Ah! Ok... Thank you for clarifying that for me, and explaning it in such a way, so as I can understand it (as different cultures & places, can have different views on these things, or just the way in which they go about them). As for your case, in terms of both love & life, I think that everyone has their own path, or trajectory. There's really no right or wrong, only what's right for you, ultimately in the end. And so, don't get too wrapped up in the things that other say, as their opinions won't be worth much, or mean a great deal, in the grand scheme of things!

Peace.