How Are You Feeling Right Now?

[Bergerac]

Why is it, that when you think people are kind, they then go on to demonstrate they lack that last bit of finesse/thought?

 

[puffymilk]

Sad, sad, and sad.

 

[may71]

Why is it, that when you think people are kind, they then go on to demonstrate they lack that last bit of finesse/thought?

I'm sorry this happened.

Ok, now I'm paranoid. It's not me is it? I'm often tired or stretched thin when I post, so a lack of finesse/thought may be common for me.

I certainly wouldn't intentionally do something mean or thoughtless to you. Even if it's not me, maybe that's also true of this other person?

 

[may71]

I'm sorry you've been feeling so stressed.

I definitely need to not get so upset like that ever again.

Extreme emotions, especially extreme negative emotions can be very bad for you. Do you feel like you'll know what to do to prevent that from happening again?

 

[Bergerac]

I'm sorry this happened.

Ok, now I'm paranoid. It's not me is it? I'm often tired or stretched thin when I post, so a lack of finesse/thought may be common for me.

I certainly wouldn't intentionally do something mean or thoughtless to you. Even if it's not me, maybe that's also true of this other person?

Oh no, not at all. I’m grateful for all of your responses and the same applies to all of the members here. This is the people where I live, that I was referring to. I just tend to vent random rubbish here, sometimes.

Thanks again for all your help, and sorry for distressing you, if I have.

 

[may71]

Thanks again for all your help

You're welcome

and sorry for distressing you, if I have.

No, it's ok, I'm fine.

You're welcome to say more about that actual incident that's bothering you if you'd like.

Hugs back!

 

[mosaic hearts]

I'm sorry this happened.

Ok, now I'm paranoid. It's not me is it? I'm often tired or stretched thin when I post, so a lack of finesse/thought may be common for me.

I certainly wouldn't intentionally do something mean or thoughtless to you. Even if it's not me, maybe that's also true of this other person?

Oh my goodness, fron my experience, this is far from the truth. You're a kind, thoughtful, caring, & loving person. Please be gentle with yourself & know you're very appreciated & loved!

 

[may71]

Oh my goodness, fron my experience, this is far from the truth. You're a kind, thoughtful, caring, & loving person. Please be gentle with yourself & know you're very appreciated & loved!

That's so nice! Thank you!

 

[iloverachel]

I'm sorry this happened.

Ok, now I'm paranoid. It's not me is it? I'm often tired or stretched thin when I post, so a lack of finesse/thought may be common for me.

I certainly wouldn't intentionally do something mean or thoughtless to you. Even if it's not me, maybe that's also true of this other person?

Over my past few years here I must say you Are one of the kindest and most helpful posters on this forum, and that Is saying a lot considering pretty much everyone on this forum is kind and nice

Keep up the good work

 

[may71]

That you so much Iloverachel

Hugs back!

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

Worried and a bit stressed because of the worry. The reasons for those feelings are a few things:

1. A dumb thing I did at Walmart yesterday. Ugh, I really should not have given them that info, and now I am terrified that it could seriously bite me in the butt. Can't really say more than that, but gonna call them today and praying they can reverse that request and that it hopefully has not even reached any further than them yet. I like the idea of building credit, but just not sure if the "chance" to do that is worth this level of stress, worry and uncertainty. I do NOT need more things to be worried and stressed about in my life.

2. My right side of my chest still being sore after I got very upset about something last night. That was probably around 10-11pm, and now it is 7 hours later and it is still sore. I am just hoping it is only because of feeling such an extreme emotion and nothing more. I have gotten that upset before though and not had this chest pain, anyway maybe I will search online again to see if there is a pill I could take, or something else I could do, to help make that chest pain lessen. I just want it to go away, and I definitely need to not get so upset like that ever again.

3. Still not knowing whether I'll be going to my sis's on the 8th, or the 13th. I really don't like how she always only lets us know at the "last minute" or like maybe a day or 2 before when we will be going. It is kinda thoughtless and inconsiderate of our time and feelings, I mean we have a cat and have to make arrangements with the neighbor to check up on her. The sooner we can let him know when that will be and how long it will be for, the better. We have told her before that we'd appreciate knowing as far in advance as we possibly can. She claimed she would be getting that info on Tuesday, and now it is bloody Friday. If we're to be ready to go there for the 8th, then that gives us only 2 measly days of notice, rather than close to a week. I am just feeling very tired of being treated like my feelings don't matter (by her I mean). And on top of feeling that way, I also feel guilty for feeling this way about her, because she has done lots of nice and good things too of course.

I think your info should be safe, as long as it's with a trusted company. But it's a good idea to cancel that if it's causing you more stress. I hope that the chest pain isn't because of something more than stress, but I hope that it will lessen and you won't have anything like that happen again. I hope that your sister will let you know soon if you are going to her place and that everything can be resolved.

 

[mosaic hearts]

Worried and a bit stressed because of the worry. The reasons for those feelings are a few things:

1. A dumb thing I did at Walmart yesterday. Ugh, I really should not have given them that info, and now I am terrified that it could seriously bite me in the butt. Can't really say more than that, but gonna call them today and praying they can reverse that request and that it hopefully has not even reached any further than them yet. I like the idea of building credit, but just not sure if the "chance" to do that is worth this level of stress, worry and uncertainty. I do NOT need more things to be worried and stressed about in my life.

2. My right side of my chest still being sore after I got very upset about something last night. That was probably around 10-11pm, and now it is 7 hours later and it is still sore. I am just hoping it is only because of feeling such an extreme emotion and nothing more. I have gotten that upset before though and not had this chest pain, anyway maybe I will search online again to see if there is a pill I could take, or something else I could do, to help make that chest pain lessen. I just want it to go away, and I definitely need to not get so upset like that ever again.

3. Still not knowing whether I'll be going to my sis's on the 8th, or the 13th. I really don't like how she always only lets us know at the "last minute" or like maybe a day or 2 before when we will be going. It is kinda thoughtless and inconsiderate of our time and feelings, I mean we have a cat and have to make arrangements with the neighbor to check up on her. The sooner we can let him know when that will be and how long it will be for, the better. We have told her before that we'd appreciate knowing as far in advance as we possibly can. She claimed she would be getting that info on Tuesday, and now it is bloody Friday. If we're to be ready to go there for the 8th, then that gives us only 2 measly days of notice, rather than close to a week. I am just feeling very tired of being treated like my feelings don't matter (by her I mean). And on top of feeling that way, I also feel guilty for feeling this way about her, because she has done lots of nice and good things too of course.

How are you feeling with your chest now, @JMG? Would it be worth it to err on the side of caution & get checked out at the emergency room? Thinking of you & wanting you to be safe!

 

[puffymilk]

Sad as always. I don't know if I'll ever get over this sadness.

 

[JMG]

I'm sorry you've been feeling so stressed.

Extreme emotions, especially extreme negative emotions can be very bad for you. Do you feel like you'll know what to do to prevent that from happening again?

I think your info should be safe, as long as it's with a trusted company. But it's a good idea to cancel that if it's causing you more stress. I hope that the chest pain isn't because of something more than stress, but I hope that it will lessen and you won't have anything like that happen again. I hope that your sister will let you know soon if you are going to her place and that everything can be resolved.

How are you feeling with your chest now, @JMG? Would it be worth it to err on the side of caution & get checked out at the emergency room? Thinking of you & wanting you to be safe!

Oh wow, thank you so much may71, Witty_Sarcasm and mosaic hearts for being so kind and thoughtful with replying to what I said

May71 - Yes, I definitely know what to do to prevent myself from ever getting that upset and reactive again - reminding myself of this happening and not wanting it to ever happen again. And ya just keeping myself more calm, peaceful, positive, hopeful and non-worried will also help it never happen again I think

Witty_Sarcasm - Ya I am sure hoping it will be ok. Trying not to feel dumb about it, the lady was reassuring that it should be ok, if it turns out she is wrong then I will be a bit upset about that for sure. Anyway all I can really do is hope for the best at this point, called WM yesterday to see if they could reverse that request but they said no and all I can do is wait til I am sent the confirmation in the mail about whether I was approved for it or not. Hopefully they won’t hassle me about anything, that’s my biggest worry with it. If they don’t want to approve me then I hope they will just say “sorry, not approved” and that will be the end of it.

Thanks for what you said about the chest pain too, ya I think it is pretty much better now thankfully, still feels a bit sore but better compared to yesterday at least I really hope it won’t ever happen again too for sure, just need to always keep myself as calm and stress-free as I possibly can. Ya my sis thankfully let us know the day we’ll be going there next week. We’ll be staying there for either 2 or 3 days so that will be nice

mosaic hearts - Ya, as I said above to Witty, it is pretty much better today now I’m glad to say I was really worried about it, but my real life friend said he had that happen before and where it lasted a day but then went away and everything was fine. That gave me a lot of hope that it probably wasn’t anything serious and wasn’t worth running to the hospital about. Definitely if it ever happens again then yes I will do what you suggested with going to the hospital to make sure everything is ok. Thank you for caring and wanting me to be safe that is so kind of you and I appreciate it a lot

Hope you, Witty and may71 are all well, and that everyone else here is well too

 

[Aurelia]

A removal from the evil around me. Thereby, providing opportunities for growth. Specifically, charity work.

That's a noble pursuit. Have you looked into it online?

 

[Lane]

I don't feel the usual dread I feel on the weekends when I have all the time to do nothing. I get lonely and sometimes anxiety when I'm alone for too long. But today I'm going to clean up the kitchen and some of the mess from the kids then go out to Dollar General and look for Christmas ornaments for the girls at work. I always feel better when I have a plan. I hope everyone here has some peace over this weekend.

 

[Lane]

Sad as always. I don't know if I'll ever get over this sadness.

I hope you get some happiness soon puffymilk.

 

[KM76710]

Rested. In bed early and slept well.

 

[Bergerac]

That's a noble pursuit. Have you looked into it online?

I use my network of contacts, which I obtain from other sources, to seek out opportunities. Then, I carry out projects, in order to try and secure the job, online, yes. Thank you very much for showing an interest. It's really appreciated.

 

[AvidFan]

Sad. 8.33pm on a Saturday night and I am thinking of just going to bed.