How Are You Feeling Right Now?

[MrMojonski]

Oh, yes, I do remember reading that. Sometimes it's better for people to go their separate ways if things aren't working in their marriage. And I know that's hard to accept, but I had to do the same several years ago, and I can at least tell you that things start to feel better with time.

It’s so mixed up as on one level everything is fine. But it is the underlying issue which has cause me so much grief and others don’t see.

 

[Aurelia]

It’s so mixed up as on one level everything is fine. But it is the underlying issue which has cause me so much grief and others don’t see.

Whatever the issue may have been, try to think of it as now you can start to put these problems behind you and start over. Things can and will get better.

 

[MrMojonski]

Whatever the issue may have been, try to think of it as now you can start to put these problems behind you and start over. Things can and will get better.

Thank you so kind

 

[MisterBGone]

I feel like I deserve all of this pain and sadness, and I probably do. It's my own fault that things are like this.

Sometimes... the mind, "Lies" & 'distorts,' things--such that, if may FEEL this way/but that does not necessarily mean or make it: correct! If you know what I'm saying?

 

[Lane]

I feel like I deserve all of this pain and sadness, and I probably do. It's my own fault that things are like this.

It's so easy to blame ourselves when life is so hard. I'm sure you were doing your best at the time @Xistence. I hope you can be kind to yourself during this difficult time. We are here for you at SF.

 

[Lane]

That sounds "very scary," to me - Lane! I don't think I could do that... to a daughter (of 20). Now, a son? No problem~ ; ) So, I'm very proud of you! : )

thank you @MisterBGone

 

[AmberMarie]

After typing loads the other night i have been able to sleep... however. that brings on a different bunch of issues because i loath my dreams. Now, i try to get up n do something, anything, n i just fall back asleep. If my laptop wasn't right next to me, i wouldn't be on it. Trying to watch any Netflix show... or play a mind numbing game... however, sleep overtakes. Why can't there be a happy middle?!? it's either no sleep or nothing but sleep. i'm tired of the fight, so i'm going back to sleep.

 

[Astrid78]

Worried that I'm raising my kids to be kind, respectful independent critical thinkers. I don't think they are going to fit in very well when they go out into the world. I should just give them screens and send them to school. But I just cant.

 

[puffymilk]

I am okay

 

[Lane]

Worried that I'm raising my kids to be kind, respectful independent critical thinkers. I don't think they are going to fit in very well when they go out into the world. I should just give them screens and send them to school. But I just cant.

They are going to be ahead of the game @Astrid78. We need more people in the world who are being raised as your little ones are. Keep up the great work. Homeschooling is no easy task.

 

[Lane]

After typing loads the other night i have been able to sleep... however. that brings on a different bunch of issues because i loath my dreams. Now, i try to get up n do something, anything, n i just fall back asleep. If my laptop wasn't right next to me, i wouldn't be on it. Trying to watch any Netflix show... or play a mind numbing game... however, sleep overtakes. Why can't there be a happy middle?!? it's either no sleep or nothing but sleep. i'm tired of the fight, so i'm going back to sleep.

I hope you have a good day @AmberMarie. I think it's good that you have your writing. I'm also going to try to find a movie to try to watch to keep my mind busy today. I hope you have a good rest as well.

 

[Lane]

I wasn't sure I had it in me today to run around and do all the chores on my list. I did it, plus took my daughter to get her car and took her to lunch. Lately I've been feeling I'm just not enough if that makes sense, but I keep trying. What else am I going to do? I don't want to give up. Sometimes I feel so old, but I'm not there yet I have quite a few more years of living to do. Thanks for listening friends.

 

[1964dodge]

emotionally in pain

i'm so sorry that you are suffering in pain. i hope you can start feeling better soon

mike...

 

[1964dodge]

I wasn't sure I had it in me today to run around and do all the chores on my list. I did it, plus took my daughter to get her car and took her to lunch. Lately I've been feeling I'm just not enough if that makes sense, but I keep trying. What else am I going to do? I don't want to give up. Sometimes I feel so old, but I'm not there yet I have quite a few more years of living to do. Thanks for listening friends.

 

[AmberMarie]

feeling I'm just not enough

i understand. Raising 3 alone i always felt that way... however, somehow... i always was. now that i'm not needed anywhere or by anyone.... i'm never enough.

 

[1964dodge]

How is it, are you liking it?
I really don't want to buy into the 5g. I'm grateful my old Apple8 is working just fine except for how long it holds its charge now.......I still have my old landline too which is what I use for vm.....just more comfortable with it, lol. I don't know what I'll do when it dies since Radio Shack went out of business years ago which is where I used to by those kinds of phones.

i bought mine at tmobil because i have 24 monthly paymets and i have been with tmobile for 12 years. it's a galaxy s23 and it's a great phone. our biggest problem of course is getting used to it. except for a couple of things my son will have to help me with i am doing ok with it. we only change phones when we have to so we want the newer technology so they won't be too obsolete in a couple of years. we don't like to keep changing phones to be hip lol. our old phones had between 1 and 2 hours before they went dead after a full charge.

mike....

 

[AmberMarie]

Worried that I'm raising my kids to be kind, respectful independent critical thinkers. I don't think they are going to fit in very well when they go out into the world. I should just give them screens and send them to school. But I just cant.

Every great parent's worry... i'd be concerned if it wasn't.. Trust your gut. once they are older... you will enjoy the rewarding experiences of your hard work.

 

[1964dodge]

Anxious

i hope you feel a little better today

mike....

 

[1964dodge]

Ditto

 

[1964dodge]

Hateful and Angry!

i'm sorry that you feel so hateful and angry, i hope you feel a little better today

mike...