No one cares about me

[Kooda]

I care about you <3

 

[Petr Poláček]

Hello everyone,

I am feeling so alone. I often think that no one cares about me. Perhaps only my mother. I've lived so many years on this planet and I haven't managed to make friends or to have friends on the long-term.

All I have are some virtual friends, that sometimes i think they don't even care about me. When they don't write to me, I just think that they don't care anyway, who would really care about me, I am not important enough, why don't they make more time for me, they will abandon me one day etc.

Sometimes I am aware that they might be busy or have better things to do, but when they don't talk to me I am feeling useless and worthless and i have the desire to break the friendship. I always worry that the few virtual friends I am having will just abandon me.

How can I know who really cares about me, when no one seems to care about me or love me?
I am feeling so lonely, not even my relatives don't like me or think that I am weird or the "black ship."

I have recently made little progress with my life and it's hard to be told that I haven't changed at all or to be reminded of all my failures in the past, when all i need is encouragement and care.

I wish there was someone who cared about me and never left me.
I have no idea what to do about my life. My social anxiety makes me fear going outside and I always fear that someone would hurt me on the street.

Thank you for reading!

Ive got similar problem.. well.. I lost lots of friends.. its partly due to my stupid behavior... anxiety plays its role as well... but its also because of my unavailability and Im not able to share the happiness with the others...

So.. I recomend you to find activities which bring you satisfaction and happiness.. through them.. try to connect with people who share the same interests as you do...

Ive got a really good friend of mine from high school... Im studying at the uni at this moment.. and hes doing the same... only different uni in the Prague... the thing is... we write to each other from time to time... we know about each other... and when there is an opportunity... we meet up in a pub or in some club and have few drinks... hes already planning family and hes very busy because of a job and his gf also requires lots of time to spend on her.. so Im quite alone... he cannot give me more time... even if he wanted to... cuz there is just so much going on in our lives...

There is still the option to abandon some friendship.. but I wouldnt do it.. the following impact on me would be painful.. I know it... and maybe you would feel it the same way...but dont worry.. if they value you.. they will let you know... if not.. you have got lots of people around you.. at least I hope so... so there is maybe some1 who is looking for the same caring and honest friendship as you... connect

Dont make barriers in order to form friendship.. and mainly do not assume that people around you do not care.. many of them just do not know how to properly show you how valuable and important you are to them...

In the past I worried about the same issue.. Why they do not care? Well.. maybe its because I DO NOT SHOW THAT I CARE... so i think that every problem or some kind of struggle has some kind of a pattern...

Somehow I always write more than i wanted to... so I hope that at least something from those sentences will help you or somebody else will find something that will motivate them .

I wish you all the best for the upocoming year 2018 and believe that it will get better... you will get better

 

[Annette]

Tear, it is nice to see you on here and I think a lot of people on this forum can relate to loneliness and emotional struggle. I know I can relate. I think you can make many friends here and it is true that there is always someone here to listen.

 

[Tear]

I care about you <3

Thank you! Hugs.

 

[Tear]

Oh, never mind then, my favourite game is GTA San Andreas, do you know it? What else do you like to do on internet beside visiting forums, maybe you listen youtube, or watch some movies?

Hello. No,I don't know it. Sometimes I listen to YouTube or listen ti music in general. What kind of music do you like?

 

[Tear]

Tear, it is nice to see you on here and I think a lot of people on this forum can relate to loneliness and emotional struggle. I know I can relate. I think you can make many friends here and it is true that there is always someone here to listen.

Thank you for taking time to write to me. Sorry that you can relate and you are also dealing with loneliness. I 've seen some kind people here, that's comforting.

Take care!