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You are.........?

You are.......

  • A man who has never had a girlfriend or dated.

    Votes: 41 27.5%
  • A man who has never had a girlfriend.

    Votes: 7 4.7%
  • A man who has had 1-2 girlfriends.

    Votes: 31 20.8%
  • A man who has had 3+ girlfriends.

    Votes: 14 9.4%
  • A woman who has never had a boyfriend or dated.

    Votes: 12 8.1%
  • A woman who has never had a boyfriend.

    Votes: 7 4.7%
  • A woman who has had 1-2 boyfriends.

    Votes: 19 12.8%
  • A woman who has had 3+ boyfriends.

    Votes: 18 12.1%

  • Total voters
    149

bleach

Well-Known Member
#42
Another interesting phenomenon that can be extrapolated from these poll result, as of right now, is that 6/7 or 86% of suicidal men have never been in a relationship. Even with such result, most social apt individuals and society in general refuse to accept lack of relationships as a legitimate reason for depression and/or suicidal thoughts. People who’ve been in relationships often says things like, “You’re lucky you’ve never been in a relationship, at least you’ve never had your heart broken” or “Relationships are overrated”.

I’ve never been in a relationship so I don’t know what it would be like to lose an intimate relationship; nonetheless, I think it is better to know love then lose it than to never know love. Not only do people who’ve never been in relationships have no fond memories of love, but they also are denied both sympathy and empathy because people see their situation as a result of their own misdoings. People assume people who are alone want to be alone and deserve to be alone. Society wants loner to suffer and they never have and never will give a flying fuck about them.

I think these result are showing just how significant life-long denial of romantic relationship are, and that being alone is no trifling matter. If never being in a relationship was no big deal, why are so many of us who’ve never been in relationships suicidal. I think it is time that our society pulls their head out of their ass and acknowledges life-long lack of relationships as a legitimate cause of depression and suicide.
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Hae-Gi

Banned Member
#45
I'm male, 26, soon 27. I've never had a girlfriend, or even dated. Although I look better than the vast majority, I'm simply too odd to be likely to find a girl. Additionally, she would have to be my one and only girl, just like I would have to be the one and only one to her, so I have only one chance to try (unless I wouldn't get sexual, at all, with someone who wasn't meant for me, that is). Due to this, I am unlikely to ever try, since I would have to die if I lost my complete virginity to the wrong person. Of course, if I don't find her, I have to take my life, as well(actually, I'd have to take my life, in time, even IF I had found the right girl, due to my obsession with staying young), but it's better having to die because of being alone, all my life, than having to die due to having had the wrong girl.
 

Mortem

Well-Known Member
#47
I'm male, 26, soon 27. I've never had a girlfriend, or even dated. Although I look better than the vast majority, I'm simply too odd to be likely to find a girl. Additionally, she would have to be my one and only girl, just like I would have to be the one and only one to her, so I have only one chance to try (unless I wouldn't get sexual, at all, with someone who wasn't meant for me, that is). Due to this, I am unlikely to ever try, since I would have to die if I lost my complete virginity to the wrong person. Of course, if I don't find her, I have to take my life, as well(actually, I'd have to take my life, in time, even IF I had found the right girl, due to my obsession with staying young), but it's better having to die because of being alone, all my life, than having to die due to having had the wrong girl.
As a compliment, I really find you one of the most interesting people on this forum. :smile:
 
#49
I’m a 19 year old man who has never had a girlfriend or been on a date. I'm not a "hot" guy to get the attention of any girl. I'm always alone, I falled in love just once in my lifetime, but that girl... Didn't feel the same for me.

If anyone wanna see how am I, this is me:

<mod edit: bunny - no personal pictures please>

Take care! :smile:

Eliezer.-
 
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BioHomocide

Well-Known Member
#51
18 Male. I have had 1 girlfriend and 3 boyfriends.

We never really dated, we just met and hit it off. I have never had to ask someone out on a date to tell them I love them, or for them to tell me they like me. I usually know from how someone makes me feel if I want to be with them.
 
#54
18, male.

I had a couple of girlfriends at the age where having a girlfriend just means you say hello to them occasionally, before being plunged into a relationship at 12 that would last right up until a few months back. So, I'll answer one.
 

beauutyy

Well-Known Member
#55
I'm male, 26, soon 27. I've never had a girlfriend, or even dated. Although I look better than the vast majority, I'm simply too odd to be likely to find a girl. Additionally, she would have to be my one and only girl, just like I would have to be the one and only one to her, so I have only one chance to try (unless I wouldn't get sexual, at all, with someone who wasn't meant for me, that is). Due to this, I am unlikely to ever try, since I would have to die if I lost my complete virginity to the wrong person. Of course, if I don't find her, I have to take my life, as well(actually, I'd have to take my life, in time, even IF I had found the right girl, due to my obsession with staying young), but it's better having to die because of being alone, all my life, than having to die due to having had the wrong girl.
aww you're cute. I dont know many guys searching for their one and only. wish i could meet someone like you.
 

ava.

Well-Known Member
#56
I've never really had a boyfriend.

I was "with" a guy for 2 months, we went on one date, and he thought we were "in a relationship". I barely even saw him - we used to meet in the park occasionally with the dogs. He eventually dumped me by text. I wasn't upset, just in a shock at what he'd wrote. He had a cheek, really.

I don't know why I agreed to "go out" with him. He was a immature little twat.
 
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sobrietytestingunderway

#57
I am a female who has never had a boyfriend or dated. I never even really 'liked' anyone like that until this year, so no wonder.

Though no one had been particularly interested, regardless.
 

colt45

Well-Known Member
#59
I am 24 years old. I have had two girl friends. One was for a little over a year and the other one was form only two weeks.

Part of me has not been motivated to do so.
 

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