One more thing to all of you, I know 30 minutes exercise 5 days a week is the recommended amount to people of an average weight but how much is should I be doing to lose a good amount of weight and to get fitter?
All comments welcome
Best way I know of is and worked for me: slow and steady, be a tortoise and not a hare and if you slip back just tell yourself the world is not ending, don't feel bad if you cheat at times, it's a marathon not a sprint. People who lose a LOT of weight quickly are more likely to say I made it to a goal weight and then possibly overindulge. Everything in moderation, including some excess(but in moderation).
I would say if you lose half a pound a week is perfect. Many scoff at that but that does equal 26 pounds in a year. Just continue and go from there because you have all the rest of your life for this.
Don't think in terms of how much did I lose in the past week or two but in how much in 6 months or a year. Thinking long term like that means you are more likely to keep it off.
Recognize and accept that you are human and will: fail, falter and stumble like every one of us. Tomorrow is another day, another chance.