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How Are You Feeling Right Now?
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i have an issue with my 64 dodge so kind of down a little. it's only an isssue with a wheel so a minor inexpensive issue. although after she's fixed i'm going to put her away for the winter and bring my truck home. other than that i'm doing pretty good
mike...
mike...
i was thinking of selling her and my truck. but my wife made sense when she said we should put her away for the winter then decide, she thinks it would be a big mistake, and i was going to trade my truck in for something newer but probably won't. i get like this some times lol
mike....
mike....
Think very carefully BEFORE you sell Jasmine. Once gone, she is gone. And you will still need a set of wheels to get around.
I would personally, although very hard not to feel like utter crap--or even far worse: following their treatment of you; take a deep breath. Relax, and then take a moment to reset, and "think." With as clear & focused a mind as I can/or could in this given situation (& understanding the difficulties/or challenges that you are faced with, over having been what feels like, 'given-up!' & therefore - "rejected!"). . . BUT- All is not lost~
Getting back to my original point, because I somehow managed to side-track, or lose myself: how I would view the situation is if not one of a compliment, or complimentary (that I am so advanced a case for them to be able to handle) - then take solace in the fact that they cut you/me "loose." And then blame it on, or attribute it to the fact that is due to their 'incompetence.' Or inability to treat you (or me).
So, if you think about it, she was really doing you a favor (forgive me if it was a He)--because if this is accurate, or correct, then you don't want them continuing your treatment, and care, for they can't then help you very much. Or all that effectively~ / Just my thoughts, & 2 cents. Know it doesn't mean much though, right now, because of how you are hurting so.
Sometimes, this is the best time to have someone else come in from the outside, so they can see things a bit more clearly, and without clouded judgement that emotion so often provides. And in this case, and cases like these, that is say "drowing in," or 'drenched/soaked in,' the emotion, or that therein. They are colored right now, and so it is difficult to view it as it actually is (the reality, in other words), since the distortion, or filter exists over the lens. . . In a manner of speaking~
Getting back to my original point, because I somehow managed to side-track, or lose myself: how I would view the situation is if not one of a compliment, or complimentary (that I am so advanced a case for them to be able to handle) - then take solace in the fact that they cut you/me "loose." And then blame it on, or attribute it to the fact that is due to their 'incompetence.' Or inability to treat you (or me).
So, if you think about it, she was really doing you a favor (forgive me if it was a He)--because if this is accurate, or correct, then you don't want them continuing your treatment, and care, for they can't then help you very much. Or all that effectively~ / Just my thoughts, & 2 cents. Know it doesn't mean much though, right now, because of how you are hurting so.
Sometimes, this is the best time to have someone else come in from the outside, so they can see things a bit more clearly, and without clouded judgement that emotion so often provides. And in this case, and cases like these, that is say "drowing in," or 'drenched/soaked in,' the emotion, or that therein. They are colored right now, and so it is difficult to view it as it actually is (the reality, in other words), since the distortion, or filter exists over the lens. . . In a manner of speaking~
my wife and i talked at length today and jasmine is NOT for sale. the issue was i can't work on her like i used to. my son has been doing most of the work . i also have a son in law that's a mechanic and he is always willing to work on her. i couldn't ask for a better son in law. but for anything major it would be difficult. i mistook exhaustion for getting tired about working on jasmine . my son has been working crazy hours and is behind on things that he was supposed to do this spring. somtimes i get a little touchy especially depending on others. but i'm ok now.
mike....
mike....