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Anneinside

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I have had a couple of contacts with police when I have been suicidal and they have pretty much treated me okay but then I was compliant. One time, however, I was handcuffed and and chain was put around my waist and attached to the handcuffs. I was so subdued from an overdose that it didn't affect me at the time. Afterwards I felt upset by it.
 

Shock

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I have had a couple of contacts with police when I have been suicidal and they have pretty much treated me okay but then I was compliant. One time, however, I was handcuffed and and chain was put around my waist and attached to the handcuffs. I was so subdued from an overdose that it didn't affect me at the time. Afterwards I felt upset by it.
Thats aweful! What reason did they have for doing that?
 

Why Am I Here

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Thats aweful! What reason did they have for doing that?
Sometimes, it's their policy to handcuff anyone they are taking in for whatever reason they are. And not to mention the fact that they are dealing with someone who wants to end their own life. They don't know how that individual will react getting brought in custody. People can be spontaneous. :)
 

liveinhope

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I called the crisis line as having made 2 serious attempts before I knew I needed help, the didnt have time for me so I told them if the didnt listen I would go to the mental health unit as I needed help, that is exactl what I did and the called the police and reported I had driven and smelt of alcohol. I was arrested, taken to the police station, collapsed in the cell(not from alcohol) I had taken some meds, was taken in an ambulance to hospital spent several das in ICU sent home, then 2 weeks later admitted to psc ward for 6 weeks, during which time had ECT, Its now a ear later, I am still driving and still fighting against the drink driving charge, we are in court again on 2nd Novemberfor final hearing, its been a nightmare,
As far as the CRB check nothing has shown up as et, but if I loose the case of course it will then, when a person with a mental health problem tries to talk people should take the time to listen and not judge what they may truel understand as it really can be a matter of life or death.
 

Underground

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It's absurd the police are even allowed involvement.

Aslong as you're not harming someone else, you should be able to do whatever you want to yourself. This is a basic freedom: freedom of your own body.
This is a long debate, but suicide isn't lawful, because you're not of a sound state of mind when you're contemplating suicide or attempting it. Proof? Ask survivors who have gone on to recover. What people need is help and support, not the means to go and off themselves. In my opinion, anyway. Although it can be a bit controversial I do agree with police involvement in these circumstances. Not only for reasonable restraint but there are some truly reckless methods out there. Such as jumping onto motorways etc. and paramedics are neither trained nor paid enough to restrain unruly patients.. although I have been restrained by a paramedic, but that wasn't technically legal.

I called the crisis line as having made 2 serious attempts before I knew I needed help, the didnt have time for me so I told them if the didnt listen I would go to the mental health unit as I needed help, that is exactl what I did and the called the police and reported I had driven and smelt of alcohol. I was arrested, taken to the police station, collapsed in the cell(not from alcohol) I had taken some meds, was taken in an ambulance to hospital spent several das in ICU sent home, then 2 weeks later admitted to psc ward for 6 weeks, during which time had ECT, Its now a ear later, I am still driving and still fighting against the drink driving charge, we are in court again on 2nd Novemberfor final hearing, its been a nightmare,
As far as the CRB check nothing has shown up as et, but if I loose the case of course it will then, when a person with a mental health problem tries to talk people should take the time to listen and not judge what they may truel understand as it really can be a matter of life or death.
I hope the case goes well for you.
:)
 

jlc20m

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Years ago, I was arrested under the Mental Health Act (in Canada). I was found by the police in the middle of a suicide attempt (no thanks to a friend who called them). I was handcuffed and then driven to the nearest General Hospital Psych Unit. The police were as civil to me as the situation warranted. They did save my life. (Not that I was grateful to them at the time.)

jlc20m et al :heart:
 
In Singapore, I was questioned by "mada" in a dark room after being spotted hanging around high rise buildings.
They were rather nice, merely reminding me that I was indeed blessed to have a good family, friends, university to attend.

The only disappointing thing was that I was handed over to my doctor. Who locked me up for a two weeks after that.

If you are ever caught in such a situation be calm and cohesive.
i am a 23 yo singaporean woman who attempted suicide by overdosing <Mod edit, WildCherry: Methods> and somehow survived w/o much harm. Attempted suicide on 28/7 and woke up on 31/7 to know that the police were after me and arranged an apptmt for me through my dad to take my statement. on third day after i woke up, they threw me into IMH w/o even giving me my lunch. Life in IMH was hell! waking up at 6am to shower, bedtime at 8pm. confined within a small space treated like a lunatic. After a week i was released from IMH and two days later had to go down to amk police station to give my statement. The officer in charge of my case was a total jackass first he told me to come back another day then changed his mind and told me to go back again. He was harsh with me without compassion and looked at me as if i was freaking frankenstein. Went back in a month time only to be treated with scorn and the chief inspector officer treated me like a bloody criminal.

I personally feel that we suicidal people are not to be treated as criminals. We are people who cannot tolerate the harsh realities of life and we just need a break. When we have problems we are told to get lost and when we make a decision which does not even hurt others just needing a release from this world. we are branded as devils and troublemakers. WTF?
 
i am a 23 yo singaporean woman who attempted suicide by overdosing <Mod edit, WildCherry: Methods> and somehow survived w/o much harm. Attempted suicide on 28/7 and woke up on 31/7 to know that the police were after me and arranged an apptmt for me through my dad to take my statement. on third day after i woke up, they threw me into IMH w/o even giving me my lunch. Life in IMH was hell! waking up at 6am to shower, bedtime at 8pm. confined within a small space treated like a lunatic. After a week i was released from IMH and two days later had to go down to amk police station to give my statement. The officer in charge of my case was a total jackass first he told me to come back another day then changed his mind and told me to go back again. He was harsh with me without compassion and looked at me as if i was freaking frankenstein. Went back in a month time only to be treated with scorn and the chief inspector officer treated me like a bloody criminal.

I personally feel that we suicidal people are not to be treated as criminals. We are people who cannot tolerate the harsh realities of life and we just need a break. When we have problems we are told to get lost and when we make a decision which does not even hurt others just needing a release from this world. we are branded as devils and troublemakers. WTF?

and now after my suicide i did not die , it seems my probs are still there and have doubled. The worst thing is that i feel that i kinda like that jackass police officer in charge of me and i am kinda sexually attracted to him. not that he is good looking or hot or sexy. not that i am attracted to jackass or bastards too. but not sure why. maybe after my release from imh, he was one of the man i had contact with. :( what the hell is with me??? :(
 
and now after my suicide i did not die , it seems my probs are still there and have doubled. The worst thing is that i feel that i kinda like that jackass police officer in charge of me and i am kinda sexually attracted to him. not that he is good looking or hot or sexy. not that i am attracted to jackass or bastards too. but not sure why. maybe after my release from imh, he was one of the man i had contact with. :( what the hell is with me??? :(
now i feel shameful and i hate myself more for liking this bastard. :(
 

Amanda

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I had the RCMP at my place again this past Thursday for my latest attempt... They were civil but firm, they told me i had no choice in the matter and I had to go to the hospital, but i was already quite willing to go. But they were nice, nicer then they had to be.
 

TWF

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I hate the police, I've been in contact with them a couple of times... arrested once, ran away from home once, despise the way any of them looked at me even when my innocence was clear... The police culture is despicable, can't stand them especially after reading this thread.
 

Speedy

Staff Alumni
How were you treated by the cops?
I'm surprised I've never posted in this thread before. Anyways..

The two times I had hearings (involuntary commitment proceedings) and I was transported to the juvenile court, the police officers were very kind. The first time, it was a man and a woman. They said it was their policy to handcuff me... but when the hearing started the man said that he didn't think I'd do anything.. so he took my handcuffs off and I was handcuff free for the rest of the time, even on the ride back to the hospital. Both were memorable. The guy was Australian.. that's when I learned the difference between "mate" and "matey." I will remember his words "And the same to you, sir. I do hope things get better for you. Your father has your best interests at heart." The second time, the lady was kind as well. No handcuffs.

As for non-court but mental health related stuff, one time in late January there was a pretty passive-aggressive officer. He handcuffed me at first and told me that if I resisted while he let me out of the car, then he'd have to resort to more measures. I remember when I was inside the hospital changing, and I asked him a question about how to put on the clothes I was given, and he gave a sarcastic "I suppose so." But hey, he's doing his job.. and the situation I was in wasn't something to be cheerful about. Still doesn't let me forgive his behavior.

The other time in March, there were two police officers who pulled me over. Both interrogated me a lot, and I respect the professional approach they took.

Overall, I'd say I think it really depends on the officers involved.. and I have had pleasant experiences for the most part.
 

Mandy1

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In all honesty I personally have no faith in the police when it comes too mental health problems,,,Enougth said.
 

lightbeam

Antiquities Friend
As for non-court but mental health related stuff, one time in late January there was a pretty passive-aggressive officer. He handcuffed me at first and told me that if I resisted while he let me out of the car, then he'd have to resort to more measures. I remember when I was inside the hospital changing, and I asked him a question about how to put on the clothes I was given, and he gave a sarcastic "I suppose so." But hey, he's doing his job.. and the situation I was in wasn't something to be cheerful about. Still doesn't let me forgive his behavior.
Were you still handcuffed, and couldn't put the clothes on? Tell us about that.
 

Slothbear

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I'll admit i don't know a whole lot about police and similar enforcement figures in terms of the training so i don't know if they are trained to deal with mental health situations. I'm sure they are to some extent however i think that they definitely need more training in that department about how exactly to deal with people struggling with a mental health related crisis(whether it be psychosis, suicidal etc). I can understand understand some things, however others... specifically the attitudes towards the people it needs to be improved. I'm not saying all cops are bad to people and are all rude to people with mental health issues because i honestly can't say for myself i have had an incident involving them i'm just saying from stories on here and stories from real life overall it needs to be improved.
 

Speedy

Staff Alumni
Were you still handcuffed, and couldn't put the clothes on? Tell us about that.
The officer took the handcuffs off after he communicated with others, and I was led out of the police car and into the ambulance that had just arrived next to the police car. It was decided that they were going to try to put me in an ambulance and send me to the ER. The room I was in was in the hospital, and I was taken to a nearby restroom to change into a hospital gown, the type where you use strings and there are two parts to the gown. One you put on to cover the front of you, and one to cover the back. Hmm... I don't know if I explained what I just said clearly, either.
 

lightbeam

Antiquities Friend
The officer took the handcuffs off after he communicated with others, and I was led out of the police car and into the ambulance that had just arrived next to the police car. It was decided that they were going to try to put me in an ambulance and send me to the ER. The room I was in was in the hospital, and I was taken to a nearby restroom to change into a hospital gown, the type where you use strings and there are two parts to the gown. One you put on to cover the front of you, and one to cover the back. Hmm... I don't know if I explained what I just said clearly, either.
I know those gowns. I used to do some linen at the hospital I worked at for a time. Those gowns are interesting. So what happened after that?
 
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