I'm glad your wife is backing you on all of this. (I can't imagine she's not going to get in on it too lol)
Growing isn't something you really want to get in on, is it? It's a pain in the ass. Just buy it, man. It's pricey these days (there are no dime bags anymore!) but you don't need as much. No seeds and stems anymore either haha You can try hemp oil but frankly you're probably chucking your money out. CBD is the way to go.
Anyway, glad it's working out in some way. I'm happy for you.
P.S. I'm as asshole, I know it. I'm trying to be less of one.