BPD Support Thread

[Aurelia]

What are dealbreakers for you guys? Like in a relationship?

Blatant abuse. Lack of protectiveness. For guys, cowardliness. And I guess that's about it.

 

[Gwyrdd]

I feel that, I feel so emotionally dependent on my husband. I love him but I don’t know if I can always tell which is which. I wonder sometimes if he’s getting as much from me as I’m getting from him

I felt that last sentence in my soul.

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

Blatant abuse. Lack of protectiveness. For guys, cowardliness. And I guess that's about it.

Same here pretty much...also lying and cheating. Or just generally being an asshole.

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

I felt that last sentence in my soul.

What is this thing you call a soul? haha

 

[Gwyrdd]

What are dealbreakers for you guys? Like in a relationship?

Jealousy. Inability to communicate. Undesired violence. (I'm not vanilla, don't ask) Judgement.

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

Jealousy. Inability to communicate. Undesired violence. (I'm not vanilla, don't ask) Judgement.

I like knowing about non vanilla things though. lol

 

[Gwyrdd]

What is this thing you call a soul? haha

The only shred of humanity I have left lol

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

The only shred of humanity I have left lol

Damn, wish I remember where I left my soul.

 

[Aurelia]

Same here pretty much...also lying and cheating. Or just generally being an asshole.

Of course. Those are definitely a given. And also not putting me and my feelings first above others...some things can be situation dependent but most of the time, though, i should be first priority.

 

[Gwyrdd]

Of course. Those are definitely a given. And also not putting me and my feelings first above others...some things can be situation dependent but most of the time, though, i should be first priority.

I prefer being second priority. I want them to take care if themselves first. Can't care for me if they burn themselves out.

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

Of course. Those are definitely a given. And also not putting me and my feelings first above others...some things can be situation dependent but most of the time, though, i should be first priority.

Remember that script you gave me and I read it for the BPD hotline thingy? That was fun. lol

 

[Aves]

What are dealbreakers for you guys? Like in a relationship?

Cheating, lying, abuse, stealing from me, and just general dickhead behaviour I think. I’m sure there’s plenty more I could think of

 

[Aurelia]

Damn, wish I remember where I left my soul.

I remember where I left mine. I locked that fucker away to rot alone in the dark for the rest of its days...

Was that a bit too dark? Lol

 

[Aves]

I prefer being second priority. I want them to take care if themselves first. Can't care for me if they burn themselves out.

Yes, yes, yes to that one.

 

[Gwyrdd]

Cheating, lying, abuse, stealing from me, and just general dickhead behaviour I think. I’m sure there’s plenty more I could think of

What's your guys thought on monogamy? I already know Christy would be open to trying polyamory. But anyone else?

 

[Aurelia]

Remember that script you gave me and I read it for the BPD hotline thingy? That was fun. lol

Yeah, you definitely read that well lol. I loved it. It definitely made me laugh, especially hearing you almost breaking out in laughter at times as you spoke.

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

I remember where I left mine. I locked that fucker away to rot alone in the dark for the rest of its days...

Was that a bit too dark? Lol

I don't know, but I'm listening to that script now. lol

 

[Aurelia]

What's your guys thought on monogamy? I already know Christy would be open to trying polyamory. But anyone else?

Nope...as of this point and time, definitely not. Not going to say never because who the fuck knows how ill feel in 10 years, but as of right now, nah.

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

Yeah, you definitely read that well lol. I loved it. It definitely made me laugh, especially hearing you almost breaking out in laughter at times as you spoke.

I was trying to make it sound like legit advice too. haha

 

[Aves]

What's your guys thought on monogamy? I already know Christy would be open to trying polyamory. But anyone else?

I don’t know if I could deal with being with more than one person if I’m being honest lol. What about you?