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Thank you so much for the kind reassurance about thinking she doesn’t “hate” me, the more I thought about it after the more I realized I don’t think she does either. Yup exactly about being badly influenced by B.I.L and that affecting her behavior towards me. I think sometimes she also just burns herself out a bit, I suspect that might’ve been another part of why she seemed in such a different/not good mood on Sunday. It really changed how she came across though that’s for sure.
Anyway - Thank you for saying you hope it’ll get better soon and that she’ll start to be more respectful to me. Ok about that girl staying and getting a job, that sounds like a good plan and I wish her the best of luck with all of that. Awesome that your sis saw your nephew the other day too, I hope they’re both doing well too. You’re welcome, and aw, that’s definitely not true, I’m sure you’re plenty cute (if not cuter!) as an adult too
Sorry to hear about the cats all going to a shelter too, aw I can’t even imagine how that is really but I’m sure they’ll all go to good and loving homes Sorry to hear about not being able to see your nephew for a while too, I’m sure he will be ok though. I understand about it feeling like things are “going to shit” for sure, have felt like that for years in some ways. Always hoping for the best with things of course, and hopefully this year is only gonna get better for both of us from here
Very much in agreement about this, if only that were possible, lol. There have been “some” good things about this year so far (for me, anyway) at least thankfully, but ya the sucky things have definitely really sucked :/
Anyway - Thank you for saying you hope it’ll get better soon and that she’ll start to be more respectful to me. Ok about that girl staying and getting a job, that sounds like a good plan and I wish her the best of luck with all of that. Awesome that your sis saw your nephew the other day too, I hope they’re both doing well too. You’re welcome, and aw, that’s definitely not true, I’m sure you’re plenty cute (if not cuter!) as an adult too
Sorry to hear about the cats all going to a shelter too, aw I can’t even imagine how that is really but I’m sure they’ll all go to good and loving homes
Sorry to hear about not being able to see your nephew for a while too, I’m sure he will be ok though. I understand about it feeling like things are “going to shit” for sure, have felt like that for years in some ways. Always hoping for the best with things of course, and hopefully this year is only gonna get better for both of us from here Very much in agreement about this, if only that were possible, lol. There have been “some” good things about this year so far (for me, anyway) at least thankfully, but ya the sucky things have definitely really sucked :/
Thank you so much for the kind reassurance about thinking she doesn’t “hate” me, the more I thought about it after the more I realized I don’t think she does either. Yup exactly about being badly influenced by B.I.L and that affecting her behavior towards me. I think sometimes she also just burns herself out a bit, I suspect that might’ve been another part of why she seemed in such a different/not good mood on Sunday. It really changed how she came across though that’s for sure.
Anyway - Thank you for saying you hope it’ll get better soon and that she’ll start to be more respectful to me. Ok about that girl staying and getting a job, that sounds like a good plan and I wish her the best of luck with all of that. Awesome that your sis saw your nephew the other day too, I hope they’re both doing well too. You’re welcome, and aw, that’s definitely not true, I’m sure you’re plenty cute (if not cuter!) as an adult too
Sorry to hear about the cats all going to a shelter too, aw I can’t even imagine how that is really but I’m sure they’ll all go to good and loving homes Sorry to hear about not being able to see your nephew for a while too, I’m sure he will be ok though. I understand about it feeling like things are “going to shit” for sure, have felt like that for years in some ways. Always hoping for the best with things of course, and hopefully this year is only gonna get better for both of us from here
Very much in agreement about this, if only that were possible, lol. There have been “some” good things about this year so far (for me, anyway) at least thankfully, but ya the sucky things have definitely really sucked :/
Anyway - Thank you for saying you hope it’ll get better soon and that she’ll start to be more respectful to me. Ok about that girl staying and getting a job, that sounds like a good plan and I wish her the best of luck with all of that. Awesome that your sis saw your nephew the other day too, I hope they’re both doing well too. You’re welcome, and aw, that’s definitely not true, I’m sure you’re plenty cute (if not cuter!) as an adult too
Sorry to hear about the cats all going to a shelter too, aw I can’t even imagine how that is really but I’m sure they’ll all go to good and loving homes
Sorry to hear about not being able to see your nephew for a while too, I’m sure he will be ok though. I understand about it feeling like things are “going to shit” for sure, have felt like that for years in some ways. Always hoping for the best with things of course, and hopefully this year is only gonna get better for both of us from here Very much in agreement about this, if only that were possible, lol. There have been “some” good things about this year so far (for me, anyway) at least thankfully, but ya the sucky things have definitely really sucked :/
This handsome boy is Timber, a 3 year old grey and white neutered male who came to the shelter along with Sofia as their owner passed away. He has a friendly personality and loves everyone he meets. He has done well with other cats and respectful children in the past.
(It's actually spelled Sophia but maybe they didn't know that :P And they won't be 3 until June but they probably just made a close estimate of age.)
This cute girl is Sofia, a 3 year old grey and white spayed female who came to the shelter along with Timber as their owner passed away. She has a sweet personality, enjoys pets and can be talkative. She would do well with respectful older children.
And even if I could afford to adopt one of them, I wouldn't be able to just go to the shelter, adopt one, and leave the rest there without feeling immensely guilty. Things like this are why I wish I had made more of my life earlier on, and I would have my own place and a career and family and all of that, and I could take them in easily. But I can't and that's probably always going to haunt me.
Oh I forgot to add, the blurbs about the cats are written by the shelter and not me. But I did add more info to my posts on Facebook.
You’re welcome, and aw thanks for saying that to me too, very kind No, doesn’t sound weird at all That’s great that she got to keep one of the cats at least, I’m glad you’ll still get to see one of them sometimes. And wow about that tarot reading saying you’ll have a meaningful reunion with them, I’m curious about the context of that too! Sounds promising though for sure.
Aw I’m so sorry you cried thinking about it last night, and when you saw some of the cats listed on the shelter site, I definitely would be crying about that too. I don’t really know what else to say except that I’m really sorry and I hope things will be feeling much better soon.
Wow, those kitties are both so cute and beautiful for sure. In that pic Timber looks very similar to a kitty I had years ago (his name was Scooter) he had that white arrow type marking on his head too. His eyes are very similar to how his were as well. And Sophia looks a bit like a cat my uncle had years ago (he called her “Rhubarb” which I always thought was a cute and funny name for a kitty lol). She was all gray with no white on her, but her eyes and expression remind me of his cat a lot.
I understand about feeling guilty if you could only take in “one” of the kitties, I’d feel the same. I also feel the same about wishing I’d done more earlier in life (or at least maybe trying harder to stick it out at my miserable 7+ years job I had) so I’d be able to have a lot more $ saved now at least. I try to think that things have happened as they were “meant” to with regards to my own life and choices though, but ya that doesn’t stop the guilt from sometimes creeping in with the “if only’s”. I feel like now all I can really do is make the best of what I AM lucky enough to have, but ya that is definitely easier at some times than others. I understand about the haunted feeling too, a part of me will always feel that about some of my choices too.
No, doesn’t sound weird at all That’s great that she got to keep one of the cats at least, I’m glad you’ll still get to see one of them sometimes. And wow about that tarot reading saying you’ll have a meaningful reunion with them, I’m curious about the context of that too! Sounds promising though for sure.Aw I’m so sorry you cried thinking about it last night, and when you saw some of the cats listed on the shelter site, I definitely would be crying about that too. I don’t really know what else to say except that I’m really sorry and I hope things will be feeling much better soon.
Wow, those kitties are both so cute and beautiful for sure. In that pic Timber looks very similar to a kitty I had years ago (his name was Scooter) he had that white arrow type marking on his head too. His eyes are very similar to how his were as well. And Sophia looks a bit like a cat my uncle had years ago (he called her “Rhubarb” which I always thought was a cute and funny name for a kitty lol). She was all gray with no white on her, but her eyes and expression remind me of his cat a lot.
I understand about feeling guilty if you could only take in “one” of the kitties, I’d feel the same. I also feel the same about wishing I’d done more earlier in life (or at least maybe trying harder to stick it out at my miserable 7+ years job I had) so I’d be able to have a lot more $ saved now at least. I try to think that things have happened as they were “meant” to with regards to my own life and choices though, but ya that doesn’t stop the guilt from sometimes creeping in with the “if only’s”. I feel like now all I can really do is make the best of what I AM lucky enough to have, but ya that is definitely easier at some times than others. I understand about the haunted feeling too, a part of me will always feel that about some of my choices too.
Love that pretty purple glitter moon pic, the cute animals and of course the adorable, sweet black cats collage pic too, yup, definitely not remotely evil or bad luck!
Sorry that you’re feeling tempted to drink again, but good for you for focusing on the fact that it wouldn’t ultimately help, would make you sick, and therefore would only make things worse.
I definitely understand about wanting to tune things out too, I definitely also feel that way at times. Just wish there was some way to kinda “forget” all (or at least, the “worst”) the bad things from the past, would make the present much easier to deal with for sure. Please try to remember that you are strong, awesome and lots of other positive and good things too, even if you don’t feel like you are.
Sorry that you’re feeling tempted to drink again, but good for you for focusing on the fact that it wouldn’t ultimately help, would make you sick, and therefore would only make things worse.
I definitely understand about wanting to tune things out too, I definitely also feel that way at times. Just wish there was some way to kinda “forget” all (or at least, the “worst”) the bad things from the past, would make the present much easier to deal with for sure. Please try to remember that you are strong, awesome and lots of other positive and good things too, even if you don’t feel like you are.
You’re welcome, and aw thanks for saying that to me too, very kind No, doesn’t sound weird at all That’s great that she got to keep one of the cats at least, I’m glad you’ll still get to see one of them sometimes. And wow about that tarot reading saying you’ll have a meaningful reunion with them, I’m curious about the context of that too! Sounds promising though for sure.
Aw I’m so sorry you cried thinking about it last night, and when you saw some of the cats listed on the shelter site, I definitely would be crying about that too. I don’t really know what else to say except that I’m really sorry and I hope things will be feeling much better soon.
Wow, those kitties are both so cute and beautiful for sure. In that pic Timber looks very similar to a kitty I had years ago (his name was Scooter) he had that white arrow type marking on his head too. His eyes are very similar to how his were as well. And Sophia looks a bit like a cat my uncle had years ago (he called her “Rhubarb” which I always thought was a cute and funny name for a kitty lol). She was all gray with no white on her, but her eyes and expression remind me of his cat a lot.
I understand about feeling guilty if you could only take in “one” of the kitties, I’d feel the same. I also feel the same about wishing I’d done more earlier in life (or at least maybe trying harder to stick it out at my miserable 7+ years job I had) so I’d be able to have a lot more $ saved now at least. I try to think that things have happened as they were “meant” to with regards to my own life and choices though, but ya that doesn’t stop the guilt from sometimes creeping in with the “if only’s”. I feel like now all I can really do is make the best of what I AM lucky enough to have, but ya that is definitely easier at some times than others. I understand about the haunted feeling too, a part of me will always feel that about some of my choices too.
No, doesn’t sound weird at all That’s great that she got to keep one of the cats at least, I’m glad you’ll still get to see one of them sometimes. And wow about that tarot reading saying you’ll have a meaningful reunion with them, I’m curious about the context of that too! Sounds promising though for sure.Aw I’m so sorry you cried thinking about it last night, and when you saw some of the cats listed on the shelter site, I definitely would be crying about that too. I don’t really know what else to say except that I’m really sorry and I hope things will be feeling much better soon.
Wow, those kitties are both so cute and beautiful for sure. In that pic Timber looks very similar to a kitty I had years ago (his name was Scooter) he had that white arrow type marking on his head too. His eyes are very similar to how his were as well. And Sophia looks a bit like a cat my uncle had years ago (he called her “Rhubarb” which I always thought was a cute and funny name for a kitty lol). She was all gray with no white on her, but her eyes and expression remind me of his cat a lot.
I understand about feeling guilty if you could only take in “one” of the kitties, I’d feel the same. I also feel the same about wishing I’d done more earlier in life (or at least maybe trying harder to stick it out at my miserable 7+ years job I had) so I’d be able to have a lot more $ saved now at least. I try to think that things have happened as they were “meant” to with regards to my own life and choices though, but ya that doesn’t stop the guilt from sometimes creeping in with the “if only’s”. I feel like now all I can really do is make the best of what I AM lucky enough to have, but ya that is definitely easier at some times than others. I understand about the haunted feeling too, a part of me will always feel that about some of my choices too.
There's not much that can be said or done I guess, it's just a reality that I have to face. And I hope at some point I can have pets of my own. There were some black cats on there, they were pretty young too, but I know I can't adopt one right now. I wonder if her name has always been spelled with an F and I honestly just didn't know that. Well, my nephew said he named her after a friend of his so I guess it depends on how she spells it. But I think I probably have it right anyway. :P
I feel guilty because I feel like I should have done more starting in my 20's, or I wouldn't be here at almost 40 and left with whatever this life is. I told my mom that she needs to stay alive because basically if something happened to her, I'd be out on the street. I don't have anyone that could take me in, I mean my family friend would have, but she's not around anymore so I need some sort of backup plan.
