why do people get your expectations up and then disappoint you

[Butterfly]

It sucks big time but in the dating game you often meet a few toads before you meet a prince!! Keep at it! Don't give up!

 

[Sassy Cat]

@cgh0991 I haven't been good but with everything time heals the more time goes by the less it hurts. I am strong I will be ok tears are good they help cleanse the pain.
Hugs

 

[Sassy Cat]

Thanks @HumanExMachina I know i did nothing wrong. I still have not received an explanation so it is what it is hugs.

@Petal I will try and put myself out there I need a life I need to start living again that has to start being a goal I can't keep things the way they are right now. I hope the person who backed out on you had a good explanation Hugs

@Butterfly Hopefully there is someone out there just for me hugs

Thanks all I appreciate your encouragement and love hugs

 

[A guy with feelings]

{{{HUGS}}}

 

[Somebody Else]

Now I understand what you're talking about and why you didn't reply to my message. Sorry to hear this Sassy but don't let this thing stop you from meeting new people you never know what you'll miss out on like this guy. Hugs Sassy!

 

[Sassy Cat]

Thanks Enzo hugs I will find someone someday this all just still hurts

 

[Somebody Else]

Thanks Enzo hugs I will find someone someday this all just still hurts

I'm young and single hahaha

 

[Rebreb]

@sassy123 of course you didn't deserve this and it's cruel of someone to do this to you. When we are already down and then someone hurts us further it's such a blow. All I can say is do the things that lift you up and make you feel empowered so that you're more likely to attract a more respectable person. I think when we are super low we are vulnerable and the wrong people come in and take advantage.

I'm tempted to recommend you take up kickboxing or something so that you feel stronger and wake up your inner badass. It's also a good way to get frustrations out. (The elliptical just doesn't feel as good as punching a bag, y'know?)

No matter what, I know you'll rise up. Give it time, heal and strengthen yourself so that you can attract wonderful people instead of jerks like this.

 

[Sassy Cat]

I'm young and single hahaha

Love you too Enzo hugs

 

[Sassy Cat]

Hay Reb hugs thanks. Life definitely beats you down I should have known it was too good to be true life never seems to go my way. I wonder what will kick me next. Ohh well I am a survivor I will survive this I always do just one more emotional heartbreak that will hurt for awhile. I feel so down I know I shouldn't let it bother me but it does so much. I didn't push for anything to have this person want this and then just nothing after indicating everything was a go why still no communication gosh it hurts.

Well yes high kick to the face lol opps I could never do that but it's a thought hugs love you reb hugs

 

[Rebreb]

Aw Sassy don't expect you'll be kicked again - try to hold a higher hope than that. (((hugs)))