Thankyou Scum and IV2010
Believe it or not, i've not been in long. My train was cancelled, before we reached the final destination, becuase there were no toilets working,( they'd been out of order since 8.30am). It could only happen in this country,so i was late for my appointment. I was almost about to do a runner, when my name came up on the screen.
I don't know how i feel at the moment, because i'm so tired, but it really is, What to do? There should'nt be any choice really. Any 'normal' person would'nt even be asking the question, would they? They would just go for life saving treatment.
The doctor said she had'nt spoken to the consultant, but she said he's, the, best. They need to take a big chunk ,do another biopsy see how far it has spread etc, etc, etc. They really don't know too much, until i've been into hospital.But i don't want parts of my body chopped off. Does that sound stupid? Its my fucking body. And i still can't honestly say, yes, i want to live, because i don't. Tne doc said at the end of the day, its my decision, nobody can force me to do anything. So why can't i find the will to live? Its just deserted me completely. Its funny, i've always said i did'nt want to live past a certain age, and i'm not so far off it now. Theres something seriously wrong, with someone who refuses treatment. Am i mad? Or is it just a god given way, for me to end it all?
To top it all, i got home, and my letter has arrived from the hospital, next wed for the pre op, and 9th April for the op. I've got to make a decision, quicker than i thought. It says if you fail to attend, you'll be taken off the list, and referred back to your gp. I've got to make my mind up.
My gp mentioned a famous case, that brought 'it' into high profile,here recently, which some one here has already mentioned, but i'm sure they did'nt want to die. The difference is, i don't want to live. I can decide my own mortality, just like that case in my thread.
Its my decision, what do i do?