I feel I've ruined my chances at love....
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I get that. It's frustrating to be around people who have what you feel you’re lacking. That’s natural. But I can pretty much guarantee that by the time those roommates hit 21, those relationships will have ended. And by that time, so long as you don’t get too fixated on what you don’t have right now, you will be on to the next one (Or maybe even the next one after that, if the next one gets boring).
I suck....
Question we have to ask, what is a stable relationship. Your saying your two 18 year old roommates have boyfriends, but, they really do not have a wish or thoughts of their boyfriends will turn into a husband and wife relationship. My theory of a stable relationship, is being with someone for two years, and it is rational to say it can lead to a marriage.
I am 29 years old, and if I was looking for a boyfriend: I would be more interested in a man who has gone months and maybe years without a girlfriend. Reason being, I would find him to be a more secure man because he has been alone. You can find a boyfriend someday, and I think he will find you more interesting and more secure as a woman because you never been with a collections of past boyfriends and a need to have a boyfriend.
We know the women who have a collections of boyfriends on their cellphone, and it is a Monday, and she is unsure who she is going on a date of Friday. Yes she is popular, but, to be frank she is also very insecure. Yes, your feeling insecure because you do not have a boyfriend now. Still, when you do get a boyfriend, he would think of you as a secure woman. Because he will feel you want him as a boyfriend, not because he feels you need to have a boyfriend. There is a difference.
I am 29 years old, and if I was looking for a boyfriend: I would be more interested in a man who has gone months and maybe years without a girlfriend. Reason being, I would find him to be a more secure man because he has been alone. You can find a boyfriend someday, and I think he will find you more interesting and more secure as a woman because you never been with a collections of past boyfriends and a need to have a boyfriend.
We know the women who have a collections of boyfriends on their cellphone, and it is a Monday, and she is unsure who she is going on a date of Friday. Yes she is popular, but, to be frank she is also very insecure. Yes, your feeling insecure because you do not have a boyfriend now. Still, when you do get a boyfriend, he would think of you as a secure woman. Because he will feel you want him as a boyfriend, not because he feels you need to have a boyfriend. There is a difference.
@Lady Wolfshead
The problem when you want to date someone who has always had a boyfriend or a girlfriend, and really never been single as a teenager and into adulthood. The longer you are in the relationship with the person, and, the person is getting older as the relationship is lasting years. In my judgment, the person becomes more trapped into the relationship. If a woman, she will do anything to stay in the relationship. If a man, he could become abusive and force her to stay in the relationship. With divorce happening in half the marriages, it is best to find someone that can function and move on if and only if the relationship comes to a end.
The problem when you want to date someone who has always had a boyfriend or a girlfriend, and really never been single as a teenager and into adulthood. The longer you are in the relationship with the person, and, the person is getting older as the relationship is lasting years. In my judgment, the person becomes more trapped into the relationship. If a woman, she will do anything to stay in the relationship. If a man, he could become abusive and force her to stay in the relationship. With divorce happening in half the marriages, it is best to find someone that can function and move on if and only if the relationship comes to a end.
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