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JMG

JMG

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Witty_Sarcasm said:
I'm glad that it put a smile on your face and hopefully helped you to feel better and that you are wanted and important. I think it's good to be able to remind the people in your life of what they mean to you. So I try to do that as much as I can so they know it. Thank you so much, and I'm sorry your mom acted that way when you were sick. Sometimes you just need medicine and she should understand that. Luckily it's not as bad now, I think it was a lingering cold and hopefully not more than that. I know that another strain of Covid is on the rise, so I'm trying to avoid that as much as possible. The one time I had it was miserable enough. I try to do things for my mom too and she does nice things for me in return. I wish your mom would do that too because you deserve to be cared for as much as you care about others.

I don't think he would be the one, because I don't think I have even seen him in person since high school. Or maybe after that, but it's been several years anyway. He lives around here, so he could have visited any time, but he never did and he talks to me so infrequently anyway. His family moved in next door when I was a kid, so I've known him most of my life but we were never super close or anything. Thank you, I hope that you can find a great guy as well :)
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Aw yup it definitely did make me smile, helped me feel better and important. Yup I agree that it’s important to let the people in your life know how much they mean to you, definitely wish a lot more people realized the importance of that too. Anyway I know I only have control over doing my best to be the example of that and hope that it might inspire more people to want to be more like that too.

You’re welcome, no prob, was glad to try to help you feel comforted about that so hopefully that was the case. Thanks for being understanding about my mom being like that to me when I was sick too. Luckily my friend was willing to go out and get it for me, dunno what I woulda done without him. He’s often been there for me a lot more than she has though. Anyway enough about that lol. Glad to hear your cold isn’t as bad now, that is definitely very good news :) I’m always hearing about new versions of Covid being out too so who knows. Glad it wasn’t that though. I’m trying to avoid getting it too though of course.

Glad your mom does nice things for you in return. My mom does some nice things for me sometimes too so it’s not all bad. I try to cut her some slack too cos her family has never been supportive of her and she’s lived away from family since she was about 15 or 16 years old. So she hasn’t had a very good life in some ways. Considering everything she’s had to deal with she is quite a strong survivor imo. Thank you for saying I deserve to have people do caring things for me though that was so nice and thoughtful of you to say. Same to you of course, absolutely! :)

Ok about not having seen that guy since high school. Wow that you’ve known him for lots of years like that though, that’s great :) I hope he’ll start to visit you more, talk more and appreciate you more, it is a very special thing to know someone for a long time like that imo. I don’t have any “long time” friends like that. Aw well you’re welcome, and thank you for saying that too about hoping I find a great guy, me too for sure.
 
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Witty_Sarcasm

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JMG said:
Aw yup it definitely did make me smile, helped me feel better and important. Yup I agree that it’s important to let the people in your life know how much they mean to you, definitely wish a lot more people realized the importance of that too. Anyway I know I only have control over doing my best to be the example of that and hope that it might inspire more people to want to be more like that too.

You’re welcome, no prob, was glad to try to help you feel comforted about that so hopefully that was the case. Thanks for being understanding about my mom being like that to me when I was sick too. Luckily my friend was willing to go out and get it for me, dunno what I woulda done without him. He’s often been there for me a lot more than she has though. Anyway enough about that lol. Glad to hear your cold isn’t as bad now, that is definitely very good news :) I’m always hearing about new versions of Covid being out too so who knows. Glad it wasn’t that though. I’m trying to avoid getting it too though of course.

Glad your mom does nice things for you in return. My mom does some nice things for me sometimes too so it’s not all bad. I try to cut her some slack too cos her family has never been supportive of her and she’s lived away from family since she was about 15 or 16 years old. So she hasn’t had a very good life in some ways. Considering everything she’s had to deal with she is quite a strong survivor imo. Thank you for saying I deserve to have people do caring things for me though that was so nice and thoughtful of you to say. Same to you of course, absolutely! :)

Ok about not having seen that guy since high school. Wow that you’ve known him for lots of years like that though, that’s great :) I hope he’ll start to visit you more, talk more and appreciate you more, it is a very special thing to know someone for a long time like that imo. I don’t have any “long time” friends like that. Aw well you’re welcome, and thank you for saying that too about hoping I find a great guy, me too for sure.
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The world definitely needs more kindness, so it's always nice to be kind to others if you are able to. Even if it's something like giving them a compliment or helping them with something. I just like to help people any way I can, because you never know what someone is going through and even a small gesture can impact their lives. You do make me feel comforted for sure, and that's a good quality for someone to have. I'm glad that your friend helped you out at least, that's nice of him.

It's good that your mom has done some nice things for you, I just wish that she would show her support more and that you would know beyond a doubt how much she cares. That does make it harder to do it if she didn't have any examples of it growing up, but I think she can always learn to show her appreciation for you and everything you do.

I'm not sure if he will visit or not, because most of the people that I know never visit or call or anything. And that's including the ones in the area where it wouldn't be too much of a drive to see me. I have had a few friends for a long time, most are online though but it's good to have people that you can rely on.
 
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Witty_Sarcasm

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I knocked over some water on the table, then I just refilled my glass and knocked it on the counter and floor. Got water all over and on my socks...why am I like this :D
 
JMG

JMG

Pink Sponge Autumn horse 💖🧽🌞🐴
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Witty_Sarcasm said:
The world definitely needs more kindness, so it's always nice to be kind to others if you are able to. Even if it's something like giving them a compliment or helping them with something. I just like to help people any way I can, because you never know what someone is going through and even a small gesture can impact their lives. You do make me feel comforted for sure, and that's a good quality for someone to have. I'm glad that your friend helped you out at least, that's nice of him.

It's good that your mom has done some nice things for you, I just wish that she would show her support more and that you would know beyond a doubt how much she cares. That does make it harder to do it if she didn't have any examples of it growing up, but I think she can always learn to show her appreciation for you and everything you do.

I'm not sure if he will visit or not, because most of the people that I know never visit or call or anything. And that's including the ones in the area where it wouldn't be too much of a drive to see me. I have had a few friends for a long time, most are online though but it's good to have people that you can rely on.
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I so completely agree about the world needing more kindness, absolutely! :) Well I am glad we are like that at least, and hopefully in the coming years and decades more and more people will recognize their own power in making a big difference by being more like that too. I like being able to help others too for sure. Yup you’re so right that you never know what someone is going through and how much even a small gesture can make a big impact for them.

Aw wow well thank you for saying that with me helping you feel comforted, you help me feel comforted too for sure :) I agree that being comforting is a very good quality to have, especially these days. Ya I’m very grateful for my rl friends and the few online friends I have as well, feels like I’d be quite sad and lost without any of them so I hope I will have them all for the rest of my life, or if that isn’t possible, then at least for “most” of it :)

Ya me too with my mom, I do get the feeling she does the best she can with everything though so I am grateful for the many things she’s done for me in my life :) It could always be far, far worse for sure. But ya it would be nice if she showed a bit more support, she’s just kinda not really a very “expressive” type of person. I think she’s maybe a bit shut down, I feel bad for her and think reading more and being a bit more interested in things in general would help her a lot. Can’t ever force a person to do that though so I try to just be as understanding as I can be about it. Thank you for your kind, caring empathy about it though I appreciate it very much :)

Aw wow well sorry to hear that most of the people you know don’t often visit you or call, that is not very nice of them so I hope they will be nicer about that soon. That’s great you’ve had a few friends for a long time, that must be a nice feeling. I definitely don’t have many at all but I’ve always been a bit of a loner anyway so I guess it’s fine. Yup you’re so right about it being good to have people to rely on, for sure it is.

Aw sorry to hear about the glass of water spilling not just once, but then again right after. I can relate to that kind of “annoying” stuff happening, I was doing so much stuff like that the first day I got to my sis’s (on Fri eve) it was so annoying. I kept dropping so many things and had been thinking a similar kind of thing (but maybe a bit harsher, lol) like - “wtf is wrong with me anyway?!” Ya I was pretty exasperated with myself. Luckily my sis is naturally nice, understanding and non-judgmental and she reminded me I had just done the long, 4+ hour long trip over there and was probably quite tired. She was very right about that, was so glad to be “done” with the trip getting there lol :p
 
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JMG said:
I so completely agree about the world needing more kindness, absolutely! :) Well I am glad we are like that at least, and hopefully in the coming years and decades more and more people will recognize their own power in making a big difference by being more like that too. I like being able to help others too for sure. Yup you’re so right that you never know what someone is going through and how much even a small gesture can make a big impact for them.

Aw wow well thank you for saying that with me helping you feel comforted, you help me feel comforted too for sure :) I agree that being comforting is a very good quality to have, especially these days. Ya I’m very grateful for my rl friends and the few online friends I have as well, feels like I’d be quite sad and lost without any of them so I hope I will have them all for the rest of my life, or if that isn’t possible, then at least for “most” of it :)

Ya me too with my mom, I do get the feeling she does the best she can with everything though so I am grateful for the many things she’s done for me in my life :) It could always be far, far worse for sure. But ya it would be nice if she showed a bit more support, she’s just kinda not really a very “expressive” type of person. I think she’s maybe a bit shut down, I feel bad for her and think reading more and being a bit more interested in things in general would help her a lot. Can’t ever force a person to do that though so I try to just be as understanding as I can be about it. Thank you for your kind, caring empathy about it though I appreciate it very much :)

Aw wow well sorry to hear that most of the people you know don’t often visit you or call, that is not very nice of them so I hope they will be nicer about that soon. That’s great you’ve had a few friends for a long time, that must be a nice feeling. I definitely don’t have many at all but I’ve always been a bit of a loner anyway so I guess it’s fine. Yup you’re so right about it being good to have people to rely on, for sure it is.

Aw sorry to hear about the glass of water spilling not just once, but then again right after. I can relate to that kind of “annoying” stuff happening, I was doing so much stuff like that the first day I got to my sis’s (on Fri eve) it was so annoying. I kept dropping so many things and had been thinking a similar kind of thing (but maybe a bit harsher, lol) like - “wtf is wrong with me anyway?!” Ya I was pretty exasperated with myself. Luckily my sis is naturally nice, understanding and non-judgmental and she reminded me I had just done the long, 4+ hour long trip over there and was probably quite tired. She was very right about that, was so glad to be “done” with the trip getting there lol :p
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It seems like kindness is less common as time goes on, but hopefully it will make a resurgence at some point. I'm happy to hear that I am able to make you feel comforted. I often do question if I help anyone at all, but I'm glad to see that I do make some type of positive impact. I hope that you will have lifelong friends too because it's unique, I mean I don't see many friendships lasting that long anymore. So it is special when it happens.

Oh I see, well she might care but she probably finds it hard to express her feelings. I think my mom can be like that sometimes too. And you kind of learn how to live life from your parents, and sometimes it can be hard to change things that have been ingrained into your mind. I've always been a loner too, at least people didn't generally want to take the time to get to know me. So I mostly keep to myself except for the people that I know pretty well.

That happens to me a lot, probably good that I buy plastic things now so a bunch of stuff doesn't get broken anymore. :D I'm glad that she is understanding, and yeah sometimes accidents happen so you should try not to be too hard on yourself.
 
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