Would you rather?

[Witty_Sarcasm]

Yup, for sure, but ignorant people by definition are usually not the most intelligent bunch lol, so I try to just remind myself of the source. He was definitely a grumpy and kinda miserable guy so I kinda pitied him more than anything. Ya when people are nice about it and even apologize then that always feels much kinder for sure. No need to “shame” someone for how they naturally are imo. Yup exactly about it being nice when people are considerate

Yup, I agree with what you said about the strong startle response, and that it comes from various factors. Ya he definitely wasn’t really very nice, and I agree I’m glad I rarely had to talk to or interact with him overall. Cool about liking handmade cards too, and glad you have some you’ve kept from people. I have some too, mostly from family members but some from friends too, and ya I definitely treasure them and will keep them forever.

Hmm, hard one because both are rare and I would love to see both, but I’ll pick northern lights.

Would you rather ride a donkey or a pony?

You're right about that lol, because they are ignorant and refuse to become more knowledgeable. A truly intelligent person realizes that they can always learn more things. Yeah, it must be a bitch to go through life being angry all the time, so glad I'm not like that. I have too many keepsakes from over the years, especially cards and letters and things. I have 2 containers full so far

A pony but both would be fun.

Would you rather get a suntan outside or in a tanning bed?

 

[JMG]

You're right about that lol, because they are ignorant and refuse to become more knowledgeable. A truly intelligent person realizes that they can always learn more things. Yeah, it must be a bitch to go through life being angry all the time, so glad I'm not like that. I have too many keepsakes from over the years, especially cards and letters and things. I have 2 containers full so far

A pony but both would be fun.

Would you rather get a suntan outside or in a tanning bed?

Yup, exactly about the ignorant people not having much interest in learning and becoming more knowledgeable about things. Their loss for sure. Agreed about being glad to not be going through life angry all the time, must be quite miserable indeed for those who live in such a way.

Wow, 2 containers full of keepsakes, cards and letters, that’s awesome though! Happy for you on that for sure. Most keepsakes I have are just things I’ve bought myself lol, I have some nice, precious and treasured things that I’ve been given from others as well though.

Hmm, well either way would put me at potential risk for skin cancer which I’d really prefer not to get (but damn would having a nice tan sure help me out a LOT in the romance department I’m sure) but ok I will pick tanning bed.

Would you rather only experience rainy, mild weather, or only experience sunny, mild weather for the rest of your life?

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

Yup, exactly about the ignorant people not having much interest in learning and becoming more knowledgeable about things. Their loss for sure. Agreed about being glad to not be going through life angry all the time, must be quite miserable indeed for those who live in such a way.

Wow, 2 containers full of keepsakes, cards and letters, that’s awesome though! Happy for you on that for sure. Most keepsakes I have are just things I’ve bought myself lol, I have some nice, precious and treasured things that I’ve been given from others as well though.

Hmm, well either way would put me at potential risk for skin cancer which I’d really prefer not to get (but damn would having a nice tan sure help me out a LOT in the romance department I’m sure) but ok I will pick tanning bed.

Would you rather only experience rainy, mild weather, or only experience sunny, mild weather for the rest of your life?

People that are open minded enough can sometimes be willing to change their outlook on things they might be wrong about, but ignorant people will double down and that's why they kind of suck lol. Yeah it's a lot, I find it hard to get rid of any of them though because it's nice to go through them. I like being pale to be honest, well maybe not like it all the time but it's unique. And I'm sure you look great as you are

Sunny and mild weather, but it might get kind of dry after a while lol.

Would you rather be a musician or singer if you could?

 

[JMG]

People that are open minded enough can sometimes be willing to change their outlook on things they might be wrong about, but ignorant people will double down and that's why they kind of suck lol. Yeah it's a lot, I find it hard to get rid of any of them though because it's nice to go through them. I like being pale to be honest, well maybe not like it all the time but it's unique. And I'm sure you look great as you are

Sunny and mild weather, but it might get kind of dry after a while lol.

Would you rather be a musician or singer if you could?

Agreed about the ignorant people vs open minded people thing for sure. Lol about “that’s why they kinda suck” yup I agree with that too for sure. I understand about it being hard to get rid of any of them, it’s the same for me. Ya I’d probably be fine being pale if some of my other features went with such paleness better, but with how they are, ya having a really nice tan would help me out a LOT with guys for sure I think.

Aw thanks for saying you’re sure I look great as I am, would be much easier to believe that if it seemed there were any guys interested in me romantically, but I’ll still do my best to believe that I maybe look fairly ok enough.

I’d rather be a musician cos I’d be way too nervous to sing in front of people lol :p

Would you rather eat raw carrots or raw celery?

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

Agreed about the ignorant people vs open minded people thing for sure. Lol about “that’s why they kinda suck” yup I agree with that too for sure. I understand about it being hard to get rid of any of them, it’s the same for me. Ya I’d probably be fine being pale if some of my other features went with such paleness better, but with how they are, ya having a really nice tan would help me out a LOT with guys for sure I think.

Aw thanks for saying you’re sure I look great as I am, would be much easier to believe that if it seemed there were any guys interested in me romantically, but I’ll still do my best to believe that I maybe look fairly ok enough.

I’d rather be a musician cos I’d be way too nervous to sing in front of people lol :p

Would you rather eat raw carrots or raw celery?

Well I'm sure that you look great regardless of not having a tan and guys might just be idiots. You have a lot of good qualities for sure. I get that though because I don't get much attention either and it can be hard.

Raw carrots because raw celery is weird lol.

Would you rather be able to control fire or water?

 

[JMG]

Well I'm sure that you look great regardless of not having a tan and guys might just be idiots. You have a lot of good qualities for sure. I get that though because I don't get much attention either and it can be hard.

Raw carrots because raw celery is weird lol.

Would you rather be able to control fire or water?

Thank you, that’s nice of you to say Ya I agree some guys can be idiots for sure, especially in my area it seems. Maybe it’s for the best anyway, definitely don’t want to have to deal with any kind of nonsense if it can just be avoided instead.

Thanks for saying you think I have a lot of good qualities though, I think you have a lot of good qualities too. Ya you’re definitely right about the lack of attention thing being hard, one good thing about it though is assuming I have another 40 years on this planet, in my “old” years at least I won’t have to feel the pain of “missing” whatever attention I might have “once gotten” cos I never got it to begin with. So nothing to miss at least, which is a good and positive thing Look at me, being an eternal optimist and all, lol :p

Agreed about raw celery (celery period really lol) being weird :p

I’d rather be able to control water, mostly cos I dunno that I’d trust myself with fire. It can so easily be destructive imo.

Would you rather drink pineapple juice or orange juice?

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

Thank you, that’s nice of you to say Ya I agree some guys can be idiots for sure, especially in my area it seems. Maybe it’s for the best anyway, definitely don’t want to have to deal with any kind of nonsense if it can just be avoided instead.

Thanks for saying you think I have a lot of good qualities though, I think you have a lot of good qualities too. Ya you’re definitely right about the lack of attention thing being hard, one good thing about it though is assuming I have another 40 years on this planet, in my “old” years at least I won’t have to feel the pain of “missing” whatever attention I might have “once gotten” cos I never got it to begin with. So nothing to miss at least, which is a good and positive thing Look at me, being an eternal optimist and all, lol :p

Agreed about raw celery (celery period really lol) being weird :p

I’d rather be able to control water, mostly cos I dunno that I’d trust myself with fire. It can so easily be destructive imo.

Would you rather drink pineapple juice or orange juice?

I think people in general can be idiots and don't know what they are missing. They pass up getting to know worthwhile people in favor of shallow connections, but thankfully everyone is not like that. Aww well I don't think you'll have a lack of attention forever, it just takes finding the right person but I know sometimes that can be like a needle in a haystack and a pain. But I hope someday we will both be able to find what we are looking for.

Orange but both are good.

Would you rather star in a music video or a short movie?

 

[JMG]

I think people in general can be idiots and don't know what they are missing. They pass up getting to know worthwhile people in favor of shallow connections, but thankfully everyone is not like that. Aww well I don't think you'll have a lack of attention forever, it just takes finding the right person but I know sometimes that can be like a needle in a haystack and a pain. But I hope someday we will both be able to find what we are looking for.

Orange but both are good.

Would you rather star in a music video or a short movie?

Lol yup, that does often seem to be the case, regardless of gender. Glad there are at least some exceptions though yup, and hopefully one day they will be far more common and much less “rare” like they seem to be today.

Thank you for saying that about thinking I won’t have a lack of attention forever, you have far more hope for that for me than I do, but I’m working on being more positive and hopeful about that for myself. Yup exactly that it just takes finding the right person, and ya I agree that it can be quite a hard thing to find. I hope we’ll both soon be able to find what we’re looking for too, that’d be awesome for sure

I’d rather star in a music video cos then at least I wouldn’t have any spoken lines and could just be dancing and lip syncing which seems like it’d be kinda fun :p

Would you rather walk on a really windy day or a really rainy day?

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

Lol yup, that does often seem to be the case, regardless of gender. Glad there are at least some exceptions though yup, and hopefully one day they will be far more common and much less “rare” like they seem to be today.

Thank you for saying that about thinking I won’t have a lack of attention forever, you have far more hope for that for me than I do, but I’m working on being more positive and hopeful about that for myself. Yup exactly that it just takes finding the right person, and ya I agree that it can be quite a hard thing to find. I hope we’ll both soon be able to find what we’re looking for too, that’d be awesome for sure

I’d rather star in a music video cos then at least I wouldn’t have any spoken lines and could just be dancing and lip syncing which seems like it’d be kinda fun :p

Would you rather walk on a really windy day or a really rainy day?

It might be harder for you to see that because you are judging yourself harshly and you don't deserve that. But I know how that is because I tend to do the same and think in worst case scenarios. Yeah that does sound fun, maybe I'll have to make a music video now. :P

A really windy day, because at least I won't get drenched :P

Would you rather be able to see 100 years in the past or future?

 

[JMG]

It might be harder for you to see that because you are judging yourself harshly and you don't deserve that. But I know how that is because I tend to do the same and think in worst case scenarios. Yeah that does sound fun, maybe I'll have to make a music video now. :P

A really windy day, because at least I won't get drenched :P

Would you rather be able to see 100 years in the past or future?

Ya, maybe you’re right, thank you for your kind, caring support, encouragement and reassurance about that though I definitely appreciate that a lot and it means a lot to me I’m sorry you can relate about it but also glad that you understand.

Yup I can sometimes think in worst case scenarios too, I do my best to remind myself of the tools I’ve learned/read about over the years with “how to deal with those kinds of negative thoughts” but it can be a challenge at times for sure. Lol about the making a music video thing, that’d be awesome if you did that though

I’d pick the same with a windy day vs rainy day cos of at least not getting drenched lol. And for the 100 years in the past or future thing, I think I pick future because I am very curious to see “how things will be” 100 years from now. Kinda a hard one though cos going 100 years in the past would be a really neat thing to be able to see too.

Would you rather never be able to eat chocolate again or never be able to eat bread again?

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

Ya, maybe you’re right, thank you for your kind, caring support, encouragement and reassurance about that though I definitely appreciate that a lot and it means a lot to me I’m sorry you can relate about it but also glad that you understand.

Yup I can sometimes think in worst case scenarios too, I do my best to remind myself of the tools I’ve learned/read about over the years with “how to deal with those kinds of negative thoughts” but it can be a challenge at times for sure. Lol about the making a music video thing, that’d be awesome if you did that though

I’d pick the same with a windy day vs rainy day cos of at least not getting drenched lol. And for the 100 years in the past or future thing, I think I pick future because I am very curious to see “how things will be” 100 years from now. Kinda a hard one though cos going 100 years in the past would be a really neat thing to be able to see too.

Would you rather never be able to eat chocolate again or never be able to eat bread again?

And I didn't mean it to come out critical sounding if it did. I don't think I made it sound that way and wanted to make sure anyway. But I just don't like to see you down on yourself when you don't deserve it. I know that can be an ingrained habit though because I tend to do the same. You get used to it after doing it for so long and it becomes like second nature. Yeah we could make a video about iridescent aliens and pink queens, should be nice I think :P I am curious to see things in the future too and hope they will get better.

Bread, because I'm not going to live without chocolate lol.

Would you rather go on the Ferris wheel or bumper cars?

 

[JMG]

And I didn't mean it to come out critical sounding if it did. I don't think I made it sound that way and wanted to make sure anyway. But I just don't like to see you down on yourself when you don't deserve it. I know that can be an ingrained habit though because I tend to do the same. You get used to it after doing it for so long and it becomes like second nature. Yeah we could make a video about iridescent aliens and pink queens, should be nice I think :P I am curious to see things in the future too and hope they will get better.

Bread, because I'm not going to live without chocolate lol.

Would you rather go on the Ferris wheel or bumper cars?

Aw no, it definitely didn’t come out sounding critical at all I understand that you don’t want to see me down on myself, thank you for caring and saying I don’t deserve that, I appreciate it Sorry you sometimes do the same, you definitely don’t deserve that either. I understand it can be a hard habit to break, I hope it will get easier soon

That sounds great about the video with iridescent aliens and pink queens, such a fun and fab idea, love it! Glad you’re curious to see things in the future too, and ya I think they will get better (hopefully)

I’d rather go on bumper cars cos the height of the ferris wheel freaks me out a bit lol.

Would you rather eat almonds or peanuts?

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

Aw no, it definitely didn’t come out sounding critical at all I understand that you don’t want to see me down on myself, thank you for caring and saying I don’t deserve that, I appreciate it Sorry you sometimes do the same, you definitely don’t deserve that either. I understand it can be a hard habit to break, I hope it will get easier soon

That sounds great about the video with iridescent aliens and pink queens, such a fun and fab idea, love it! Glad you’re curious to see things in the future too, and ya I think they will get better (hopefully)

I’d rather go on bumper cars cos the height of the ferris wheel freaks me out a bit lol.

Would you rather eat almonds or peanuts?

Ok good, just wanted to make sure because I might do that accidentally at times and wanted to make sure it wasn't that way. I guess it's harder for me to see other people down on themselves than it is to do the same to myself. It just seems easier somehow to put myself down, even though I shouldn't. I wouldn't do it to others, but sometimes I feel like I deserve it somehow, even though I don't. Yeah the Ferris wheel can be pretty high, besides I like smashing into people :P

Almonds, especially the wasabi or other flavored ones, but both are good.

Would you rather wear lipstick or lipgloss?

 

[MisterBGone]

both,
or neither...

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

both,
or neither...

Yeah I didn't peg you as the type to want to wear either, honestly...

 

[JMG]

Ok good, just wanted to make sure because I might do that accidentally at times and wanted to make sure it wasn't that way. I guess it's harder for me to see other people down on themselves than it is to do the same to myself. It just seems easier somehow to put myself down, even though I shouldn't. I wouldn't do it to others, but sometimes I feel like I deserve it somehow, even though I don't. Yeah the Ferris wheel can be pretty high, besides I like smashing into people :P

Almonds, especially the wasabi or other flavored ones, but both are good.

Would you rather wear lipstick or lipgloss?

Oh damn, this post was posted almost 2 weeks ago! :o So sorry, it’s been partly stress/tiredness, and partly binge watching a 10 season show on Netflix the whole month lol. I finished it yesterday though so will have more time (and hopefully energy!) to post a bit more here again. I don’t think it’s very healthy to binge watch shows, especially ones that can be a bit violent, should probably not do that again lol :p Anyway - thanks again for being such a considerate person, I appreciate that and wish more people would be that way too I understand about it being easier to put yourself down than others, I guess that saying about people being their “own worst critics” is just really true sometimes. I hope it’ll get easier for us both though Aw you definitely don’t deserve to ever be put down though, only the complete opposite! Encouraged, supported, reassured, accepted and every other good/positive thing only

Lol about liking smashing into people, ya it can be a fun thing with those bumper cars. It just always makes me laugh whether I bump into someone or they bump into me cos it’s so silly and not a thing you’d ever do in “real life” (least not “intentionally” hopefully lol) so ya I always liked the “surreal” nature of them for sure, lotsa fun

I’d rather wear lipgloss, I rarely wear either though. :p

Would you rather be a main character in a tv show, or an extra in a movie?

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

Oh damn, this post was posted almost 2 weeks ago! :o So sorry, it’s been partly stress/tiredness, and partly binge watching a 10 season show on Netflix the whole month lol. I finished it yesterday though so will have more time (and hopefully energy!) to post a bit more here again. I don’t think it’s very healthy to binge watch shows, especially ones that can be a bit violent, should probably not do that again lol :p Anyway - thanks again for being such a considerate person, I appreciate that and wish more people would be that way too I understand about it being easier to put yourself down than others, I guess that saying about people being their “own worst critics” is just really true sometimes. I hope it’ll get easier for us both though Aw you definitely don’t deserve to ever be put down though, only the complete opposite! Encouraged, supported, reassured, accepted and every other good/positive thing only

Lol about liking smashing into people, ya it can be a fun thing with those bumper cars. It just always makes me laugh whether I bump into someone or they bump into me cos it’s so silly and not a thing you’d ever do in “real life” (least not “intentionally” hopefully lol) so ya I always liked the “surreal” nature of them for sure, lotsa fun

I’d rather wear lipgloss, I rarely wear either though. :p

Would you rather be a main character in a tv show, or an extra in a movie?

That's ok, I was a bit concerned to be honest but I didn't want to be too annoying if you were going through something and would rather be left alone. That must be a really good show then, I haven't binge watched anything in a while but I haven't found anything that interesting lately. Thank you, I think that you deserve to be encouraged and supported and all of those good things too. I think everyone does, unless they are really evil or something. Yeah it's fun because that's the only time you can crash into someone with a car and it's accepted :P I like lipgloss and chapstick too because of all the flavors.

A main character but depends on what type of show it is.

Would you rather be telepathic or telekinetic?

 

[JMG]

That's ok, I was a bit concerned to be honest but I didn't want to be too annoying if you were going through something and would rather be left alone. That must be a really good show then, I haven't binge watched anything in a while but I haven't found anything that interesting lately. Thank you, I think that you deserve to be encouraged and supported and all of those good things too. I think everyone does, unless they are really evil or something. Yeah it's fun because that's the only time you can crash into someone with a car and it's accepted :P I like lipgloss and chapstick too because of all the flavors.

A main character but depends on what type of show it is.

Would you rather be telepathic or telekinetic?

Aw sorry, I definitely didn’t mean to make you feel concerned, just had so little energy for anything else other than my games and the show lol. It was a show you had to pay attention on or very important things would be missed lol. Definitely not a very “light” show, it had some funny moments though, and James Spader is always a delight for sure

Anyway - aw no you wouldn’t have been annoying to say something, but I understand cos I’d maybe feel the same if it was the other way around. I usually will post a message on someone’s profile just being like “hey, noticed you haven’t been posting as much lately, hope you’re ok!” or something like that. Maybe that would “annoy” some people, but it definitely would never annoy me anyway Ya it was a good show, and ya I really don’t think binge watching is a good thing to do lol. That’s just me though and I know lotsa people like it and do it without it messing with them too much, guess I’m just not really one of them lol.

Aw thank you, glad you think I deserve those good and positive things too, that definitely means a lot to me I agree that everyone deserves that too except for extremely mean/evil kinds of people lol. Lol yup exactly with those bumper cars being the only time you can crash into people and have it be acceptable lol. Ya the flavors of lipgloss and chapsticks are cool and fun for sure

Hmm, hard one cos I can see how both could be beneficial, but I will pick telekinetic cos with telepathy there’s a lot more of a “downside” to that one lol (ie - knowing bad/hurtful things people might be thinking about you and stuff like that lol).

Would you rather read a long but interesting book/story, or a short but boring one?

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

Aw sorry, I definitely didn’t mean to make you feel concerned, just had so little energy for anything else other than my games and the show lol. It was a show you had to pay attention on or very important things would be missed lol. Definitely not a very “light” show, it had some funny moments though, and James Spader is always a delight for sure

Anyway - aw no you wouldn’t have been annoying to say something, but I understand cos I’d maybe feel the same if it was the other way around. I usually will post a message on someone’s profile just being like “hey, noticed you haven’t been posting as much lately, hope you’re ok!” or something like that. Maybe that would “annoy” some people, but it definitely would never annoy me anyway Ya it was a good show, and ya I really don’t think binge watching is a good thing to do lol. That’s just me though and I know lotsa people like it and do it without it messing with them too much, guess I’m just not really one of them lol.

Aw thank you, glad you think I deserve those good and positive things too, that definitely means a lot to me I agree that everyone deserves that too except for extremely mean/evil kinds of people lol. Lol yup exactly with those bumper cars being the only time you can crash into people and have it be acceptable lol. Ya the flavors of lipgloss and chapsticks are cool and fun for sure

Hmm, hard one cos I can see how both could be beneficial, but I will pick telekinetic cos with telepathy there’s a lot more of a “downside” to that one lol (ie - knowing bad/hurtful things people might be thinking about you and stuff like that lol).

Would you rather read a long but interesting book/story, or a short but boring one?

Oh no don't feel bad, I tend to be concerned about people no matter what. My mom was gone in the store too long the other night and I went and looked for her because I was getting anxious. So I do tend to worry about things a lot. I haven't had much energy lately anyway and feel like I should be doing more. Yeah I thought you might be busy too, I didn't want to be seen as clingy. I don't think I am but people have thought that in the past. I don't even know how many flavors of chapsticks there are but now I want more :P Right, and I think telekinesis would be nice because you can move things without getting up lol.

A long but interesting one, it will hold my interest no matter how long it is if it's good enough.

Would you rather have a lifetime supply of your favorite food or favorite beverage?

 

[JMG]

Oh no don't feel bad, I tend to be concerned about people no matter what. My mom was gone in the store too long the other night and I went and looked for her because I was getting anxious. So I do tend to worry about things a lot. I haven't had much energy lately anyway and feel like I should be doing more. Yeah I thought you might be busy too, I didn't want to be seen as clingy. I don't think I am but people have thought that in the past. I don't even know how many flavors of chapsticks there are but now I want more :P Right, and I think telekinesis would be nice because you can move things without getting up lol.

A long but interesting one, it will hold my interest no matter how long it is if it's good enough.

Would you rather have a lifetime supply of your favorite food or favorite beverage?

Aw ok thank you, I appreciate your kind and thoughtful reassurance about it a lot I understand about being concerned about people no matter what though for sure cos I’m like that too. Aw that’s sweet about being concerned about your mom when she was gone in the store too long, and ya I definitely understand about worrying about things a lot. Maybe it just comes with being a kind and caring person or something lol.

I can relate about not having much energy lately too for sure, it’s been freaking me out, making me feel guilty and also making me worry that I’m regressing (or at least, not progressing enough or at all really lol). It is a comfort in a way to not feel so “alone” with that, I think it’s been disturbing and upsetting me more than I wanted to admit to myself. Hopefully it’s nothing more than “the time of year it is” in terms of it being dark so often and all that. I hope we’ll both have more energy soon though

Ya it really was a combo of “being busy” and also the stress/tiredness and that’s about it really, nothing more. But I’d never think you were clingy if you said something about it, no way! It always feels nice when someone notices, and better still when they say something about it and express caring about it Sorry people in the past have said they thought you were clingy though, sounds like they just didn’t know how to appreciate such a wonderful quality properly imo. Lol ya I’m sure there’s countless flavors of chapstick lol, every time I go to the store I purposely avoid that aisle cos I know I’d get sucked into getting “another one” and I don’t need more of them, probably have a lifetimes supply of them at this point lol :p

Agreed on telekinesis, that would be nice but maybe also not in a way cos then I would get even less physical activity lol. Life obviously knew somehow that such an ability would only make us humans “the laziest species on earth” lmao :p

I’d rather have a lifetime supply of my fave food for sure, and that food would be roasted seaweed (of course, lol)

Would you rather ride on a camel or a donkey?