I think I HAD quiet bpd but it evolved or something. Frank was an abusive fucked. And after he died I decided to stop dating and only hookup. But Tommy weasels his way in. Decided to make me fall for him, while being straight. Told me he felt the same way about me that he did about Rachel but wasn't attracted to men still. I explained romantic orientation is different from sexual. And since then... romance has caused my symptoms to return and worsen, and I think its mostly from Frank. I don't fully trust that I won't be abused again?