Who's suicidal because they can't get laid?

[Dying embers]

Just for the record, the person who repeatedly abused and raped me had the same ideas and thoughts about women as the OP. I would hate to see the OP end up on the same path.

That's awful, you poor thing. :sad:

But I don't think you know the OP well enough to accuse him of being a potential rapist, he's posted a thread asking for help and that is a terrible thing to say. I understand your heart is in the right place, you want to stop anymore rape, but I think you are judging the OP on shaky evidence. Rapists can be courteous polite indivduals just as much as raging misogynistic people who see women as second-class citizens (which I don't believe the OP is anyway). Rapes can be the results of one crazy passionate moment or a lifetime of stewing resentment. We just don't know, and accusing people so loosely is not constructive.

 

[lebigmac]

I just spent 15 minutes writing a freaking essay, and it somehow got deleted . So I'll just summarize.

To my haters:

-not once have I condoned any sort of reprehensible behavior
-there's nothing wrong with wanting sex and just sex
-I don't even use subterfuge to get what I want, though I probably could (woman do this all the time btw when they feign romantic interest in a guy so he'll spend money on them, but I digress)
-like it or not, for men sex typically comes before genuine interest in a girl, not the other way around (it's sick, I know)
-we're talking about thoughts here, something someone has no control over
-however disturbing you may find my thoughts, once you cut through all the social programming they are that of the majority

So with that being said, I believe my stay here is long overdue. To those I offended, I sincerely apologize. That was not my intent, believe it or not. Open, honest discourse was. That's okay. I can see I've created a somewhat hostile environment, and I'd really just like to nip that **** in the bud right now. That's not what this place is for, and I'm finally starting to realize that. Well, actually I realized it all along, but I was immature. Maybe got carried away. I promise you'll never hear from me again, not on this account nor any other account I could possibly create. Goodbye and good luck.

 

[Dying embers]

I just spent 15 minutes writing a freaking essay, and it somehow got deleted . So I'll just summarize.

To my haters:

-not once have I condoned any of the things some of you have accused me of
-there's nothing wrong with wanting sex and just sex
-I don't even use subterfuge to get what I want, though I probably could (woman do this all the time btw when they feign romantic interest in a guy so he'll spend money on them, but I digress)
-we're talking about thoughts here, something someone has no control over

So with that being said, I believe my stay here is long overdue. To those I offended, I sincerely apologize. That was not my intent, believe it or not. Open, honest discourse was. That's okay. I can see I've created a somewhat hostile environment, and I'd really just like to nip that **** in the bud right now. That's not what this place is for, and I'm finally starting to realize that. I promise you'll never hear from me again, not on this account nor any other account I could possibly create. Goodbye and good luck.

That's a real pity. Your thread was the one that finally got me up off my ass and actually becoming an active part of this place, so I for one am very grateful for the honesty you've displayed here. Hope you stay!

Want some sex? :tongue:

 

[itmahanh]

Back up, I never referred to the OP as a rapist. I said I would hate for him to end up like that. Never mind, it's not important. It never is

 

[SadDude87]

I have to agree with the OP...

Sex isn't always about a loving relationship. Society teaches us it is, but ultimately it is an animal instinct.

There is nothing wrong for wanting sex just for the sake of sex. It doesn't mean you have to treat the person like absolute shit, it just means you aren't emotionally involved with them.

I have heard women say many times before "Sometimes you just need a nice hard dick" or something along those lines. It does work both ways .. and that is just how it is.

 

[Dying embers]

Back up, I never referred to the OP as a rapist. I said I would hate for him to end up like that. Never mind, it's not important. It never is

Yes, which is implying his current behaviour and thoughts are typical of that of a developing rapist. To the extent he's leaving the site. Why would you make the comparison if you weren't implying that? It's cool, you didn't mean any harm, but I do think you have said something which is out of line.

 

[Dave_N]

Lebigmac, if you desperately want sex then go to a strip club or a prostitute, but don't go and kill yourself just because you're not getting any sex. That would be a very stupid reason to end your life. Also, people implying that you should leave this forum. The women were just upset that you want to use women just for sex (and they have the right to be due to what you posted).

 

[smackh2o]

As much as I don't agree with the OP's outlook on women and sex. At least like Dying Embers said, he is honest about things. Maybe you see sex as a neccesity rather than something to support a relationship with someone? A bit like eating and drinking.
I don't think you're an evil person to think this way because i'm fairly sure that if you do 'get laid' then you're perspective of sex will change dramatically. I reckon it will be like eating a fancy meal with candles all on your own.

 

[Darken]

Being to incompetent to get a mate is one of the reasons I'm suicidal yes. But as for sex alone no I don't really care about it.

 

[Aquariamethystea]

Men and women can wrongly use each other equally. Alot of men use women for sex. Alot of women use men for money.

 

[Simon180]

sex is not that good mate trust me its really not worth thinking like that over it at all!!!!

 

[Daze&Confused]

sex is not that good mate trust me its really not worth thinking like that over it at all!!!!

Are you sure you're doing it right?:biggrin:

 

[Simon180]

aye but its not worth taking your life over it is it !!!!!!

 

[LILICHIPIE]

sex is not that good mate trust me its really not worth thinking like that over it at all!!!!

I can smell irony from this :tongue:

 

[LILICHIPIE]

Well dont want to light up the fire again, but his comments are DEFINITELY disgusting. As a woman, his first and more of all second posts are just plain sick and odd although you can tell they are written under pain and suffering ( dont know how to express my feelings, hope u get my point of wiew..).

he should try to start having some respect for women and not treat themlike fuck toys and working n elf esteem for urself as well. then a woman may be able to want to TALK to u.
and definitely not worth killing yourself for that.be sure to let me know personally which new account name you r gonna use uhu lol

 

[Daze&Confused]

He mentioned in one post that he watches hardcore porn everyday. Perhasp he should ditch the visuals.It may be one of the reason for his warped view of women.

 

[Reki]

Well firstly, if you want to have sex that badly go buy a hooker. With an attitude like that, that's the only way you're going to get any. Secondly, stop watching porn, it makes a person incredibly narrow minded about the opposite sex and sex in general if they have never taken part in a healthy sexual relationship before. I have a friend that once told me women were "objects to be ejected into", you know what, he still has yet to have sex. There was a very quiet, shy girl that I noticed at school and was instantly attracted, she was adorable, always reading or something. I approached her one day and asked if she minded me taking a seat next to her, she said no and I sat down and whipped out my algebra notebook and pretended to read. I asked politely if it bothered her, she smiled and said no and asked if I liked algebra. I said who does? and she cracked up.

Since then we've gone out to eat several times and talk on the phone, if she's ok with it it might go further. That same guy made cracks about how I must have "skills" when there was nothing more to it than making a new friend. Women are people too, stand in a woman's shoes and ask yourself would you want to even be friends with you? With the views you have on women I think the answer is pretty crystal. Sex? Riiiiiiiight.

 

[Aquariamethystea]

Well firstly, if you want to have sex that badly go buy a hooker. With an attitude like that, that's the only way you're going to get any. Secondly, stop watching porn, it makes a person incredibly narrow minded about the opposite sex and sex in general if they have never taken part in a healthy sexual relationship before. I have a friend that once told me women were "objects to be ejected into", you know what, he still has yet to have sex. There was a very quiet, shy girl that I noticed at school and was instantly attracted, she was adorable, always reading or something. I approached her one day and asked if she minded me taking a seat next to her, she said no and I sat down and whipped out my algebra notebook and pretended to read. I asked politely if it bothered her, she smiled and said no and asked if I liked algebra. I said who does? and she cracked up.

Since then we've gone out to eat several times and talk on the phone, if she's ok with it it might go further. That same guy made cracks about how I must have "skills" when there was nothing more to it than making a new friend. Women are people too, stand in a woman's shoes and ask yourself would you want to even be friends with you? With the views you have on women I think the answer is pretty crystal. Sex? Riiiiiiiight.

I completely agree with you, Reki. Very good advice, yet it's so simple for anyone to do if they are to even have a chance at developing a relationship with anyone.

 

[ggg456]

Well firstly, if you want to have sex that badly go buy a hooker. With an attitude like that, that's the only way you're going to get any. Secondly, stop watching porn, it makes a person incredibly narrow minded about the opposite sex and sex in general if they have never taken part in a healthy sexual relationship before. I have a friend that once told me women were "objects to be ejected into", you know what, he still has yet to have sex. There was a very quiet, shy girl that I noticed at school and was instantly attracted, she was adorable, always reading or something. I approached her one day and asked if she minded me taking a seat next to her, she said no and I sat down and whipped out my algebra notebook and pretended to read. I asked politely if it bothered her, she smiled and said no and asked if I liked algebra. I said who does? and she cracked up.

Since then we've gone out to eat several times and talk on the phone, if she's ok with it it might go further. That same guy made cracks about how I must have "skills" when there was nothing more to it than making a new friend. Women are people too, stand in a woman's shoes and ask yourself would you want to even be friends with you? With the views you have on women I think the answer is pretty crystal. Sex? Riiiiiiiight.

I agree. That story made me smile though as it was sweet and full of simple common sense as some views in this thread are pretty disgusting.

 

[jamesbond]

not having relations with a woman eats at the very core of a man. it affects self esteem in the worst way. i'm 47. despite having sex here and there through life the most painful aspect has been the complete lack of female companionship