he used to come round for my mother to babysit.