Jim's Cafe, Tues., Feb. 2, 2021

[Lane]

Hey all.
I'm craving some veggie sushi.
View attachment 42610 Oshinko roll (pickled daikon. One of my favorites.)
View attachment 42611 Avocado roll
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Heee heee, it's only 5:53 am and I want some if that sushi @Baywasp!

 

[Lane]

K, gonna try to answer questions now 😁

1) Jean's and white t-shirts. I have 2 items in my closet. My girl scout leader T-shirt I made myself with patches as the girls graduated to different stages.

A shirt my onery son got me with a print of the Kiss.

2) Pegasus. Maybe even take a ride.

3) be on time, don't get drunk on first date, don't ask too personal questions, light conversation. (Like why did you get a divorce, none of your business). Be yourself and be nice to the waiter or waitress.

4) debit card, sketch book, clean undies!

5) my mother showed me a good work ethic. Possibly raising 3 children under 5 years old. Working 2 jobs and managing depression, BPD. Trying to get over PTSD. Warehouse work. It's all hard dammit 🤷‍♀️. Sorry, I cant pick.

 

[Lane]

Thank you for inviting me to the cafe! @Lane
How the heck did the groundhog see his shadow? Isn't it snowing like crazy in Puxatawny, PA? I just want it to be spring tomorrow! @extraterrestrialone

1) What's something that you think will always be in fashion?
Kindness

Do you have an item of clothing that you cant part with or is has special meaning to you?
I have an old grateful dead t-shirt from college that i will probably keep until i die

@Sunday16

 

[MisterBGone]

People do that??

Only when I've got to chekc my updates, for the follwoing: tinder/pinder : kupid, ok? : jdate : (& then there's the new one!) bumble, or is it 'rumbel?'

 

[MisterBGone]

Where is @RCee by the way? Ho ho ho to you sir.

I meant to clarify - I obviusly could tell the difference in between you two, when or once I'd started to read any of your posts (you don't exactly have individually distinct, and unique voices(s!)) - or you, do! Is waht I mean~ : ) . .

 

[MisterBGone]

I've heard about people doing it, but yeah I can't imagine why. Unless it's an emergency or something.

Oh, it's an emergency... believe me! (S.O.S.) please some.one.come & "rescue_me!" (from my~Witty..) oy! Oy! OY-OY-OY.. i'm obsessive; /\/__)*

 

[MisterBGone]

Where is @RCee by the way? Ho ho ho to you sir.

She's Rockin' the 7-Eleven! (or so I'd IMAGINE). . . whE-HOO_oOo.. You-may; SaAaY- I'm a "dreamer~.*(>," __^

 

[dandelions]

crazy in Puxatawny

hows this for an out of context quote! but i think it doesn’t matter. i have a feeling that if the folks in Puxatawny want there to be a shadow they just shine a little light regardless of the weather! but who knows. certainly not me. and what can you expect from a creature such as i, who gets around in one of these 🛸.

 

[dandelions]

Hey all.
I'm craving some veggie sushi.
View attachment 42610 Oshinko roll (pickled daikon. One of my favorites.)
View attachment 42611 Avocado roll
View attachment 42612

oishi so

 

[Sunday16]

3) What are the most important rules when going on a date? (Even if you dont date, have never been on a date, humor me)
1) This is written from a heterosexual male viewpoint.
2) You should offer to pick her up, and your car should be clean; clean it before you go, wiping down the dash and everything. Get rid of the junk behind the driver seat.
3) When you arrive at her house go up to the door and ring the doorbell, do not sit in the driveway and honk the horn.
4) Give her your arm to hold on if she willl take it as you go out to the car.
5) Open the car door for her if she will let you; you should know before hand if she is independent and does not like traditional role gestures.
6) Wear a clean blue button down shirt with a plain white t-shirt underneath, leave two buttons open at the top of the shirt. Jeans for a first date; a first date should be informal, open, and friendly.
7) A first date should be a a coffee bar of some sort, maybe with alcohol, but alcohol should be limited. This avoids the commitment of a long time dinner date; if you hit it off you can ask her to dinner or a movie.
8) Conversation; if she takes the lead in the conversation then let her, respond with all your heart, put some effort into it. If she does not take the lead then you do; ask about her music likes, whether she has any pets, her preference in art, etc; keep the conversation flowing smoothly back and forth. Whatever you do, never lie to your date, always be perfectly honest.
9) When it is time to go home walk her to the front door; she might wait to see if you open the car door for her. I am older, so this is common. Ask if you can hug her, but do not move in for a kiss or anything more physical than a hug.
10 Text her the next day, in the afternoon, telling her what a great time you had. Invite her for dinner on the next date if you hit it off.

@MosesY your dating etiquette is so refreshing. To some people it may seem old fashioned but in truth it shows respect and thoughtfulness and decency which seems to be in short supply. Thank you for posting this, it made me so happy.

 

[Sunday16]

@Lane that T-shirt you posted is really cool, kind of a hippie vibe which I can certainly appreciate. And thank you for posting the steal your face-dancing bear, I love grateful dead art, it's so joyful {{hugs}}

 

[KM76710]

@Lane that T-shirt you posted is really cool, kind of a hippie vibe which I can certainly appreciate. And thank you for posting the steal your face-dancing bear, I love grateful dead art, it's so joyful {{hugs}}

I agree, I am a long time Dead Head.

 

[Lane]

I agree, I am a long time Dead Head.

You dead heads are very cool @Sunday16 @KM76710 . I did date one in college, he played the Bongos, wrote me poems. Wound up moving to Colorodo. aaaah 🤣