Not getting laid wouldn't even make the list for my suicide. I may be old, jaded, experienced and lots of other things. But if I wanted to get laid, I'd just do it-like the old Nike ad. If getting laid has requirements that don't pertain to just plain old sex, then of course it gets into the relationship bit. Sex & love together can be very time consuming,tho it may sound cold. I have WASTED a good deal of my life and missed career ops for 'relationships'. So they're not real high on my list of priorities either.
Who's suicidal because they can't get laid?
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Well, I agree that there's a whole lot more to life (even for men) than sex and I don't think the lack of it is any reason (in and of itself) to be suicidal. But that's me. Sex isn't that important to me. And even if it were, I have two working hands and a pretty good imagination.
But I really don't think that's your issue. I'm not quite sure what it is but whatever. What you said to the guy was pretty rude and completely unhelpful. Obviously, to him, it's important. It's as important to him as whatever the reason you're here is to you. There are nicer ways to say whatever you wanted to say. And he's more likely to listen if you don't piss him off in the first sentence.
And there's nothing disgusting about sex. It's as natural and normal a bodily function as eating and the desire for it is as natural and normal as hunger.
honestly, i just want a girlfriend, i dont know why, but ive just got so much love to give. lol i mean, sex isnt something thats bad, as a matter of fact, i think its the ultimate bond between a man and a woman. the one moment when your whole life can turn around, but it has to be with that one person. i dont care for the sex as much as just having a girlfriend. i need more emotional support than anything else, i need someone who loves me and i can love them, as opposed to being pretty much on my own right now. im a 23 year old straight male, but its one of the biggest things on my mind is romance, i want sex on the beach, walking while holding hands, that one passionate kiss. overall, dont feel bad because you havent made love yet, im still waiting too, but it doesnt mean anything unless its with the right person, so hold it until you find them, and when the day finally comes youll see only her, feel only her, and she will be your world, your guardian angel, and the reason you wake up in the morning. thats the kind of romance i want to find. lets do our best together.
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yeh i just got done reading the rest of the post...really disturbing..i mean, some of the stuff he said was totally uncalled for. women are ppl too, the most gentle and fragile and precious that i cant live without..lol i think thats why i love fantasy novels so much, they seem to portrey just that.. have you read emily gee's thief with no shadow? very romantic.
The one thing I'll hand the OP was that he was honest. To me, there's a difference between politely correcting someone else's way of thinking, and attacking someone who is suicidal.
Although, if you think about it the OP was just as wrong as the ppl that attacked him. He came on here, to a suicide forum, painted women in a bad light. Those women that responded were just as fragile emotionally as he was, obviously, because look where he is posting.
But again, I credit the OP. He was open about his thoughts, brutally, but still. I'm sure plenty of men have those feelings. It's not right, but it happens. the only thing to do is to try and enlighten this poor fellow.
Although, if you think about it the OP was just as wrong as the ppl that attacked him. He came on here, to a suicide forum, painted women in a bad light. Those women that responded were just as fragile emotionally as he was, obviously, because look where he is posting.
But again, I credit the OP. He was open about his thoughts, brutally, but still. I'm sure plenty of men have those feelings. It's not right, but it happens. the only thing to do is to try and enlighten this poor fellow.
He wasn't talking about any of you so why are you offended? I don't get offended on a personal level when they say something bad about a man in general.
But anyway.
Sex i boring. Extremely boring. I'd rather just be talking with my girlfriend or watching a movie with them. Much rather. It doesn't feel good. It's just time consuming.
My two cents.
But anyway.
Sex i boring. Extremely boring. I'd rather just be talking with my girlfriend or watching a movie with them. Much rather. It doesn't feel good. It's just time consuming.
My two cents.
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