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[Congratsbaby]

I haven't heard back from my friend in almost in a month, and she still hasn’t replied back to my text that I sent her earlier in the week.

Ah that sucks

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

Just wanted to say, thank you so much @Lifeisthis for posting these 2 kind posts of thoughtful encouragement and support, it definitely means a lot to me and I’m sure many others in here as well.

I wish you and everyone else well too, and hope you have a good day as well


Hey Witty, I don’t come in here much for personal reasons, but just wanted to say I just read your other post, and wow, I had no idea that’s what your mom said that for. I thought she was just being mean, didn’t realize you’d gotten close to someone like that, but wow, that’s awesome, congrats on that! You must be happy about that at least.

I would love to hear more about how that’s going if you wanted to talk about it, no pressure if you’d rather not though. I hope your mom will be nicer soon, and I’m glad to hear she apologized as well.

It's still pretty new but if she's cynical then that's on her. I'd like to believe that something will work out for me for once, or at least I hope it will. I probably won't be meeting them in person until next year anyway, so I'll have to wait and see what happens.

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

You're welcome , I am glad
It's nice that she apologized but I agree with you that she shouldn't be saying such things in the first place. Yes you can ! And yes you don't have to ~

I think most of it is that I'm used to things not working out for me, and she put more doubts into my head and that really didn't help at all.

 

[Congratsbaby]

I think most of it is that I'm used to things not working out for me, and she put more doubts into my head and that really didn't help at all.

I understand. When things don't work out or end over and over again. To believe that new connections can work is really difficult. You're afraid , your anxious etc. But despite it , you're capable of working things out. By , learning more about the patterns that result in things not being worked out ( if that makes sense )
Nonetheless your feelings and thoughts are valid. I believe you can make it work and I wish you best
Sorry your mom is doing this , like it just makes sense. I don't know your mom right , and I know this can be difficult but try to understand if she's toxic in general and if she is , try to practice that most of the time what she says has more to do with her own inner self than you. It can be difficult but , do not listen to her. Atleast not regarding this. Listen to your heart and if the person you're seeing is truly someone who speaks to you then go ahead and yes I believe in you , truly , not saying it for the sake of it.

 

[Congratsbaby]

People picking up their nose and acting like it's normal. And not washing hands omg

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

I understand. When things don't work out or end over and over again. To believe that new connections can work is really difficult. You're afraid , your anxious etc. But despite it , you're capable of working things out. By , learning more about the patterns that result in things not being worked out ( if that makes sense )
Nonetheless your feelings and thoughts are valid. I believe you can make it work and I wish you best
Sorry your mom is doing this , like it just makes sense. I don't know your mom right , and I know this can be difficult but try to understand if she's toxic in general and if she is , try to practice that most of the time what she says has more to do with her own inner self than you. It can be difficult but , do not listen to her. Atleast not regarding this. Listen to your heart and if the person you're seeing is truly someone who speaks to you then go ahead and yes I believe in you , truly , not saying it for the sake of it.

The person I'm with feels the same way, as far as having worries because we have had some similar experiences. So it's just a lot of reassuring back and forth. My mom isn't generally toxic but she really doesn't think before she speaks. I'll still try my best to make things work out, and thank you for the well wishes.

 

[Congratsbaby]

The person I'm with feels the same way, as far as having worries because we have had some similar experiences. So it's just a lot of reassuring back and forth. My mom isn't generally toxic but she really doesn't think before she speaks. I'll still try my best to make things work out, and thank you for the well wishes.

I see , it's good that the person you're seeing understands you. You're welcome

 

[AnHeroTransGirl]

I hate how hard it is to find a way for my parents to divorce.

 

[1964dodge]

i hate that we are born helpless pissing in our diaper, live our life, and if we live long enough we end up pissing in our diaper at the other end of the spectrum. i hope i don't live up to that point lol

mike

 

[Lisa the Goatgirl]

I just found out my grandfather passed away this morning. He was in his late 80s and very sick, so it's not exactly a surprise, and i'm handling it alright. Still, it felt wrong to say it's a petty complaint. It's major even if i'm handling it ok.

 

[SillyOldBear]

I just found out my grandfather passed away this morning. He was in his late 80s and very sick, so it's not exactly a surprise, and i'm handling it alright. Still, it felt wrong to say it's a petty complaint. It's major even if i'm handling it ok.

Sorry to hear of your loss. Even though death comes naturally with age, it is still difficult to deal with. Am glad you are handling it alright.

 

[Lisa the Goatgirl]

Sorry to hear of your loss. Even though death comes naturally with age, it is still difficult to deal with. Am glad you are handling it alright.

Thanks, Silly.

 

[KM76710]

Sad to hear of the loss @Lisa the Goatgirl

 

[Lisa the Goatgirl]

Sad to hear of the loss @Lisa the Goatgirl

Thanks, KM.

 

[ClassicsFan]

I think about my former coworker so much and it needs to stop.

 

[Auri]

I just found out my grandfather passed away this morning. He was in his late 80s and very sick, so it's not exactly a surprise, and i'm handling it alright. Still, it felt wrong to say it's a petty complaint. It's major even if i'm handling it ok.

I'm so sorry. I think I've reacted similarly to my granny two months ago. I hope you remember all the good memories with him. ♡

 

[Congratsbaby]

I think about my former coworker so much and it needs to stop.

I respect your feelings of wanting it to stop but I just want to tell you it's actually quite common or.. it's not that abnormal . It happens.
I am sorry

 

[Lisa the Goatgirl]

I'm so sorry. I think I've reacted similarly to my granny two months ago. I hope you remember all the good memories with him. ♡

Thanks Auri.
And yeah, that's been a big part of my thoughts the last two days. Sunday dinners with him, nan, and their dog Jess. Holidays we went on around the world. Moments with him in general i'm so glad i got.
I'm sorry you lost your granny so recently too.

 

[AnHeroTransGirl]

Holding my girlfriend responsible for her words is a step in the right direction, but it still fucking hurts.

 

[AnHeroTransGirl]

Holding my girlfriend responsible for her words is a step in the right direction, but it still fucking hurts.

She didn't say I love you too back... This has me extremely worried and all my other friends have to say is "don't worry about it".