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Witty_Sarcasm

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Maybe if she slams it a little louder, the cops will be called... & she will be taken away for the night~
Giving you some peace, for a restful evening *~:)_^/\->
Yeah I wish...she finally calmed down though. And told me not to keep bringing it up...well the main reason I do that is to remind her of what she is doing and maybe hope for some changed behavior...but that's unlikely to happen.
 

Witty_Sarcasm

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9, cos his hunched over pose makes him look like he has the weight of the world his shoulders. I guess it’s not “quite” that bad for me thankfully, but I’m definitely dreading some things anyway.
Nice art though.
Even if it's not as bad as having the weight of the world on your shoulders, I'm sorry to hear you are dealing with all of this. I hope that it will pass soon and everything will be ok.
 

Witty_Sarcasm

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Every time I take a hair quiz, it tells me I have 3A type hair, so loose curls. It also says I have low porosity of my hair, so that means it doesn't retain moisture well, hence why it probably gets dry and frizzy easily. And it says my scalp is unhealthy, which I know since it tends to be dry and itchy at times. Still trying to figure out the best way to make my hair look healthier. I used some hair gel called "Monkey Gunk" and that seems to work ok but I need different products.
 

MisterBGone

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Every time I take a hair quiz, it tells me I have 3A type hair, so loose curls. It also says I have low porosity of my hair, so that means it doesn't retain moisture well, hence why it probably gets dry and frizzy easily. And it says my scalp is unhealthy, which I know since it tends to be dry and itchy at times. Still trying to figure out the best way to make my hair look healthier. I used some hair gel called "Monkey Gunk" and that seems to work ok but I need different products.
The woman who used to cut my hair growing up, said that when I went away to college, if I'd wanted to save money, I could just use lotion. And that would protect it (like a leave in conditioner, maybe?) from - damage. . . I guess! Otherwise, it can be a lot of trial & error, I have found, in order to find a product that works well for (or with) you~
 

MisterBGone

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It's interesting to note, how many intensely popular series, have ended in disappointment, with their finales~*
I'm thinking of Lost / this one / Game of Thrones, etc. I'm sure there's many more, and it must be extraordinarily
difficult, to wrap things up in a wway that will suffice; & (to) satisfy - every one. However, some seem to elicit
(eveen) greater offeense--from their loyal fans--than others^_.> =}

 

Witty_Sarcasm

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The woman who used to cut my hair growing up, said that when I went away to college, if I'd wanted to save money, I could just use lotion. And that would protect it (like a leave in conditioner, maybe?) from - damage. . . I guess! Otherwise, it can be a lot of trial & error, I have found, in order to find a product that works well for (or with) you~
Ok cool, didn't know about the lotion thing, but it makes sense. I'll have to give that a shot maybe.
 

MisterBGone

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Yea, in my case... She was thinking of getting a big/or giant vat of one of those (or one of them). . . So as, to have it last - forever*

but tthe same principle would apply; regardless, & no matter. I don't know anything about your particular hair type or test taking /
taking answer (the 3A) I'm not sure I've ever ehard the term, "loss curls?"

but w/respect to teh other, if you don't go that route. I'd think you'd want to inspect for (or search for) the moisture retaining/moisturizer, for dry fizzy hair, etc (kinds).

Brands, of which, there are many! And yoo don't have to spend a ton (but you most certainly can)~ / that's where it kind of comes down to, I believe, finding your right match, or chemistry --which sometimes, takes some time

Good luck, don't give up! You might want to ask your dr., next time you see them, if they see anything medically that could be in need of addressing, or that needs to be addressed (doubtful, though).

Sometimes, I have heard of people "over-washing," their hair. I'm uncertain as to whether or not, that is the case, for yho?
 

JMG

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Even if it's not as bad as having the weight of the world on your shoulders, I'm sorry to hear you are dealing with all of this. I hope that it will pass soon and everything will be ok.
Thank you, I really appreciate that you care :) It feels like the “worst” of some of what I was feeling has passed, part of it was just due to being sick (lowers my mood a lot cos of never knowing when I’ll be “better” and things like that).

Still stressed about various uncertainties related to this year of course, but doing my best to stay hopeful about things. If the worst does happen, then I would definitely have to seriously be considering some more “permanent” options to make the stress and worry stop already, but hopefully it won’t ever come to that. Needing a LOT of luck right now though, that’s for damn sure.

I hope things are going well for you too, and definitely wishing you (and MrB, and all other members of SF) a happy new year too of course! :) ;)
 

Witty_Sarcasm

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Yea, in my case... She was thinking of getting a big/or giant vat of one of those (or one of them). . . So as, to have it last - forever*

but tthe same principle would apply; regardless, & no matter. I don't know anything about your particular hair type or test taking /
taking answer (the 3A) I'm not sure I've ever ehard the term, "loss curls?"

but w/respect to teh other, if you don't go that route. I'd think you'd want to inspect for (or search for) the moisture retaining/moisturizer, for dry fizzy hair, etc (kinds).

Brands, of which, there are many! And yoo don't have to spend a ton (but you most certainly can)~ / that's where it kind of comes down to, I believe, finding your right match, or chemistry --which sometimes, takes some time

Good luck, don't give up! You might want to ask your dr., next time you see them, if they see anything medically that could be in need of addressing, or that needs to be addressed (doubtful, though).

Sometimes, I have heard of people "over-washing," their hair. I'm uncertain as to whether or not, that is the case, for yho?
I'm thinking mine is right on the cusp of 2C/3A so like...very wavy and lightly curly. It curls on its own so that's why I'll say it's curly as well as wavy. There are tips online to show how to care for it, so I need to work on that.
 

Witty_Sarcasm

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Thank you, I really appreciate that you care :) It feels like the “worst” of some of what I was feeling has passed, part of it was just due to being sick (lowers my mood a lot cos of never knowing when I’ll be “better” and things like that).

Still stressed about various uncertainties related to this year of course, but doing my best to stay hopeful about things. If the worst does happen, then I would definitely have to seriously be considering some more “permanent” options to make the stress and worry stop already, but hopefully it won’t ever come to that. Needing a LOT of luck right now though, that’s for damn sure.

I hope things are going well for you too, and definitely wishing you (and MrB, and all other members of SF) a happy new year too of course! :);)
I'm glad you aren't feeling as bad anymore, we missed you for sure. I mean I'm speaking for myself but I know Mr. B feels the same. I hope you won't need any permanent options to deal with things, if I'm understanding the context right. I tend to think that way as well but the world would be at a loss without you for sure.
 

Witty_Sarcasm

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Things are crazy to be honest. Before our family friend had the surgery, she was saying she might die and all of this, but we assured her that she wouldn't. My mom thought she saw a white figure when we were at her house tonight, and my sister called and said there was a complication with the surgery. There was a hole in her heart and she was bleeding so that worried me, so I thought all would be ok, but it wasn't. I knew it was a possibility, but it still is unexpected. And I am worried about how my nephew will take this and what will happen to him. If there's no will or anything stated, he becomes a ward of the state. But children generally go to family members first. He can't go with me and my mom for various reasons, but hopefully he can be back with my sister. I worry about the cats as well and how this will affect them. I also worry about them having to go and live somewhere else and not be able to see them again, so I am just concerned about a lot right now.
 

MisterBGone

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Things are crazy to be honest. Before our family friend had the surgery, she was saying she might die and all of this, but we assured her that she wouldn't. My mom thought she saw a white figure when we were at her house tonight, and my sister called and said there was a complication with the surgery. There was a hole in her heart and she was bleeding so that worried me, so I thought all would be ok, but it wasn't. I knew it was a possibility, but it still is unexpected. And I am worried about how my nephew will take this and what will happen to him. If there's no will or anything stated, he becomes a ward of the state. But children generally go to family members first. He can't go with me and my mom for various reasons, but hopefully he can be back with my sister. I worry about the cats as well and how this will affect them. I also worry about them having to go and live somewhere else and not be able to see them again, so I am just concerned about a lot right now.
Truly, terribly sorry to learn of this, @Witty_Sarcasm - Man! Talk about a "Shock?" I can't imagine all that you're going through right now, just in terms of... the whirlwind of emotions, and so on--as you've laid out so clearly & precisely/concisely: stated so plainly & openly- here (and now). Just the loss, sounds all so tragic. Because it was so sudden, and unexpected. I'm just so sorry for all that you're having to go through & to experience right now. Yes, you worry for the others. All of them, the parties involved, and the implications. But to no longer have that relationship, that you've had. And the connection that you've shared, and so on & so forth. It must be a lot to bear. I hope everything will turn out positively, in the end, for your nephew. It must be excruciatingly hard for him now, and just so devastating, because in a way, he's like losing, the one who was raising him (or fulfilling that 'role,' any~way) *even though it is different, as you say*
So it is all complex, and complicated. Not a nice curve ball for life to be throwing at you, or more like knucke ball, or screw~* // You get, the point of it all, anyway & the feeling/(s) expressed. Yes, the cats will be potentially facing an uncertain future. So that is concerning, but I guess, out of your hands. So, not a lot you can do in or on, their end for them, I'd suppose. Again, sorry for every-one involved, and in cluding her, and her loss of such a premature life, or ending to/(or of~*!). Hope that, or may She, rest in peace. So tragic, and unfortunate. You take great care of yourself, and just try to believe that, you'll get through this. Even if it seems, so hard & perilously hopeless, or unknowable, now~*.
 

Witty_Sarcasm

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Truly, terribly sorry to learn of this, @Witty_Sarcasm - Man! Talk about a "Shock?" I can't imagine all that you're going through right now, just in terms of... the whirlwind of emotions, and so on--as you've laid out so clearly & precisely/concisely: stated so plainly & openly- here (and now). Just the loss, sounds all so tragic. Because it was so sudden, and unexpected. I'm just so sorry for all that you're having to go through & to experience right now. Yes, you worry for the others. All of them, the parties involved, and the implications. But to no longer have that relationship, that you've had. And the connection that you've shared, and so on & so forth. It must be a lot to bear. I hope everything will turn out positively, in the end, for your nephew. It must be excruciatingly hard for him now, and just so devastating, because in a way, he's like losing, the one who was raising him (or fulfilling that 'role,' any~way) *even though it is different, as you say*
So it is all complex, and complicated. Not a nice curve ball for life to be throwing at you, or more like knucke ball, or screw~* // You get, the point of it all, anyway & the feeling/(s) expressed. Yes, the cats will be potentially facing an uncertain future. So that is concerning, but I guess, out of your hands. So, not a lot you can do in or on, their end for them, I'd suppose. Again, sorry for every-one involved, and in cluding her, and her loss of such a premature life, or ending to/(or of~*!). Hope that, or may She, rest in peace. So tragic, and unfortunate. You take great care of yourself, and just try to believe that, you'll get through this. Even if it seems, so hard & perilously hopeless, or unknowable, now~*.
I don't know if it's going to make him act out more or not, so I'm concerned about that. And I hope that he won't end up having to live with strangers and that I won't be able to see him again. Thank you for your support, it's just a lot to try and process right now.
 

JMG

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I'm glad you aren't feeling as bad anymore, we missed you for sure. I mean I'm speaking for myself but I know Mr. B feels the same. I hope you won't need any permanent options to deal with things, if I'm understanding the context right. I tend to think that way as well but the world would be at a loss without you for sure.
Thank you, that’s really kind of you to say :) Yes, you understood the context correctly, I don’t have any “plan” or anything though, it’s just a thought that sometimes gives me a lot of comfort I guess. To know that there is “something” I could do to make it all finally “stop” being so stressful. But ya, hopefully it won’t ever come to such a dire situation as that. I’m sorry you think that way sometimes as well.

Thank you for what you said about the world being at a loss without me too, that definitely means a lot to me :) Same to you too of course, it would definitely never be the same without you so hopefully that won’t be the case for several decades still.
 

JMG

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Omg, I’m so sorry to hear about the complication with your family friend Witty, that is terrible :( I’m so sorry for your loss, I’m not sure what else to say except I’m here for you if you want to talk about it.

I understand it’s a lot to process right now though, all those details of where your nephew will go, and the kitties too, will definitely all get worked out though. I know it’s hard not to worry about those though, I would be too for sure. They are lucky to have you and others who care and who will do everything they can to help though, it sounds like they’ll all be needing your strength more than ever :)

MrB’s advice of taking good care of yourself and believing that you’ll get through this is truly excellent, so I “second” that for sure.

Big hugs of comfort, reassurance and condolences to you *hug*hug
 

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