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sex, i hope i never have it

#42
Quite honestly i dont think you can really tell us what sex is until you have truly experienced it.
True i can't tell you what it feels like or everything about it, i never claimed i could. But i can certainly observe the effects of it. And i just can't see how 'feels really good' can make it worth it, I mean people that do hard drugs describe the high like being an 8 hour orgasm, but i don't think it makes it worth it to do crack cocaine.

This, this and this. I'll give everyone a dollar if you guys let the thread fade into page 2.
Sorry if this thread is bringing up grief for you or striking a sore spot, it's not what i meant to do. Please don't read it if it is bothering you.

A girl at my work last nite said she is having sex and never uses a condom or even birth control, she just doesn't let him finish and thinks she won't get pregnant. How can people be so insane!
 
#43
It would make me a terrible person if i have sex, in that I would turn into a sex crazed screw-everything-that-walks pervert like so many are and only able to think about sex, always on the prowl bringing chaos and ruining lives.

And no i am not capable of being a parent i just can't force myself believe that a baby is the greatest thing in the world or that it is what i want in life, and i will feel like a monster for bringing that innocent child into this world that i can't properly care for. I will probably break down and lose all sanity. And worst of all the child will only suffer in life, i will not spawn this suffering!

How is it right for me to do something that can ruin lives and bring an innocent child into a hopeless life of despair, all just so to feel good for 15 minutes. That is quite sick and horrific and terrible.
ok i'm not saying children are the greatest thing in the world, very far from it actually. imo they should only be brought into the world if a stable living situation can be provide and enough love also. but having sex does not always = children. may i ask how old you are?
there are plenty of ppl out there that are not in relationships that have casual sex that do not turn into 'sex crazed men' you are the only person that has control over that, and considering the way you currently think about sex i think you WONT turn into one of those ppl.

i also think you maybe hiding from a bigger issue such as intamecy issues or something
 
#44
http://williamsboard.com/topic/49746/&r=42
I know i shouldn't listen to ignorant talk like this but when everyone echos the same thing over and over again all across the internet and real life you can't help but feel there is consensus on it.

Sheep, I am past what most would consider the 'virgin loser age' and there's nothing that can redeem me. Everyone saying im a loser makes it even more frustrating, even though i don't think it makes you a loser it hurts when people constantly drill it into your face.
 

Mortem

Well-Known Member
#45
Well, if you really don't want it, then you should probably just avoid it. As for people giving remarks such as "ZOMG you're X age and you haven't tried it yet!? OMG you're missing out on sooooooooooo much! The fireworks that goes off! The sweet violin music! The moment of complete fusion of consciousness between two humans! The brief touching with the divine, and the complete cessation of conflict in the mind! You can't POSSIBLY leave our mass psychosis and get on that weird spaceship named celibacy! Someone call the SWAT team he's a virgin! Captain Syphillis is mighty disappointed in you! Loser!" LOL. I suggest you approach anything along those lines with indifference. Don't let narrow minded clowns run and ruin your life.

Would you say you obsess over this? If so, I recommend trying to go beyond it as it must be very tiresome and time consuming.
 
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HappyAZaClaM

#46
http://williamsboard.com/topic/49746/&r=42
I know i shouldn't listen to ignorant talk like this but when everyone echos the same thing over and over again all across the internet and real life you can't help but feel there is consensus on it.

Sheep, I am past what most would consider the 'virgin loser age' and there's nothing that can redeem me. Everyone saying im a loser makes it even more frustrating, even though i don't think it makes you a loser it hurts when people constantly drill it into your face.
who cares? you do what you have to do and to heck with the rest of the world. also from the link you posted, that other forum you go on sounds like
a questionable source of support or good advice.
 
#49
i never said you were a loser, and i am certainly not drilling it into your face, but you did ask for opinions and thats what your getting, i just dont see how you can right it off totally. and there is never a virgin losing age, its whenever your ready and i say fair play to those that are virgins and i have respect for them, although in this case where you seem to be down grading sex and ppl that engage in it, i am a bit more defensive i must say.

but at the end of the day it is your body so you may do what you wish, but i see no reason for your logic, thats all.
 
#50
i never said you were a loser, and i am certainly not drilling it into your face, but you did ask for opinions and thats what your getting, i just dont see how you can right it off totally. and there is never a virgin losing age, its whenever your ready and i say fair play to those that are virgins and i have respect for them, although in this case where you seem to be down grading sex and ppl that engage in it, i am a bit more defensive i must say.

but at the end of the day it is your body so you may do what you wish, but i see no reason for your logic, thats all.
i know ur not sheep but others are
 
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Dave_N

#51
Well, if you really don't want it, then you should probably just avoid it. As for people giving remarks such as "ZOMG you're X age and you haven't tried it yet!? OMG you're missing out on sooooooooooo much! The fireworks that goes off! The sweet violin music! The moment of complete fusion of consciousness between two humans! The brief touching with the divine, and the complete cessation of conflict in the mind! You can't POSSIBLY leave our mass psychosis and get on that weird spaceship named celibacy! Someone call the SWAT team he's a virgin! Captain Syphillis is mighty disappointed in you! Loser!" LOL.
That really made me laugh. :laugh: Also DIT, you're not a virgin loser. When women stay virgins in their 20's and 30's, they're praised for being chaste. When guys do it, we're considered losers? Give me a break. I'm a 27 year old male and yes I'm stil a virgin, but I don't consider myself a loser by any means. I could have gave it up to some slut, but then it would have no meaning and would be just physical. Don't let anyone make you feel that you're a virgin loser.
 
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Dave_N

#53
I have discarded my life taking no joy and achieving nothing. I am a hollow shell.
The only way of overcoming your depression DIT is to start feeling good about yourself. Why do you think I've never been depressed? I always feel good about myself, because I know that I'm a good person at heart. Try it sometime. :hug:
 
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HappyAZaClaM

#55
Well, if you really don't want it, then you should probably just avoid it. As for people giving remarks such as "ZOMG you're X age and you haven't tried it yet!? OMG you're missing out on sooooooooooo much! The fireworks that goes off! The sweet violin music! The moment of complete fusion of consciousness between two humans! The brief touching with the divine, and the complete cessation of conflict in the mind! You can't POSSIBLY leave our mass psychosis and get on that weird spaceship named celibacy! Someone call the SWAT team he's a virgin! Captain Syphillis is mighty disappointed in you! Loser!" LOL. I suggest you approach anything along those lines with indifference. Don't let narrow minded clowns run and ruin your life.

Would you say you obsess over this? If so, I recommend trying to go beyond it as it must be very tiresome and time consuming.
Syphillis would be a party compared to some stuff out there now.
but...point taken! by me anyway...don't know if DIT is gonna get
on board with this or not. go figure I reckon.
 

SadDude87

Well-Known Member
#56
No offense, but if you're serious you sound delusional.

Sex makes you a terrible person? Sex is more detrimental than cocaine? Where do you come up with this stuff?
 
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Reki

Well-Known Member
#57
People really need to stop responding to this thread and let it die. Sex does not cause terror and destruction and the fact that people are taking this seriously is not going to help the OP realize he's getting things way out of proportion.
 
#58
People really need to stop responding to this thread and let it die. Sex does not cause terror and destruction and the fact that people are taking this seriously is not going to help the OP realize he's getting things way out of proportion.
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p3cky

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#59
sex is part of humanity i mean yes it probly is some what addictive but thats making sound like its not ment to be or somthing like that, i just wouldnt put it in those worlds humans natrually get most of there dopamine from sex and food.
 

alle_vite

Well-Known Member
#60
DIT how do u think you were produced and if we all took your views how would the population survive we need to reproduce its a fact of life!!!
 

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