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So I got a message on Facebook from a former bully of mine that's like "Hey sexy, how ya doing?" Part of me thinks it's a prank or more bullying, because if someone bullied me based on my appearance, what the hell else am I supposed to think? Even if someone actually finds me attractive, I find that very hard to believe, so this is almost impossible. If it is real, then does he not remember what the hell he did to me? I don't know if anyone knew that the bullying made me suicidal, but anyone with half a brain could realize it made me feel like shit. I don't know if it's childish or not, but I can't help but feel upset about this, and it's making me relive bad things from the past again.
I blocked that guy and then posted this on Facebook:
I don't mind hearing from people from my past if we were on good terms before. But if you treated me like garbage, don't pretend that we are friends. If you made me feel ugly and unwanted in the past, don't hit on me and act like you are interested now. I know some people can change, but acknowledgement of past misdeeds and maybe even an apology are always welcomed. I'm no longer a pushover and I'm not naive, so if your intentions aren't true, then I don't want you as part of my life.
People still might act stupid though, but at least now they know I won't take their shit.
I don't mind hearing from people from my past if we were on good terms before. But if you treated me like garbage, don't pretend that we are friends. If you made me feel ugly and unwanted in the past, don't hit on me and act like you are interested now. I know some people can change, but acknowledgement of past misdeeds and maybe even an apology are always welcomed. I'm no longer a pushover and I'm not naive, so if your intentions aren't true, then I don't want you as part of my life.
People still might act stupid though, but at least now they know I won't take their shit.
^ That’s awesome that you blocked that bozo and posted that, good for you! 
Love what you wrote and how you wrote it too, it has a good balance of things and just being clear that you won’t put up with nonsense like you said. Inspirational! 
Love what you wrote and how you wrote it too, it has a good balance of things and just being clear that you won’t put up with nonsense like you said. Inspirational!
Glad you got the card @Witty_Sarcasm and you’re so welcome of course. I’m so sorry to hear that you were crying earlier, I’m here (a bit limited until tomorrow eve when I’m home cos at sis’s for the rest of today & some of tomorrow) if you want to talk about it, not sure if there’s much I could do to help, but could at least try to offer some comfort and reassurance anyway.
I’m glad the card helped you feel comforted when you were feeling upset like that though. I’m also glad that the card reached you only a few days after Christmas (sorry that it was a bit late but I mailed it a bit too late for sure).
I’m so sorry to hear that you were crying earlier, I’m here (a bit limited until tomorrow eve when I’m home cos at sis’s for the rest of today & some of tomorrow) if you want to talk about it, not sure if there’s much I could do to help, but could at least try to offer some comfort and reassurance anyway. I’m glad the card helped you feel comforted when you were feeling upset like that though. I’m also glad that the card reached you only a few days after Christmas (sorry that it was a bit late but I mailed it a bit too late for sure).
Glad you got the card @Witty_Sarcasm and you’re so welcome of course. I’m so sorry to hear that you were crying earlier, I’m here (a bit limited until tomorrow eve when I’m home cos at sis’s for the rest of today & some of tomorrow) if you want to talk about it, not sure if there’s much I could do to help, but could at least try to offer some comfort and reassurance anyway.
I’m glad the card helped you feel comforted when you were feeling upset like that though. I’m also glad that the card reached you only a few days after Christmas (sorry that it was a bit late but I mailed it a bit too late for sure).
I’m so sorry to hear that you were crying earlier, I’m here (a bit limited until tomorrow eve when I’m home cos at sis’s for the rest of today & some of tomorrow) if you want to talk about it, not sure if there’s much I could do to help, but could at least try to offer some comfort and reassurance anyway.I’m glad the card helped you feel comforted when you were feeling upset like that though. I’m also glad that the card reached you only a few days after Christmas (sorry that it was a bit late but I mailed it a bit too late for sure).
You’re so welcome, I’d hardly be a good friend if I didn’t care and wasn’t willing to listen. I’m glad it means a lot to you though. I’m sorry you’re feeling like people don’t care and that they’re ignoring you. Hopefully that’s not the case though and they were maybe just busy, it’s sometimes hard to tell online. But ya when you can see they’ve been on that can definitely be upsetting, I know how that can be.
I’ve been away from home for the last few days so that’s why I didn’t reply to the rest of the topics here yet. Quite tired after the long journey home today but should be energized enough after sleeping later to reply to the rest. I definitely don’t think of you as a burden at all and never would, and anyone who’d think of you that way is definitely not worth your time. I understand that it’s hard to not think of the bad things though, usually watching funny/cute animal vids, listening to powerful, “fuck-the-world” kinds of songs or watching comedies/light-hearted shows or movies helps pull me outta those moods a bit. I really hope you feel better soon though, you are definitely very worthy, valuable and so many other positive virtues too
I’ve been away from home for the last few days so that’s why I didn’t reply to the rest of the topics here yet. Quite tired after the long journey home today but should be energized enough after sleeping later to reply to the rest. I definitely don’t think of you as a burden at all and never would, and anyone who’d think of you that way is definitely not worth your time. I understand that it’s hard to not think of the bad things though, usually watching funny/cute animal vids, listening to powerful, “fuck-the-world” kinds of songs or watching comedies/light-hearted shows or movies helps pull me outta those moods a bit. I really hope you feel better soon though, you are definitely very worthy, valuable and so many other positive virtues too
You’re so welcome, I’d hardly be a good friend if I didn’t care and wasn’t willing to listen. I’m glad it means a lot to you though. I’m sorry you’re feeling like people don’t care and that they’re ignoring you. Hopefully that’s not the case though and they were maybe just busy, it’s sometimes hard to tell online. But ya when you can see they’ve been on that can definitely be upsetting, I know how that can be.
I’ve been away from home for the last few days so that’s why I didn’t reply to the rest of the topics here yet. Quite tired after the long journey home today but should be energized enough after sleeping later to reply to the rest. I definitely don’t think of you as a burden at all and never would, and anyone who’d think of you that way is definitely not worth your time. I understand that it’s hard to not think of the bad things though, usually watching funny/cute animal vids, listening to powerful, “fuck-the-world” kinds of songs or watching comedies/light-hearted shows or movies helps pull me outta those moods a bit. I really hope you feel better soon though, you are definitely very worthy, valuable and so many other positive virtues too
I’ve been away from home for the last few days so that’s why I didn’t reply to the rest of the topics here yet. Quite tired after the long journey home today but should be energized enough after sleeping later to reply to the rest. I definitely don’t think of you as a burden at all and never would, and anyone who’d think of you that way is definitely not worth your time. I understand that it’s hard to not think of the bad things though, usually watching funny/cute animal vids, listening to powerful, “fuck-the-world” kinds of songs or watching comedies/light-hearted shows or movies helps pull me outta those moods a bit. I really hope you feel better soon though, you are definitely very worthy, valuable and so many other positive virtues too
I understand about it sucking to be left on read and not knowing what’s going on. It is definitely much nicer when people let you know what’s going on so you aren’t just left wondering about it.
Wow, that’s really crummy about people ghosting you after a while sometimes, especially when you did nothing to warrant such behavior. I understand about the relationship thing as well. It definitely really sucks and is also confusing if they don’t communicate about feelings/what’s going on. So many conflicts/misunderstandings can be avoided if people just communicate in a clear, open, honest and tactful way about things imo. Doesn’t seem to be a strength of many people though. I know it can be a hard thing to do, but I feel like it does get a bit easier with practice.
Anyway, I’m sorry you’ve never had a relationship work out, I’m pretty much in the same boat on that. I feel like I have always communicated in a pretty ideal way but that it’s pretty much always the guy who doesn’t seem able to do that. Or they kinda “overreact” about stuff sometimes and that can definitely get really stressful and overwhelming. I also have been underestimated, a LOT, and I definitely do not appreciate that at all. It’s why I pretty much have given up on that, if there are any decent ones out there then it seems like they are taken. Aw no worries, talking about feelings about stuff isn’t being negative imo. I’m glad talking to me helps though
Those vids you made sound so adorable! I’d love to see them but not sure if the Sora site allows the videos to be posted here like the yt ones. I love how yt allows that.
Wow, that’s really crummy about people ghosting you after a while sometimes, especially when you did nothing to warrant such behavior. I understand about the relationship thing as well. It definitely really sucks and is also confusing if they don’t communicate about feelings/what’s going on. So many conflicts/misunderstandings can be avoided if people just communicate in a clear, open, honest and tactful way about things imo. Doesn’t seem to be a strength of many people though. I know it can be a hard thing to do, but I feel like it does get a bit easier with practice.
Anyway, I’m sorry you’ve never had a relationship work out, I’m pretty much in the same boat on that. I feel like I have always communicated in a pretty ideal way but that it’s pretty much always the guy who doesn’t seem able to do that. Or they kinda “overreact” about stuff sometimes and that can definitely get really stressful and overwhelming. I also have been underestimated, a LOT, and I definitely do not appreciate that at all. It’s why I pretty much have given up on that, if there are any decent ones out there then it seems like they are taken. Aw no worries, talking about feelings about stuff isn’t being negative imo. I’m glad talking to me helps though
Those vids you made sound so adorable! I’d love to see them but not sure if the Sora site allows the videos to be posted here like the yt ones. I love how yt allows that.
I understand about it sucking to be left on read and not knowing what’s going on. It is definitely much nicer when people let you know what’s going on so you aren’t just left wondering about it.
Wow, that’s really crummy about people ghosting you after a while sometimes, especially when you did nothing to warrant such behavior. I understand about the relationship thing as well. It definitely really sucks and is also confusing if they don’t communicate about feelings/what’s going on. So many conflicts/misunderstandings can be avoided if people just communicate in a clear, open, honest and tactful way about things imo. Doesn’t seem to be a strength of many people though. I know it can be a hard thing to do, but I feel like it does get a bit easier with practice.
Anyway, I’m sorry you’ve never had a relationship work out, I’m pretty much in the same boat on that. I feel like I have always communicated in a pretty ideal way but that it’s pretty much always the guy who doesn’t seem able to do that. Or they kinda “overreact” about stuff sometimes and that can definitely get really stressful and overwhelming. I also have been underestimated, a LOT, and I definitely do not appreciate that at all. It’s why I pretty much have given up on that, if there are any decent ones out there then it seems like they are taken. Aw no worries, talking about feelings about stuff isn’t being negative imo. I’m glad talking to me helps though
Those vids you made sound so adorable! I’d love to see them but not sure if the Sora site allows the videos to be posted here like the yt ones. I love how yt allows that.
Wow, that’s really crummy about people ghosting you after a while sometimes, especially when you did nothing to warrant such behavior. I understand about the relationship thing as well. It definitely really sucks and is also confusing if they don’t communicate about feelings/what’s going on. So many conflicts/misunderstandings can be avoided if people just communicate in a clear, open, honest and tactful way about things imo. Doesn’t seem to be a strength of many people though. I know it can be a hard thing to do, but I feel like it does get a bit easier with practice.
Anyway, I’m sorry you’ve never had a relationship work out, I’m pretty much in the same boat on that. I feel like I have always communicated in a pretty ideal way but that it’s pretty much always the guy who doesn’t seem able to do that. Or they kinda “overreact” about stuff sometimes and that can definitely get really stressful and overwhelming. I also have been underestimated, a LOT, and I definitely do not appreciate that at all. It’s why I pretty much have given up on that, if there are any decent ones out there then it seems like they are taken. Aw no worries, talking about feelings about stuff isn’t being negative imo. I’m glad talking to me helps though
Those vids you made sound so adorable! I’d love to see them but not sure if the Sora site allows the videos to be posted here like the yt ones. I love how yt allows that.
I always write back to people in a timely manner so they don't worry or anything, and it's nice when the same courtesy is extended to me, but it doesn't seem to happen all that often and it sucks. I'm trying not to catastrophize but my brain seems to be good at that. I just feel like maybe I'm not good enough or interesting enough for anyone to want to stick around. Then I start to think I'll always be alone, and I don't like that thought, and it leads down a bad road, so I have to avoid thinking that way if I can. I have to find out if I can link or embed the vids somehow, made some more funny ones, like a cat on catnip and one that was taking things from a store.
I understand about the catastrophizing thing, my mind will sometimes do that too. I definitely think you are more than good enough and interesting though and I’m sure there’s lots of others who do as well
I agree it is good to try to avoid thinking that way, I’m always trying to avoid that as well.Ok, that’s cool about the links, I understand. Some sites definitely make it difficult to “share” the vids or pics or whatever. Lol those vids you made sound really adorable.
I think that is really nice that you try to always write back to people in a timely manner. I do too but sometimes just don’t have much energy for a longer message. If it’s a message talking a lot about expressing feelings then I always have energy for that of course lol. I’m sorry people don’t often do the same with replying back quickly though. I hope that will improve soon.
I understand about the catastrophizing thing, my mind will sometimes do that too. I definitely think you are more than good enough and interesting though and I’m sure there’s lots of others who do as well I agree it is good to try to avoid thinking that way, I’m always trying to avoid that as well.
Ok, that’s cool about the links, I understand. Some sites definitely make it difficult to “share” the vids or pics or whatever. Lol those vids you made sound really adorable.
I understand about the catastrophizing thing, my mind will sometimes do that too. I definitely think you are more than good enough and interesting though and I’m sure there’s lots of others who do as well
I agree it is good to try to avoid thinking that way, I’m always trying to avoid that as well.Ok, that’s cool about the links, I understand. Some sites definitely make it difficult to “share” the vids or pics or whatever. Lol those vids you made sound really adorable.
https://sora.chatgpt.com/p/s_6954ed...Q3BjN3BTVEhnTmJ0N3liOHNnbVZGUlpa.K5HjkzUAr0nf
https://sora.chatgpt.com/p/s_6954ec...Q3BjN3BTVEhnTmJ0N3liOHNnbVZGUlpa.TKcy9HQRsMcq
https://sora.chatgpt.com/p/s_695396...Q3BjN3BTVEhnTmJ0N3liOHNnbVZGUlpa.nKxsE4Z6-q67
https://sora.chatgpt.com/p/s_695234...Q3BjN3BTVEhnTmJ0N3liOHNnbVZGUlpa._w0XAdo4bvG_
https://sora.chatgpt.com/p/s_6950e1...Q3BjN3BTVEhnTmJ0N3liOHNnbVZGUlpa.ilPcpgXZ-Wm3
I'll see if any in my drafts show up too:
https://sora.chatgpt.com/p/s_695521...Q3BjN3BTVEhnTmJ0N3liOHNnbVZGUlpa.BOnFPUazdJp9
It's cool because even with a simple prompt, they can still turn out really well.
Ok, I didn’t realize they weren’t someone in North America then, but ya that makes sense. I hope that’s all it is too and that they’re ok.
I clicked a bunch of those vid links and also the draft and they all brought up the same error message. Might be that the site is finicky with phones though, who knows. I didn’t know there’s a limit on how long the videos can be, but it does sound fun. Thanks for taking the time to post all the links though. When I can get to a regular computer (or a much newer phone lol) then I’ll try the links again.
I clicked a bunch of those vid links and also the draft and they all brought up the same error message. Might be that the site is finicky with phones though, who knows. I didn’t know there’s a limit on how long the videos can be, but it does sound fun. Thanks for taking the time to post all the links though. When I can get to a regular computer (or a much newer phone lol) then I’ll try the links again.