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MisterBGone

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So one of the cats has been missing for close to a day now, and I mean I can't see him anywhere. He's disappeared before but then I started to hear noise from the toybox late at night and he was in there. I tried just about everything I could think of to find him. My mom said maybe he died, but then there would be a body somewhere. The fact that he disappeared without a trace is very weird.
I hope you can find him, and maybe it wouldn't hurt to--if this is possible--leave a door or window open (or way in which he can re-enter the home) should he come a'wandering back in? Anyway, that's stressful for sure! So, I hope the best for you both. . .
 

Witty_Sarcasm

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I hope you can find him, and maybe it wouldn't hurt to--if this is possible--leave a door or window open (or way in which he can re-enter the home) should he come a'wandering back in? Anyway, that's stressful for sure! So, I hope the best for you both. . .
I had a weird feeling that he would show up, and there he was in the dining room this morning. I'm not sure where his spot is, but now he's hiding again and won't respond again. At least I know he's not seriously hurt.
 

MisterBGone

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I had a weird feeling that he would show up, and there he was in the dining room this morning. I'm not sure where his spot is, but now he's hiding again and won't respond again. At least I know he's not seriously hurt.
You might want to take him to the vet--if you can... that is, if he is responding &/or behaving in such a fashion or way - that is totally different from his normal: or more, normal~
 

Witty_Sarcasm

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You might want to take him to the vet--if you can... that is, if he is responding &/or behaving in such a fashion or way - that is totally different from his normal: or more, normal~
They took him when he first started getting sick, and they said it was food allergies or something, and he needs certain foods, which he has now. But he's probably worn down because the flea situation is coming back, and he lost most of his fur last time. We need to put the medication on him, but only when we can find him.
 

Witty_Sarcasm

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Omg these cats though. The most mischievous one decides to walk right across my keyboard when I'm in a session with my therapist, even though I tried to ward him away from my computer. Then he manages to knock over a glass of water onto me and the computer. But I still love those turkeys. :D
 

JMG

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Sometimes it feels like it doesn't matter if I am around or not, because I just feel like my presence is not that important. But I'm glad that there are people out there who would notice my absence and care. I try not to do too much either and do things more in small bursts than all at once. Lol well I call it like I see it and she sounds like one of those evil stepmothers from a fairy tale or something. I would say I hope she gains compassion someday, but it might never happen with her.

I'm actually worried about the cats because the one who is usually sick threw up about 3 times today. One that usually never does did it a bit in the morning, and then the small one did earlier, and she just did again. So I'm thinking that they are all sick with something. The last time we were here watching them, they had a cold. But now I feel they either got into something bad or maybe have the flu. But two of them seem fine and no throwing up so that's weird. We will have to call tomorrow and she'll have to cut the trip short if they are really sick. I'm concerned now because it's late and we can't take them anywhere, plus we are in the middle of nowhere and no way to get around. So I really hope this will pass and not get too serious. I probably won't be able to sleep much because I'll be worried about that. They're like pets to me even though I don't own them. Yeah one was watching the screen earlier and I said she was reading it. :D

Yeah the people who talk all the time about nothing, that can get annoying fast. I hope this passes soon, and I have some more itchiness because the cats have fleas again. We have to give them treatments so I hope that can stay under control.
It definitely matters and makes a big (positive!) difference when you’re around, but I understand feeling that way cos I also sometimes think that way about myself too. Self-confidence is a very hard and challenging thing a lot of the time. That’s great that you try to pace yourself/not do too much at once too, it’s much better, healthier and more balanced than pushing yourself way beyond what you feel up for doing. I definitely wonder sometimes with people who often get migraines if that’s not maybe part of what causes people to get them.

Lol I love that you “call it like you see it” and that you think my stepmother (I often refer to her as “stepwench” lol, not to her face of course, barely ever see her anyway thank god lol) sounds like one of those evil stepmothers from a fairy tale. My dad’s friend who saw how horrible she was to me, and how I was always cleaning (trying to keep her in a “good mood” as much as I possibly could, not that it helped the miserable thing most of the time lol) and nicknamed me “cinderella” lol always thought that was kinda funny, despite the messed up/unjust as hell situation of it all of course.

Anyway thanks for your compassion about that I appreciate it a lot :) I highly doubt she’ll ever magically morph into someone who has much capacity for compassion but who knows, miracles do happen every day after all.

Sorry to hear about those various problems with the kitties that have been going on, aw poor things between getting sick, having the fleas and the one that keeps vanishing to some mystery hiding place. Hope they’ll all be ok, healthy and flea free soon :) Aw you’re so sweet, kind and caring with saying how you wouldn’t be able to sleep cos of being worried about them, I hope you were able to sleep enough at least though. I understand about them feeling like pets to you even though you don’t technically own them, I always feel so much love for any animals I spend time with (even ones I just see when out walking for that matter, lol!) so ya I definitely get that. Aw that’s cute that one was watching the screen earlier and you said she was reading it. It’d be so cute and funny if kitties and animals could read, I’d sit with my kitty and look through books every night with her if she could read :)

I hope the thing you have and the itchiness passes soon too, and also that the kitties’ fleas will be gone soon. Our kitty had them when we first got her back in July 2019, then had them again a few months later. We finally did get rid of the evil things, took a LOT of baths and applying this flea cream stuff we got. Was such a relief when they were finally gone for sure.
 

Witty_Sarcasm

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It definitely matters and makes a big (positive!) difference when you’re around, but I understand feeling that way cos I also sometimes think that way about myself too. Self-confidence is a very hard and challenging thing a lot of the time. That’s great that you try to pace yourself/not do too much at once too, it’s much better, healthier and more balanced than pushing yourself way beyond what you feel up for doing. I definitely wonder sometimes with people who often get migraines if that’s not maybe part of what causes people to get them.

Lol I love that you “call it like you see it” and that you think my stepmother (I often refer to her as “stepwench” lol, not to her face of course, barely ever see her anyway thank god lol) sounds like one of those evil stepmothers from a fairy tale. My dad’s friend who saw how horrible she was to me, and how I was always cleaning (trying to keep her in a “good mood” as much as I possibly could, not that it helped the miserable thing most of the time lol) and nicknamed me “cinderella” lol always thought that was kinda funny, despite the messed up/unjust as hell situation of it all of course.

Anyway thanks for your compassion about that I appreciate it a lot :) I highly doubt she’ll ever magically morph into someone who has much capacity for compassion but who knows, miracles do happen every day after all.

Sorry to hear about those various problems with the kitties that have been going on, aw poor things between getting sick, having the fleas and the one that keeps vanishing to some mystery hiding place. Hope they’ll all be ok, healthy and flea free soon :) Aw you’re so sweet, kind and caring with saying how you wouldn’t be able to sleep cos of being worried about them, I hope you were able to sleep enough at least though. I understand about them feeling like pets to you even though you don’t technically own them, I always feel so much love for any animals I spend time with (even ones I just see when out walking for that matter, lol!) so ya I definitely get that. Aw that’s cute that one was watching the screen earlier and you said she was reading it. It’d be so cute and funny if kitties and animals could read, I’d sit with my kitty and look through books every night with her if she could read :)

I hope the thing you have and the itchiness passes soon too, and also that the kitties’ fleas will be gone soon. Our kitty had them when we first got her back in July 2019, then had them again a few months later. We finally did get rid of the evil things, took a LOT of baths and applying this flea cream stuff we got. Was such a relief when they were finally gone for sure.
I try to pace myself because I don't want to burn out or anything. She sounds like that evil witch with poison apples from Snow White, probably looks like her too. :D At least not she has to do all of her own cleaning. Well the missing one randomly showed up last night and just running all over the place. He wanted to hide in the basement but I closed all of the doors and wouldn't let him. He is hiding in a closet in here, but at least I know where he is and will be able to find him. I can still see his head, so he's not hiding too well anyway. :D Even if they can't read, I'm sure they understand quite a bit about things happening around them. They can more or less get what I am saying or maybe it's just from tone of voice. I'm glad that your cat is rid of all of the fleas now. They can be hard to get rid of. I think my eczema is flaring up again but not sure if it's because of that or something else.
 

JMG

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I try to pace myself because I don't want to burn out or anything. She sounds like that evil witch with poison apples from Snow White, probably looks like her too. :D At least not she has to do all of her own cleaning. Well the missing one randomly showed up last night and just running all over the place. He wanted to hide in the basement but I closed all of the doors and wouldn't let him. He is hiding in a closet in here, but at least I know where he is and will be able to find him. I can still see his head, so he's not hiding too well anyway. :D Even if they can't read, I'm sure they understand quite a bit about things happening around them. They can more or less get what I am saying or maybe it's just from tone of voice. I'm glad that your cat is rid of all of the fleas now. They can be hard to get rid of. I think my eczema is flaring up again but not sure if it's because of that or something else.
That’s great that you pace yourself so you don’t burn out, very wise for sure ;)
Lol! Omg I love how you compared my sw (stepwench, lol) to the wicked stepmother from Snow White with the poison apple, and also you’re right about her “looking” like her a bit too! She actually (naturally) had a really gross/unattractive mole right on the side of her nose/cheek (doesn’t have it anymore cos she got it removed) so ya she definitely had the “wicked witch” look to go along with actually “being wicked” lol. Yup exactly, after I thankfully got away from her horrible pure evilness, she had to not only do all her own cleaning, but watch her bloody kids, no more built in babysitter for her! :) She said later to me in a supposed “apology letter” (it was hardly that though, more like a letter where she “pretended” to be apologizing to me, yet at the same time pretty much just blamed me for anything that didn’t happen “perfectly”) that she “missed my help” lmao I always thought that was such a joke. Like wow, not “missed me” or anything, nope, just missed my help lol. Well too bad for her cos I NEVER went back there and never would have, not for all the $ in the world, no way.

Aw I’m glad the “hiding” kitty eventually turned up though, that’s great! :) Aw he sounds like he enjoys being “mysterious” a bit (guess all kitties do “to some extent” anyway lol) and that’s so adorable how you said he’s hiding in the closet now but you can still see his lil face :) Yup I think you’re quite right that regardless of “whether cats can read or not” that they still understand a lot about things happening around them. And ya I get the same feeling like how you said that they understand “what is being said” a lot of the time. Yup I think it is tone of voice as well that they understand.

Thanks for saying that about being glad my kitty is rid of the fleas, me too for sure lol. You’re very right that they can be quite hard to get rid of. I was thankful more than ever for my rl friend for helping me give our sweet Bella all those flea baths, and she was such a brave little kitty about it, think she understood that with each of those baths more of the fleas were gone/not able to make her be more itchy from the bites and all that. She was still very brave though, just a lil baby kitten and she didn’t seem scared, didn’t meow/whine or anything! Was amazing really.

Sorry to hear about your eczema possibly flaring up again, I hope it will calm down soon though. Guessing you maybe have a cream for it, if so then maybe rubbing that on it will also help it calm down more quickly.
 

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