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Jim's Café, Celebrate Thanksgiving with us! - November 28th, Thursday
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we do sometimes get "punished" for our good deeds but in our heart we know that we've done the right thing. and if you are right in your heart you are a happy person. and I've got a horrible suggestion that may help.
when i wanted my wife to get her license i started complaining every time i drove her someplace. i got her friends at work to co-operate and say how much of a burden she was which killed them but it worked she finally tried, she wanted her license she just needed a push.
if you do things now for your father that you won't have to do after the surgery say so. don't be disrespectful just say things like i have to help you with this but i wouldn't have to if you had the surgery. i know it will hurt you a lot to keep doing this but if it pushes him into neccessary surgery it's worth it. obviously after a couple of months stop if it doesn't work and if it does work tell him why you did it after the surgery. it's mean but it could help him...mike...
when i wanted my wife to get her license i started complaining every time i drove her someplace. i got her friends at work to co-operate and say how much of a burden she was which killed them but it worked she finally tried, she wanted her license she just needed a push.
if you do things now for your father that you won't have to do after the surgery say so. don't be disrespectful just say things like i have to help you with this but i wouldn't have to if you had the surgery. i know it will hurt you a lot to keep doing this but if it pushes him into neccessary surgery it's worth it. obviously after a couple of months stop if it doesn't work and if it does work tell him why you did it after the surgery. it's mean but it could help him...mike...
we do sometimes get "punished" for our good deeds but in our heart we know that we've done the right thing. and if you are right in your heart you are a happy person. and I've got a horrible suggestion that may help.
when i wanted my wife to get her license i started complaining every time i drove her someplace. i got her friends at work to co-operate and say how much of a burden she was which killed them but it worked she finally tried, she wanted her license she just needed a push.
if you do things now for your father that you won't have to do after the surgery say so. don't be disrespectful just say things like i have to help you with this but i wouldn't have to if you had the surgery. i know it will hurt you a lot to keep doing this but if it pushes him into neccessary surgery it's worth it. obviously after a couple of months stop if it doesn't work and if it does work tell him why you did it after the surgery. it's mean but it could help him...mike...
when i wanted my wife to get her license i started complaining every time i drove her someplace. i got her friends at work to co-operate and say how much of a burden she was which killed them but it worked she finally tried, she wanted her license she just needed a push.
if you do things now for your father that you won't have to do after the surgery say so. don't be disrespectful just say things like i have to help you with this but i wouldn't have to if you had the surgery. i know it will hurt you a lot to keep doing this but if it pushes him into neccessary surgery it's worth it. obviously after a couple of months stop if it doesn't work and if it does work tell him why you did it after the surgery. it's mean but it could help him...mike...
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