Plenty of fish in the sea

[Skyler Stiner]

Hey Im new to this site and nobody knows me but i think I will feel better if someone talks back. I have been on probation for a couple months now in <mod edit - Location> and I feel like crap. Everyone I used to talk to no longer cares about me and I cant seem to feel valued in new relationships because I cant spend time with anyone to build a relationship or they will not really have conversation with me and leave me out. I have tried having friends and they cant seem to fill a hole that a lover would, but iv tried dating and nobody is interested in me. I have asked out plenty of people but they only say yes to make me feel better ( I have been told this by the people themselves) or say no right off the bat. I've tried long distance relation ships but it doesn't fill the physical assurance need. So if anyone is in my area and/ or knows my area <Mod edit -other> , I would like friends but a girlfriend relationship is preferred. Im 16 btw

 

[brightlight]

Hi Skyler Stiner and welcome
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I'm not much good to you, man in 50s on the other side of the world, but just saying hello, stick around there's plenty of friendly guys on here to chat to and share your troubles, Im a glass half full type of person, so probation is better than jail, how long more have you to go and more importantly do you think it might change you. we all make mistakes in life and feel crap about them, the thing is to learn from them or not, you can learn to chang now at 16 or 26 or 36 or 46 0r never, but you are feeling like crap for something you did (I am presuming that's why you are on probation), if you learn from it (learning not to get caught is not really learning) and something good comes out of it, like you changing your behaviour which in turn can help change the crappy mood, you are way too young to be a responsible adult but your not to young to be a responsible teenager . That said, is that the only reason that brings you to a website such as this one ?
Love and Light
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[Skyler Stiner]

((((((((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))
I'm not much good to you, man in 50s on the other side of the world, but just saying hello, stick around there's plenty of friendly guys on here to chat to and share your troubles, Im a glass half full type of person, so probation is better than jail, how long more have you to go and more importantly do you think it might change you. we all make mistakes in life and feel crap about them, the thing is to learn from them or not, you can learn to chang now at 16 or 26 or 36 or 46 0r never, but you are feeling like crap for something you did (I am presuming that's why you are on probation), if you learn from it (learning not to get caught is not really learning) and something good comes out of it, like you changing your behaviour which in turn can help change the crappy mood, you are way too young to be a responsible adult but your not to young to be a responsible teenager . That said, is that the only reason that brings you to a website such as this one ?
Love and Light
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No this not the only thing that brings me to this site, Iv had a history of depression and suicidal attempts and I thought I would like help before it spirals again, this is probably first of many threads

 

[brightlight]

Well you've come to the right place, have you tried chat, I dont go onto it, it moves to quick for me, I think youll find lots of people your own age, it'll probably take a little while and a few posts to blend it, keep posting

 

[Walker]

Hi Skyler, welcome to the forum. So incredibly many people join here for the same reason as you - isolation and loneliness. Everyone here "gets it" and understands how you feel. It can really suck when you think that no one cares about you. We are really glad to have you here though, and hope that you keep posting. Looking forward to seeing you around, ok? Take care of yourself.