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HappyKitty

Works during the day, doodles at night.
That independent feeling even if my doc told me to take breaks from work till my results stable, I still can save money and pamper self and its funny how my aunts got excited for me being able to maintain housekeeping and cooking what my family taught me other than my mum yano whenever I chill and at grandpa house to entertain him. Yet dont forget that its okay to not be overly independant, like I learn to ask help from my mum side cause my dad side are all ageing lol so they can’t attend fast. I enjoy cooking so much, all thanks to back to basics of cooking and baking class before during mid year holiday this year, after my travels in UK visiting my brothers, was fun and helped me get use to sound of fire and stirring. Now I don’t only depend on air fryer but hey when I do get a job again like ok so maybe part time, I’m gonna get air pressure cooker, Hehe after beauty products, now moving on to viral kitchen appliances.🤣

Im making chicken thighs menu rn and I wanna learn how to bake cute cupcakes.🥺
 
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TragicReality

I wish I could turn back time
SF Supporter
I'm not feeling nearly as bad today, I called my lawyer and she answered. I may not have to move as soon as this landlord thinks. He's not doing things right, since it wasn't me causing issues here, so I'm somewhat relieved.

I'll pay for the window, shouldn't have to pay for the door as I saw that damage before my son visited here, he pointed it out before he was inside, because there had been a lot of damage inside here as well. But it's landlords word so I have to.
 

AvidFan

Retired Cat Staff
SF Supporter
Stupidly down and anxious. Probably just a result of having too much time on my hands and being consistently alone without any work stuff to provide my extrovert part with an energy topup, my routine is non existent, I've been eating rubbish for 10 days and not doing much exercise or anything much. I know I'll be 100% fine when I go back to the grind but my mind is dwelling on "A week ago I had two weeks off now I'm well over half way through and it's slipping through my fingers and soon I'm going to be wishing it was two weeks ago". I'll probably feel better when my bank balance starts moving in the right direction again. Just don't feel as optimistic for 2025 as I did for 2024. But then that optimism was unfounded as it was an awful year, maybe my pessimism will be unfounded too!
 

MisterBGone

~\_✅`,')
SF Supporter
Hi MisterBGone; Thanks for your wishes but everyday I am getting worst and worst. I wish I will die soon
I'm hoping that something will come along to change your fortunes around, or to make you look at things a little bit more positively--even if, you don't have a ton of good reason to do so now, @zuzu ~ I sincerely do want this for you! And it is not just some dream. Try to keep going. . .
 

Windhover

meandering home
SF Supporter
Last normal day of the year, a most bizarre year for me with too many thousands of miles traveled, costing money and energy down the drain, along with having worked too hard on the relationship with nothing good forthcoming, obviously. I know it's partly my fault blah blah blah he told me already plenty of times. No more being a sponge for his troubled mind; the sadness resulting from all that which likely messed up my mood and immune system. I'm done with thinking about it and need a fresh start with myself and my work.
 

AvidFan

Retired Cat Staff
SF Supporter
Last normal day of the year, a most bizarre year for me with too many thousands of miles traveled, costing money and energy down the drain, along with having worked too hard on the relationship with nothing good forthcoming, obviously. I know it's partly my fault blah blah blah he told me already plenty of times. No more being a sponge for his troubled mind; the sadness resulting from all that which likely messed up my mood and immune system. I'm done with thinking about it and need a fresh start with myself and my work.
Maybe the good that comes of it is a renewed relationship with yourself. I hope for a good fresh start for you. I think we'll both be glad to see the back of 2024!
 

1964dodge

Has a monkey as a friend
Safety & Support
SF Supporter
I feel anxious, worried. I get my emotions from my children at times. My daughter, 21, was fired from her job on grounds that she didn't meet job requirements and for acting inappropriatly at the Holiday party (she got drunk) and this is the other side of the story.

She was upset about losing the job but I don't see where she's feeling any remorse for her actions and this concerns me. I feel like it's my responsibility to have a talk with her. I just want this to all blow over, I know life has it's ups & downs but it doesn't make it any easier. I think it may be a pattern for her, she was banned from her Yoga studio, had a falling out with her former boss and can't go to her previous place of employment, now this. Questioning my ability as a parent.
it is the responsibility to raise children the best we can. we have to make decisions on the knowledge we have on hand. there comes a time when children make their own decisions and some can be wrong. all we can do is be there for them and ask them if you can have an honest and frank talk. you can't blame her for making mistakes but you can point them out and offer advice. you did right by raising your kids so please don't blame yourself. my kids made some bad mistakes but eventually turned out great.

mike.....*hug*shake
 

1964dodge

Has a monkey as a friend
Safety & Support
SF Supporter
unloved, unwanted, useless, alone
Just got settled in apartment, all utilities and paid up till end of feb. now landlord evicting me because of my son breaking window, shouting, figth with his brother on christmas
i'm empty
younger son crying to me, text, call, please help me.. i can do nothing he's not allowed here and i cant handle him, he pushed me already a bit on top of stairs
i cant even help myself anymore
i've no where to go
no one i care about is answering me irl.
i'm sorry that you are going through so much right now. maybe you can talk to the landlord and offer to pay the damage. my heart goes out to you, i know it's not irl but a lot of us care about you here

mike,....*hug*shake
 

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