BPD Support Thread

[Witty_Sarcasm]

Werewolf isn't too far off tbh.

That is hot

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

Like personally I couldn't mesh well with narcs, histrionic people, etc. and maybe some BPD's but not all.

 

[Gwyrdd]

Still sounds better than dating almost any cluster B, except maybe another BPD.

I could maybe handle a histrionic, considering I have the patience to give them attention. But narcs and ASes are a nope. Borderlines... doable but also no thanks lol. Not atm anyway.

 

[FlamingoWrangler]

Pretty sure I scared everyone else off this thread. 😂

I am going to have to say you thoughtfully thinned the herd. 🤣 you are not as scary as you think!

Witty can't scare me, just I am pretty boring with little to add.

ditto!

I think, the 3 of us just like to overshare a lot lol, and hence, do it with each other. And we share the same fucked up sense of humor, so that helps.

I hope you have room for 4. I like to overshare. My humor is fucked up, but has been muted for too long. I hope it’s not gone.

where have I been? You are my people! 🤣

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

I could maybe handle a histrionic, considering I have the patience to give them attention. But narcs and ASes are a nope. Borderlines... doable but also no thanks lol. Not atm anyway.

I agree with you there. I don't like BPD's who take their shit out on me. Otherwise I'm cool with them because we can understand each other well.

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

I am going to have to say you thoughtfully thinned the herd. 🤣 you are not as scary as you think!


ditto!


I hope you have room for 4. I like to overshare. My humor is fucked up, but has been muted for too long. I hope it’s not gone.

where have I been? You are my people! 🤣

Aww thanks, you're sweet. Welcome to our little enclave! We're weird but fun. lol

 

[Gwyrdd]

I agree with you there. I don't like BPD's who take their shit out on me. Otherwise I'm cool with them because we can understand each other well.

Yeah same. If they react to shit the way I do though it wouldn't last long anyway. I'm so bad at making the first move after a fight/perceived fight. One wrong thing said and we basically ghost each other lmao.

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

Yeah same. If they react to shit the way I do though it wouldn't last long anyway. I'm so bad at making the first move after a fight/perceived fight. One wrong thing said and we basically ghost each other lmao.

Basically I'm thinking of those who take their anger out on me or other negative emotions. I know enough to rein that shit in and not put it on people I care about.

 

[Gwyrdd]

Basically I'm thinking of those who take their anger out on me or other negative emotions. I know enough to rein that shit in and not put it on people I care about.

God I remember when I was bad enough that I did that shit. I'm glad my reactions have gotten better. But my emotions have gotten worse in turn.

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

God I remember when I was bad enough that I did that shit. I'm glad my reactions have gotten better. But my emotions have gotten worse in turn.

Yeah, I used to be bad with that too. Mostly I just direct my anger inward now. Which isn't better but at least I don't alienate people so much.

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

I'm listening to music now and thinking of all the music I'll never make. :P

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

It helps to also tune out whatever shit my mom is currently spewing.

 

[Aurelia]

I could maybe handle a histrionic, considering I have the patience to give them attention. But narcs and ASes are a nope. Borderlines... doable but also no thanks lol. Not atm anyway.

It would really depend for me. Borderlines are all different and have different characteristics, but I would require at least some level of self-awareness and self-control. But also, I'm turned off by lack of confidence, which a lot of borderlines have. Not all, though.

 

[Aurelia]

God I remember when I was bad enough that I did that shit. I'm glad my reactions have gotten better. But my emotions have gotten worse in turn.

Definitely same here. Outward reactions have gotten better while inward emotions are still driving me up a wall.

 

[Gwyrdd]

It would really depend for me. Borderlines are all different and have different characteristics, but I would require at least some level of self-awareness and self-control. But also, I'm turned off by lack of confidence, which a lot of borderlines have. Not all, though.

I have a lack of confidence in humanity. I'm not purposefully confident, but I think most humans are trash, and thus I'm confident in my superiority as less trash than the majority.

Ends up being the same quality, just found in a different way.

 

[Gwyrdd]

Definitely same here. Outward reactions have gotten better while inward emotions are still driving me up a wall.

Yeah, I've been told by so many that bpd gets better with age. My experience so far is mostly the opposite. My ability to control myself is much better. But my emotional instability has never been worse.

 

[Gwyrdd]

Hypothetically, how do I go about asking my judgy roommate for pills I know he has cuz I stole, used way more than he knows he used, all without letting him know I know he definitely has them?

 

[Gwyrdd]

Also, @Witty⭐️Sarcasm ⭐️ I just realized I used your real name instead of Witty in a post earlier. I hope that's common knowledge lol. If not, sorry.

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

Also, @Witty⭐️Sarcasm ⭐️ I just realized I used your real name instead of Witty in a post earlier. I hope that's common knowledge lol. If not, sorry.

That's ok, I put all my stuff on my profile and don't care if people know it. Lol

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

Hypothetically, how do I go about asking my judgy roommate for pills I know he has cuz I stole, used way more than he knows he used, all without letting him know I know he definitely has them?

just steal some more.

Sorry, I think a demon typed that.