Hey I need some advice about work relationships and how to handle this situation.
So my coworker who was hired 5 months before me used to do this on going project when it first started. He has recently started a larger and more established on going project and does both projects very well.
I asked my manager if I could take over his older project to give me a chance to learn and gain some managerial experience. (Also this month I have been top employee in sales and have been carrying myself with more confidence)
When my coworker heard this he started behaving defensive and (in lack of better words) childishly trying to maintain control of the older project (a training wheels project so to speak). I suspect he is also bad mouthing me to my manager and jeopardizing my sales.
My question is, should I be assertive and tell him that I am not trying to undermined him I'm just trying to learn or should I just say nothing and let this continue?
HELPPPPPPPP!!!!!!! I am usually VERY passive aggressive and let this pill up but I am trying to stand up for myself lately. However, I lack the Emotional Intelligence to know the right place and time to act.
Any help is greatly appreciated.
So my coworker who was hired 5 months before me used to do this on going project when it first started. He has recently started a larger and more established on going project and does both projects very well.
I asked my manager if I could take over his older project to give me a chance to learn and gain some managerial experience. (Also this month I have been top employee in sales and have been carrying myself with more confidence)
When my coworker heard this he started behaving defensive and (in lack of better words) childishly trying to maintain control of the older project (a training wheels project so to speak). I suspect he is also bad mouthing me to my manager and jeopardizing my sales.
My question is, should I be assertive and tell him that I am not trying to undermined him I'm just trying to learn or should I just say nothing and let this continue?
HELPPPPPPPP!!!!!!! I am usually VERY passive aggressive and let this pill up but I am trying to stand up for myself lately. However, I lack the Emotional Intelligence to know the right place and time to act.
Any help is greatly appreciated.