When your identical half dies

[total eclipse]

You die too

 

[AvidFan]

I cannot imagine that, I am sorry. 😥

 

[MisterBGone]

~Life shouldn't have to hurt so much... You are loved, both here & elsewhere. We're all lucky to have you, and I know that those who know you personally, cherish what a treasure you are (to them!)

 

[Windhover]

yes.

Wish I had a balm, I'm so sorry @total eclipse .

 

[may71]

That's awful news. You're welcome to say more about what happened if you'd like.

 

[total eclipse]

The dr judged her pass saw her unworthy to fight for omg and really chose to let her die and I didn't realize until it was to late I did not fight hard enough to get the same dr to get her too keep my twin alive. Neglect from her GP she called and called him told him her wound was septic she drive there he refused to see her he did not follow up with her care and she died if sepsis and congested heart failure both treatable but noone would listen or help her. The nurse who was ti dress the wound said she was not coming 3 times a week to dress a dam wound her words she should never have died never. Neglect from all around killed her. I should have taken her up hare with me got her to a different hospital one where they would have treated her with respect omg I failed her I failed her too

 

[may71]

I'm sorry this happened.

I should have taken her up hare with me got her to a different hospital one where they would have treated her with respect omg I failed her I failed her too

A lot of people doubt or blame themselves after losing someone they love, but they're usually not being unfair to themselves. When my father died, I wondered if maybe things would have been different if I had found him sooner. I know though that after a hemorrhagic stroke, he probably wouldn't have just bounced right back and been his normal self.

It's not necessarily the case that she would have agreed to move in with you, or even if she had that she would have gotten better care from the hospital. Please be gentle with yourself.

I've heard that the relationship between twin siblings is usually very close. I know this must be very hard for you.

Sending hugs to you Total Eclipse

 

[total eclipse]

I can't go in my heart is shutting down CHF put on meds but stopped them why prolong it.

 

[Windhover]

@total eclipse


you could keep going for the both of you

 

[may71]

I can't go in my heart is shutting down CHF put on meds but stopped them why prolong it.

Sorry that this is happening. Can you say what CHF is? I'm not sure I understand what is going on.

 

[Fleury Dragon]

@total eclipse I'm so sorry. I know nothing we say can take this pain away from you.
Hindsight is a bitch of a thing. Please don't blame yourself the past can't be changed and no amount of blaming yourself will bring your twin sister back.

Please start taking your medication and don't let the congestive heart failure (CHF) take you from this world.

 

[may71]

I agree with @Toothless Dragon

Please keep taking your medication. Suicide from self-neglect would be tragic.

Hugs @total eclipse

 

[1Lefty]

I'm so sorry

I hope you'll be safe,
You're loved and needed, even if you don't feel it now

It sounds like the medical pros had plenty of information and had already made their choices. Whatever else you might have said probably wouldn't have made a difference.

 

[Astrid78]

 

[Sassy Cat]

I am so sorry I wish her doctors had done better. Please stay strong

 

[1Lefty]

Hi @total eclipse

sending kind thoughts

 

[truthhurts]

Hi, I've no idea if you remember me since we talked like ten years ago, but I'm sorry this is happening.

Always around to talk if you happen to feel the need. Many hugs

 

[total eclipse]

I am monitoring myself don't worry please when I get wheezy I will take something just hard because I really failed her I did.tired most days but uam keeping going

 

[total eclipse]

Sorry if I worried you i will be ok take care everyone

 

[Acy]

Total Eclipse, I’ve known you for a long time now. I think you “feel” like you failed her, but to my knowledge and in knowing you, you have never failed anyone. I’m sorry for your loss. Please keep talking to us.