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How Are You Feeling Right Now?

AvidFan

Retired Cat Staff
SF Supporter
It could only happen to me. I was right all along, I took steps to double check that I was right, I looked out for everyone, and tried to follow the rules to the letter, then tried to bring everything to the light of day - and now I'm more in trouble for not pointing out I was right than the person who actually ignored me and got it all wrong. I am in trouble for being right and trusting a colleague not to give me the wrong information. Oh just fuck 'em, fucking pricks.
 

AvidFan

Retired Cat Staff
SF Supporter
Too tired to resist, I'm not risking poor sleep, my mind is starting to race again, and still got work issue to deal with tomorrow, as I need to hear back from other people involved in the FUBAR stuff to decide on next steps. Looks like I won't get fired but I'll have lost a lot of kudos with the upper management. Hey ho. Only about 14 years till retirement.... for now I will retire to my bed and my sleep medication.
 

1964dodge

Has a monkey as a friend
Safety & Support
SF Supporter
Fed up with the American medical system. It sucks and is only getting worse. Probably a plan to kill off all of us sick people.
that actually is a theory going around onlne. i'm lucky i have a good doctor and my medicare advantage plan has approved everythng so far. the biggest problem is picking the best policy possible for their needs, the system is so complicated that most lay people couldn't understand it

mike....*hug*shake
 

Windhover

meandering home
SF Supporter
thank you. I have already located our local meetings.
I used to be good friends with an alcoholic who has been sober for over 30 (?) years. They said that having the AA sponsor was the most important part. I don't know if that helps.

Bergerac we sent my brother to rehab several times, at an enormous fiscal and emotional cost. The literature got our - his family - hopes up, and they were dashed when he went straight back to driinking upon his reuturn from the places. They didn't have much effect other than giving him a vacation in a pretty place. Though it is negative advice I thought I'd mention this. I hope you find what your friend needs to become sober.
 
Bergerac we sent my brother to rehab several times, at an enormous fiscal and emotional cost. The literature got our - his family - hopes up, and they were dashed when he went straight back to driinking upon his reuturn from the places. They didn't have much effect other than giving him a vacation in a pretty place.
It seems like this is a general problem with for-profit institutions, and even many not-for-profit institutions. They're a business that needs to sell a product in order to either keep making money, or to keep the people running it employed. I guess ideally they'd at least keep the people in rehab safe and off of drugs/alcohol while they're in, but they also seem to have an incentive to give people excessively rosy expectations.
 

Bergerac

Well-Known Member
I used to be good friends with an alcoholic who has been sober for over 30 (?) years. They said that having the AA sponsor was the most important part. I don't know if that helps.

Bergerac we sent my brother to rehab several times, at an enormous fiscal and emotional cost. The literature got our - his family - hopes up, and they were dashed when he went straight back to driinking upon his reuturn from the places. They didn't have much effect other than giving him a vacation in a pretty place. Though it is negative advice I thought I'd mention this. I hope you find what your friend needs to become sober.
thanks so much for writing all of that out for me. A lot of people have said the same, actually. A.A. certainly seems like one of the best options anyone can have, in this position.
 

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