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Lane

Lane

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On Sunday I was looking thru FB and I saw on my ex-husbands wife's post, photos of my daughter and her baby at a beach festival. It hurts me and peaks my curiosity at the same time, then puts me in a downward spiral. Then I told my fiance that it hurts me deeply and he said I was just bothered. No, I'm not just bothered. I got mad. Too many feelings at once. Thanks for letting me share.
 
Bergerac

Bergerac

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Lane said:
On Sunday I was looking thru FB and I saw on my ex-husbands wife's post, photos of my daughter and her baby at a beach festival. It hurts me and peaks my curiosity at the same time, then puts me in a downward spiral. Then I told my fiance that it hurts me deeply and he said I was just bothered. No, I'm not just bothered. I got mad. Too many feelings at once. Thanks for letting me share.
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Mine is in reverse of this: I am the child, and I see my Father's pictures, with his other children. So, I can empathize, in a sense.
 
Livelife

Livelife

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Lane said:
On Sunday I was looking thru FB and I saw on my ex-husbands wife's post, photos of my daughter and her baby at a beach festival. It hurts me and peaks my curiosity at the same time, then puts me in a downward spiral. Then I told my fiance that it hurts me deeply and he said I was just bothered. No, I'm not just bothered. I got mad. Too many feelings at once. Thanks for letting me share.
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*brohug*hug10
 
JMG

JMG

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Livelife said:
It's a different experience today. There's now another quiet and emptiness layer on top of what was already in place. It will take some time to adjust to the transition and it is a permanent shift in my world.
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Just wanted to say I can relate to this feeling, especially the last sentence. So extremely upset, disappointed and utterly shocked about something that was said to me by a family member that I literally can’t even talk about it.

Just…wow. That’s all I can really say about it right now. I cannot fight to keep that connection/relationship alive any longer, so I guess his brainwashing on her has won. Just don’t have the energy to keep fighting against it anymore, he’s always been jealous of me and has been doing all he can for many years to get her to think of me in a negative, judgmental and critical way. It seems she does now, and does not think anything positive about me. It’s the last kind of energy I need, especially with what a challenging year it has already bloody been for me.

Anyway, I’m sorry you are feeling that way and I hope it will be a shift for the “better” (for both of us) ;)*hug*hug

Congrats on finding a place you like Mike, and that you’ll be able to move in this weekend too, that’s great and I’m happy for you :)*hug*hug

Sending lotsa hugs to everyone here who wants them, happy for those who are doing well, and wishing for there to be lotsa happiness/peace soon for those who aren’t doing so well right now *hug*hug*grouphug2
 
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