How Are You Feeling Right Now?

[Soda-Voxel]

Bad, but slowly calming down.
Wow, it's been a long time since I've been on this forum

 

[may71]

I’m thinking about reaching out to the prosecutor proactively

That might be good, but it's also possible that it would make things worse. In principle, if you explained that you're considering a job offer, but wouldn't be able to take it if your license were suspended, they might be willing to tell you what outcome they expect or would seek, and if they wanted a suspension how long the suspension would last.

Any chance that you could move to be closer to the job?

 

[TragicReality]

I'm ok. I didn't get much accomplished today but I'm thinking of starting a hobby like knitting a big scarf, just not going to give it to my sister this time. It took several months to make it. Never saw her wear it.

 

[ClassicsFan]

Sleepy.

 

[Lane]

I'm ok. I didn't get much accomplished today but I'm thinking of starting a hobby like knitting a big scarf, just not going to give it to my sister this time. It took several months to make it. Never saw her wear it.

People can be terrible. Even (especially) one's own family. Yes, knit something, for yourself @TragicReality.

 

[Lane]

My son stayed over his girlfriends last night, my daughter is at her boyfriend's. That leaves an empty house, which I dont like. I think it may even be a trigger, for a therapist told me once that I have abandonment issues.

 

[Lane]

In so much physical pain. Damn, I hate it

 

[Angie]

I'm ok. I didn't get much accomplished today but I'm thinking of starting a hobby like knitting a big scarf, just not going to give it to my sister this time. It took several months to make it. Never saw her wear it.

I knit and crochet, and my experience is that many folks don't appreciate the time and money that go into these arts. I've had folks receive gifts and never (to my knowledge) use them.

So, I decided to dedicate myself to the "process" of knitting and crochet, whereby I am calmed and feel as if I am accomplishing something. I sort of divorce myself of what happens to the finished art.

Sorry if this is pushy or seems critical, but I wanted to share my experience with you.

 

[LumberJack]

Like 10 pounds of sh** in a 9 pound bag.

 

[LumberJack]

That might be good, but it's also possible that it would make things worse. In principle, if you explained that you're considering a job offer, but wouldn't be able to take it if your license were suspended, they might be willing to tell you what outcome they expect or would seek, and if they wanted a suspension how long the suspension would last.

Any chance that you could move to be closer to the job?

Sorry - I meant that the job seeking situation would get harder if I lose my license. The lack of practical mass transit in my area means that no driving would severely restrict my radius of employment opportunity.

I am NOT talking about mentioning that to the prosecutor. I'm talking about other things, namely specific things I'm doing to show that I'm taking this seriously and I intend to prevent a recurrence of what happened (or worse).

Also I only got an email from a recruiter. I have not even submitted a resume let alone gotten anywhere close to an offer.

 

[Windhover]

I needed to start some therapy, and today I did. The goal is to help me with certain traumas, and start to learn how to forget about who I was during the marriage and move on, as well as achieve the mileage goal I want for my running this year. I'm allowing myself a bit of a hopeful feeling.

 

[AvidFan]

Tired. Been a long day. Going to be a long week 😬

 

[Windhover]

not so good. i am still trying to get better and i won't give up

mike

I'm sending a good thought Mike. Get well soon.

 

[TragicReality]

I knit and crochet, and my experience is that many folks don't appreciate the time and money that go into these arts. I've had folks receive gifts and never (to my knowledge) use them.

So, I decided to dedicate myself to the "process" of knitting and crochet, whereby I am calmed and feel as if I am accomplishing something. I sort of divorce myself of what happens to the finished art.

Sorry if this is pushy or seems critical, but I wanted to share my experience with you.

It's not pushy or critical, I'm glad you replied to my post.. I think that's a good idea, not to worry where the finished project goes, or not to think much at all. Thanks for sharing.. and yes it's time and nothing wrong with spending that time doing whatever for the sake of doing it.

 

[ClassicsFan]

Annoyed.

 

[BlackSheep 007]

Like this - peaceful, relaxed... Best regards from Africa Cachouane, Casamance...

 

[Harpoon_PT]

 

[AvidFan]

Ok but tired. Overworking this week.

 

[Lane]

Teary. Had a dream about my ex-husband. We were together in our first condo but he was still hurt that I left him and I felt desperate for his forgiveness. My children were little and the whole thing just shook me up.

 

[Harpoon_PT]

I'm pissed off! My own brain hates me. I wish I could carve my brain out with a spoon bc it always shows me (in my sleep) things that were and/or that I wish could be. Instead of helping me forget, it's making fun of me by showing me what could have been, like marrying Lena. I wouldn't mind marrying her, ofc, but that ship sailed and sank long ago. Plus, the only interaction with a church I'd ever have is in Varg's style.